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The bottom line w/ me on this subject matter is honest,open,straight forwardness right from the onset of your communication w/ this other person.Otherwise U are filling up this hot air balloon w/ false truths,expectations,exaggerations,promises,etc.cleverly concealed beneath some guise of deception.This dimwitted & dishonest approach generally leads up to the same inevitable outcome.Do I have preferences? Of course I do & they are plainly & clearly stated within my profile.I will say that my preferences are not based solely on superficial attributes however there must be a pleasant attraction between us two for obvious reasons otherwise the sexual component of your relationship later will certainly be compromised.Do I have flaws? Of course I do.And I'm equally certain that she possesses some likewise.At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship.And more importantly what I don't want in my next relationship for I have learned well from sheer experience that nearly destroyed me financially,physically & emotionally.Hence the saying"if we are not taught by our past we are doomed to repeat it".If my words have left U w/ the impression that I am shallow then so be it for I can assure that I will not be concerned nor lose sleep over your indifference.There lies no limitations or time constraints to-wards finding my S/O as far as I'm concerned.I've been here nearly 3 yrs.w/ some wonderful friends & I find the forums to be highly entertaining.Within me lies hope that we will one day find one another but until then I shall bide my time w/o any regrets,false hope or disillusionment.Godspeed! Cy. 
another person that always knows what to say ((((((((((((((CYBUD))))))))) 
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The bottom line w/ me on this subject matter is honest,open,straight forwardness right from the onset of your communication w/ this other person.Otherwise U are filling up this hot air balloon w/ false truths,expectations,exaggerations,promises,etc.cleverly concealed beneath some guise of deception.This dimwitted & dishonest approach generally leads up to the same inevitable outcome.Do I have preferences? Of course I do & they are plainly & clearly stated within my profile.I will say that my preferences are not based solely on superficial attributes however there must be a pleasant attraction between us two for obvious reasons otherwise the sexual component of your relationship later will certainly be compromised.Do I have flaws? Of course I do.And I'm equally certain that she possesses some likewise.At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship.And more importantly what I don't want in my next relationship for I have learned well from sheer experience that nearly destroyed me financially,physically & emotionally.Hence the saying"if we are not taught by our past we are doomed to repeat it".If my words have left U w/ the impression that I am shallow then so be it for I can assure that I will not be concerned nor lose sleep over your indifference.There lies no limitations or time constraints to-wards finding my S/O as far as I'm concerned.I've been here nearly 3 yrs.w/ some wonderful friends & I find the forums to be highly entertaining.Within me lies hope that we will one day find one another but until then I shall bide my time w/o any regrets,false hope or disillusionment.Godspeed! Cy.
another person that always knows what to say ((((((((((((((CYBUD)))))))))
{{{{{{{S~77}}}}}}}My bearific friend till thee end.he-he.;)I hope U had a great day sweetie.Much Luv & Godspeed!Cy Go! Boston Bruins!! 
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The bottom line w/ me on this subject matter is honest,open,straight forwardness right from the onset of your communication w/ this other person.Otherwise U are filling up this hot air balloon w/ false truths,expectations,exaggerations,promises,etc.cleverly concealed beneath some guise of deception.This dimwitted & dishonest approach generally leads up to the same inevitable outcome.Do I have preferences? Of course I do & they are plainly & clearly stated within my profile.I will say that my preferences are not based solely on superficial attributes however there must be a pleasant attraction between us two for obvious reasons otherwise the sexual component of your relationship later will certainly be compromised.Do I have flaws? Of course I do.And I'm equally certain that she possesses some likewise.At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship.And more importantly what I don't want in my next relationship for I have learned well from sheer experience that nearly destroyed me financially,physically & emotionally.Hence the saying"if we are not taught by our past we are doomed to repeat it".If my words have left U w/ the impression that I am shallow then so be it for I can assure that I will not be concerned nor lose sleep over your indifference.There lies no limitations or time constraints to-wards finding my S/O as far as I'm concerned.I've been here nearly 3 yrs.w/ some wonderful friends & I find the forums to be highly entertaining.Within me lies hope that we will one day find one another but until then I shall bide my time w/o any regrets,false hope or disillusionment.Godspeed! Cy.
another person that always knows what to say ((((((((((((((CYBUD)))))))))
{{{{{{{S~77}}}}}}}My bearific friend till thee end.he-he.;)I hope U had a great day sweetie.Much Luv & Godspeed!Cy Go! Boston Bruins!!
