Topic: ???What Do Men Really Want????
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Sun 09/27/09 02:11 PM

Thanks to some of you who "ACTUALLY" answered my Question....I guess I will just put all my focus into Finshing college an just go with the flow an not worry about dating


Good idea. An education is very important and will last forever.

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Sun 09/27/09 03:38 PM


Thanks to some of you who "ACTUALLY" answered my Question....I guess I will just put all my focus into Finshing college an just go with the flow an not worry about dating


Good idea. An education is very important and will last forever.

Thanks

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Sun 09/27/09 05:28 PM



Thanks to some of you who "ACTUALLY" answered my Question....I guess I will just put all my focus into Finshing college an just go with the flow an not worry about dating


Good idea. An education is very important and will last forever.

Thanks


You're welcome.flowerforyou

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Sun 09/27/09 05:30 PM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Sun 09/27/09 05:30 PM

what men want?

it changes

right now I want bacon

and pancakes



and right now I want a pack of cigarettes

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Sun 09/27/09 05:33 PM

Thanks to some of you who "ACTUALLY" answered my Question....I guess I will just put all my focus into Finshing college an just go with the flow an not worry about dating


Dont give up girl when you least expect it he will appear i just wish i knew what gay girls wanted!!!laugh laugh Anna x

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Sun 09/27/09 09:40 PM

Thanks to some of you who "ACTUALLY" answered my Question....I guess I will just put all my focus into Finshing college an just go with the flow an not worry about dating


Sorry, what was the question?

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Sun 09/27/09 10:03 PM

???What Do Men Really Want????
Okay I don't get it.Men say they want a women to be loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,like sports,that can cook,have her own money an everything but then you do find her,you try an test her to see if she is real!......Why?
Please explain to me what im doing wrong! I go to school,work an get really good pay,I workout. Love football & basketball but guys say "Im to good to be true"

Im lost please somebody tell me am I wrong for giving up on men? Or should I just wait it out?


I don't understand the question. It is too general and doesn't really address any particular issue. All guys say "You're too good to be true" and then dump you?

Maybe you are looking at the wrong kind of guys. Normal guys don't play games, they say what they mean. If you are certain that they are playing games, then they are players and using you for sex and/or money.

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Sun 09/27/09 10:22 PM
OMG....You know what just forget that I asked for help because one min your giving me advice an the next you telling me you don't understand my question Spidercmb

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Sun 09/27/09 10:35 PM
Edited by Spidercmb on Sun 09/27/09 10:48 PM

OMG....You know what just forget that I asked for help because one min your giving me advice an the next you telling me you don't understand my question Spidercmb



I didn't mean to offend you. I hope you will accept my apology.

I couldn't send you an email, because I'm too old, otherwise I would have.

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Sun 09/27/09 10:40 PM
Guys don't want women who have a bad attitude.

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Sun 09/27/09 11:09 PM
Edited by thickumz22 on Sun 09/27/09 11:11 PM
Okay here it is plain an simple: Im 22 year old female an loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,likes football&basketball,likes to cook,have her own money an everything. But it seems like when guys read my profile they tell me"I sound to good to be true"....."stop fronting that I can't be this real"........Please tell me Why are they saying this?What am I doing wrong that im still single?

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Sun 09/27/09 11:16 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 09/27/09 11:16 PM

Okay here it is plain an simple: Im 22 year old female an loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,likes football&basketball,likes to cook,have her own money an everything. But it seems like when guys read my profile they tell me"I sound to good to be true"....."stop fronting that I can't be this real"........Please tell me Why are they saying this?What am I doing wrong that im still single?


Maybe you are falling into the "friendship" zone or they are just not that into you but don't know HOW to tell you directly.

SOME guys can be wish-washy (just like SOME girls). winking

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Sun 09/27/09 11:17 PM

Okay here it is plain an simple: Im 22 year old female an loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,likes football&basketball,likes to cook,have her own money an everything. But it seems like when guys read my profile they tell me"I sound to good to be true"....."stop fronting that I can't be this real"........Please tell me Why are they saying this?What am I doing wrong that im still single?


It's simple. Guys your age ( hell...guys in general ) aren't used to finding a female who actually has a clue about sports. If she DOES know about sports, chances are she can't cook. If she CAN cook, chances are she isn't working.

I'm not saying this applies to all women. I'm not even saying it applies to most women.

All I am saying is that most guys are used to having to give up one thing to have another.

You are 22. Be patient. There is someone who will appreciate all those qualities about you. You'll just have to weed through a bunch of idiots to find him.

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Sun 09/27/09 11:18 PM

Okay here it is plain an simple: Im 22 year old female an loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,likes football&basketball,likes to cook,have her own money an everything. But it seems like when guys read my profile they tell me"I sound to good to be true"....."stop fronting that I can't be this real"........Please tell me Why are they saying this?What am I doing wrong that im still single?


If you are being yourself, you are doing nothing wrong except stressing yourself over what men want. We get what we settle for and you are too valuable to have anything less than what you want which should be someone who appreciates you as you are. Take this single time to enjoy loving you hon,,it will set the example for the RIGHT man when he comes along, and he is gonna love you too.

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Sun 09/27/09 11:23 PM
all i can honestly say is from my point of view the type of man i am i would say the same but if i had a chick like you by my side i would hold on to a good thing as long as i can:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: shades

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Sun 09/27/09 11:25 PM

all i can honestly say is from my point of view the type of man i am i would say the same but if i had a chick like you by my side i would hold on to a good thing as long as i can:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: shades
just from my point any way most chicks say the same about me

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Sun 09/27/09 11:56 PM
Edited by PK2 on Sun 09/27/09 11:58 PM


Case in point: Twenty minutes ago I got an email from a man not even 100 miles from me. I responded and told him I was getting snacks ready for the Charger game today in 5 hours and that my DOG and I were going to watch it. He wrote back and said it sounded like I had everything under control. Now, what the heck did that mean? noway


Exactly what he said. Women are always looking for nuance in men...it just doesn't exist. You gave your plan for the day and he complimented you, because he liked your plan. When you talk to men, imagine you are talking to a child. Children don't have nuance, they say what they mean. Men are the same way.


Isn't that the truth? They're always wondering what we mean. Most of us MEAN WHAT WE SAY. lol. Stop trying to figure it out.



Anyway, to the OP:
Being 22 and looking for men between 19-26 isn't gonna cut it.

Start looking for 24-34. They'll be more worth your time I believe.

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Mon 09/28/09 02:24 AM
I must say that is so true. If you can't accept someone for who they are and the way they are, then you need to keep looking. Can't change someone into something that they are not. Won't work, never does. Nobody does anything wrong, if they are themselves, someone is out there for them who will want to be with them. Takes alot of looking sometimes, but it happens. I am still looking but won't give up.

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Mon 09/28/09 02:29 AM
What kind of woman are you looking for? I can't find the kind of man I want because he doesn't exist anymore.

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Mon 09/28/09 02:51 AM
What do us men REALLY want?



for women to take a nap while we're watching sports....



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