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Maybe wanting a partner that is beautiful, has a nice body, maybe it was defined by someone as shallow - but I dont think that is shallow.
I want females that are beautiful. They usually look fairly similar. Tan, in shape athletic bodies. Oh well. Sue me. |
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The first step in recovering from shallowholicisim is admitting you are one.
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I like my men the way I like my food........... Beautifully laid out and pleasing to the eye. No, I am not going to pretend that the buck-eyed, snaggle toothed, dumb-as-they-come, nerd who tries to pick me up is "my type" I will not date a guy just because he is "nice" inside, apperance is very important.Most of us would not buy a product with flawed wrapping, so why settle for some miserable looking sap?
Tell the truth, do not pretend you like the same things I do just to get my attention. Quoting Cy..... "At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship" On the intelligence front, please,please, at all cost have the decency to string words together to form a conversation! If I, at age 50 keep myself in shape (mentally and physically) then I don't see why someone I date cannot meet me halfway. Of course I have flaws (we all have) but stating what you do or do not want is NOT a crime. Am I shallow?............. |
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Edited by
Ladylid2012
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Sun 09/27/09 03:48 PM
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I like my men the way I like my food........... Beautifully laid out and pleasing to the eye. No, I am not going to pretend that the buck-eyed, snaggle toothed, dumb-as-they-come, nerd who tries to pick me up is "my type" I will not date a guy just because he is "nice" inside, apperance is very important.Most of us would not buy a product with flawed wrapping, so why settle for some miserable looking sap? Tell the truth, do not pretend you like the same things I do just to get my attention. Quoting Cy..... "At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship" On the intelligence front, please,please, at all cost have the decency to string words together to form a conversation! If I, at age 50 keep myself in shape (mentally and physically) then I don't see why someone I date cannot meet me halfway. Of course I have flaws (we all have) but stating what you do or do not want is NOT a crime. Am I shallow?............. Well according to what has been posted in the forums on this subject then yes, you would be considered shallow...and so am I..Rock on! 
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ALL of us have a list, whether it is written/spelled out or the inner, secret one ...
None of us would be here otherwise! We're obviously not THAT easy or desperate, in fact quite picky and entitled to be! We are ALL master of all we survey ... w/ the rights therein inherently indisputable!!! I'm not settling for less than the authentic dream; who is in the market for the misery of less than genuine fulfillment ??? I would hope none of us! Thoughts REALLY are things ... bring towards you all that you believe in and desire ... accept no substitution: DREAM BIG!!! It IS good to have an end goal ...  ... !
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I like my men the way I like my food........... Beautifully laid out and pleasing to the eye. No, I am not going to pretend that the buck-eyed, snaggle toothed, dumb-as-they-come, nerd who tries to pick me up is "my type" I will not date a guy just because he is "nice" inside, apperance is very important.Most of us would not buy a product with flawed wrapping, so why settle for some miserable looking sap? Tell the truth, do not pretend you like the same things I do just to get my attention. Quoting Cy..... "At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship" On the intelligence front, please,please, at all cost have the decency to string words together to form a conversation! If I, at age 50 keep myself in shape (mentally and physically) then I don't see why someone I date cannot meet me halfway. Of course I have flaws (we all have) but stating what you do or do not want is NOT a crime. Am I shallow?............. Well according to what has been posted in the forums on this subject then yes, you would be considered shallow...and so am I..Rock on!
Over the past week I have had guys my age "hit" on me, I ran the opposite way! What IS wrong with these men? Haven't they heard of "heart health?" The sight of a beer gut hanging over a trouser waist band is quite off-putting. 
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I like my men the way I like my food........... Beautifully laid out and pleasing to the eye. No, I am not going to pretend that the buck-eyed, snaggle toothed, dumb-as-they-come, nerd who tries to pick me up is "my type" I will not date a guy just because he is "nice" inside, apperance is very important.Most of us would not buy a product with flawed wrapping, so why settle for some miserable looking sap? Tell the truth, do not pretend you like the same things I do just to get my attention. Quoting Cy..... "At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship" On the intelligence front, please,please, at all cost have the decency to string words together to form a conversation! If I, at age 50 keep myself in shape (mentally and physically) then I don't see why someone I date cannot meet me halfway. Of course I have flaws (we all have) but stating what you do or do not want is NOT a crime. Am I shallow?............. what if the only thing he has going for him is he has a big package.... of roses and chocolates? |
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what if the only thing he has going for him is he has a big package.. of roses and chocolates? How can I resist?  
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Sun 09/27/09 03:56 PM
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I like my men the way I like my food........... Beautifully laid out and pleasing to the eye. No, I am not going to pretend that the buck-eyed, snaggle toothed, dumb-as-they-come, nerd who tries to pick me up is "my type" I will not date a guy just because he is "nice" inside, apperance is very important.Most of us would not buy a product with flawed wrapping, so why settle for some miserable looking sap? Tell the truth, do not pretend you like the same things I do just to get my attention. Quoting Cy..... "At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship" On the intelligence front, please,please, at all cost have the decency to string words together to form a conversation! If I, at age 50 keep myself in shape (mentally and physically) then I don't see why someone I date cannot meet me halfway. Of course I have flaws (we all have) but stating what you do or do not want is NOT a crime. Am I shallow?............. what if the only thing he has going for him is he has a big package.... of roses and chocolates? That's not enough -- it has to be the entire package!
Besides, not all girls like chocolate!  
Would you take a girl that ONLY had big boobs and a six pack of beer? 
Ok, maybe the wrong question for this crowd!
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I like my men the way I like my food........... Beautifully laid out and pleasing to the eye. No, I am not going to pretend that the buck-eyed, snaggle toothed, dumb-as-they-come, nerd who tries to pick me up is "my type" I will not date a guy just because he is "nice" inside, apperance is very important.Most of us would not buy a product with flawed wrapping, so why settle for some miserable looking sap? Tell the truth, do not pretend you like the same things I do just to get my attention. Quoting Cy..... "At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship" On the intelligence front, please,please, at all cost have the decency to string words together to form a conversation! If I, at age 50 keep myself in shape (mentally and physically) then I don't see why someone I date cannot meet me halfway. Of course I have flaws (we all have) but stating what you do or do not want is NOT a crime. Am I shallow?............. what if the only thing he has going for him is he has a big package.... of roses and chocolates? That's not enough -- it has to be the entire package!
Besides, not all girls like chocolate!
Would you take a girl that ONLY had big boobs and a six pack of beer?
Ok, maybe the wrong question for this crowd!
well duh!
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what if the only thing he has going for him is he has a big package.. of roses and chocolates? How can I resist?
ok so now i just have to buy lots of chocolate and roses to pick up women.... |
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I like my men the way I like my food........... Beautifully laid out and pleasing to the eye. No, I am not going to pretend that the buck-eyed, snaggle toothed, dumb-as-they-come, nerd who tries to pick me up is "my type" I will not date a guy just because he is "nice" inside, apperance is very important.Most of us would not buy a product with flawed wrapping, so why settle for some miserable looking sap? Tell the truth, do not pretend you like the same things I do just to get my attention. Quoting Cy..... "At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship" On the intelligence front, please,please, at all cost have the decency to string words together to form a conversation! If I, at age 50 keep myself in shape (mentally and physically) then I don't see why someone I date cannot meet me halfway. Of course I have flaws (we all have) but stating what you do or do not want is NOT a crime. Am I shallow?............. what if the only thing he has going for him is he has a big package.... of roses and chocolates? That's not enough -- it has to be the entire package!
Besides, not all girls like chocolate!
Would you take a girl that ONLY had big boobs and a six pack of beer?
Ok, maybe the wrong question for this crowd!
well duh!
Well then -- I'm a 38D toting a six pack of Rolling Rock!
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is it my birthday?
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I like my men the way I like my food........... Beautifully laid out and pleasing to the eye. No, I am not going to pretend that the buck-eyed, snaggle toothed, dumb-as-they-come, nerd who tries to pick me up is "my type" I will not date a guy just because he is "nice" inside, apperance is very important.Most of us would not buy a product with flawed wrapping, so why settle for some miserable looking sap? Tell the truth, do not pretend you like the same things I do just to get my attention. Quoting Cy..... "At this point & age in my life I am completely aware of what I want & expect within a relationship" On the intelligence front, please,please, at all cost have the decency to string words together to form a conversation! If I, at age 50 keep myself in shape (mentally and physically) then I don't see why someone I date cannot meet me halfway. Of course I have flaws (we all have) but stating what you do or do not want is NOT a crime. Am I shallow?............. Damn Bonnie, now I'm hungry. 
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