Topic: ???What Do Men Really Want????
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Mon 09/28/09 03:06 AM

What do us men REALLY want?



for women to take a nap while we're watching sports....



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I love taking naps, especially during sports.....sounds great
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Mon 09/28/09 03:08 AM


What do us men REALLY want?



for women to take a nap while we're watching sports....



smokin smokin smokin



I love taking naps, especially during sports.....sounds great
drinker drinker



wow...how are you single?love love love

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Mon 09/28/09 03:17 AM



What do us men REALLY want?



for women to take a nap while we're watching sports....



smokin smokin smokin



I love taking naps, especially during sports.....sounds great
drinker drinker



wow...how are you single?love love love



I do not know why but I am
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Mon 09/28/09 03:20 AM
well a woman that will keep quiet during sports is every mans dream woman :wink: flowerforyou happy

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Mon 09/28/09 03:22 AM

well a woman that will keep quiet during sports is every mans dream woman :wink: flowerforyou happy



Wow that is easy, never knew that flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

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Mon 09/28/09 03:26 AM

???What Do Men Really Want????
Okay I don't get it.Men say they want a women to be loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,like sports,that can cook,have her own money an everything but then you do find her,you try an test her to see if she is real!......Why?
Please explain to me what im doing wrong! I go to school,work an get really good pay,I workout. Love football & basketball but guys say "Im to good to be true"

Im lost please somebody tell me am I wrong for giving up on men? Or should I just wait it out?


just because you might be all of those things and possess all of those characteristics, that doesn't necessarily mean that a mutual attraction is going to exist. just because a guy is a 'nice guy' it doesn't mean that women are going to be hanging all over him.

i think chemistry is a huge factor in what attracts people to others.

'you're too good to be true' is just a nice way of them telling you that they are not interested in you in 'that way'.

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Mon 09/28/09 03:52 AM


well a woman that will keep quiet during sports is every mans dream woman :wink: flowerforyou happy



Wow that is easy, never knew that flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou



now ya know flowerforyou :wink:

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Mon 09/28/09 03:54 AM
They just want us to understand them...........:heart:

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Mon 09/28/09 04:19 AM
Some of them would love the illusion of a relationship with no work on their part, I've known many men like that, gets old after a while....

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Mon 09/28/09 04:23 AM

Some of them would love the illusion of a relationship with no work on their part, I've known many men like that, gets old after a while....



Hmmm.......clarify more, I think I have been in this type of relationship frustrated
I like the word illusion

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Mon 09/28/09 04:28 AM


Some of them would love the illusion of a relationship with no work on their part, I've known many men like that, gets old after a while....



Hmmm.......clarify more, I think I have been in this type of relationship frustrated
I like the word illusion


Where there's nothing between you but everyone thinks there is, and it flatters him, so he goes along with it, and no matter how much you deny it, no one believes you. That's happened to me 3 times in my life, it's beyond retarded.

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Mon 09/28/09 04:39 AM



Some of them would love the illusion of a relationship with no work on their part, I've known many men like that, gets old after a while....



Hmmm.......clarify more, I think I have been in this type of relationship frustrated
I like the word illusion


Where there's nothing between you but everyone thinks there is, and it flatters him, so he goes along with it, and no matter how much you deny it, no one believes you. That's happened to me 3 times in my life, it's beyond retarded.


I have been in relationships when I realized I was doing all the work, I was not denying that I was in the relationship. Ok after I realize that I am doing everything then I of course leave the situation. I believe these men I am talking about had illusions of a "real" realtionship. It is really crazy.

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Mon 09/28/09 12:06 PM




Some of them would love the illusion of a relationship with no work on their part, I've known many men like that, gets old after a while....



Hmmm.......clarify more, I think I have been in this type of relationship frustrated
I like the word illusion


Where there's nothing between you but everyone thinks there is, and it flatters him, so he goes along with it, and no matter how much you deny it, no one believes you. That's happened to me 3 times in my life, it's beyond retarded.


I have been in relationships when I realized I was doing all the work, I was not denying that I was in the relationship. Ok after I realize that I am doing everything then I of course leave the situation. I believe these men I am talking about had illusions of a "real" realtionship. It is really crazy.


Yep, it is.flowerforyou

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Mon 09/28/09 08:00 PM
Thanks msharmony,JustAGuy2112,hitmanceo,PK2,Jen_422004,papersmile,Gossipmpm,Calleigh12,daytime, for helping me out with this problem.{I hope I spelled every bodies sn right}.......Thank you

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Mon 09/28/09 08:12 PM

???What Do Men Really Want????
Okay I don't get it.Men say they want a women to be loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,like sports,that can cook,have her own money an everything but then you do find her,you try an test her to see if she is real!......Why?
Please explain to me what im doing wrong! I go to school,work an get really good pay,I workout. Love football & basketball but guys say "Im to good to be true"

Im lost please somebody tell me am I wrong for giving up on men? Or should I just wait it out?

i can not speak for all men for there is alot of difference fromoneman to another but to be able to find someone who has a ambition to have a happy life and work together and meet 50-50 on things and just be thereselves instead of thinking they have to change to please i would give probally all i own

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Tue 09/29/09 02:52 AM
Hi thickumz, here's my spin, I want a woman who's honest from the BEGINNING! If you're an angry person then you better be one one the first date, if you're sweet and gentle, then you better hold true to that and not pull a Jeckyll and Hyde. If you're in touch with your sexuality and love sex, then you better not shut the faucet off after 2 or 3 months. The longer the relationship lasts especially one filled with ulterior motives, lies, and deceit, makes it all the more painful when it comes crashing to an end a few years down the road. I've been to Hell and back, and looked the Devil straight in the eye, so I consider myself an expert on the subject.

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Tue 09/29/09 03:09 AM

I have considered turning into a lesbian myself. I want a woman who will cook, clean and make me a sammich. Damn, I think Motown invaded my soul.
when you turn lesbian then three of us can paint the town redlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 09/29/09 03:42 AM


I have considered turning into a lesbian myself. I want a woman who will cook, clean and make me a sammich. Damn, I think Motown invaded my soul.
when you turn lesbian then three of us can paint the town redlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



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Tue 09/29/09 11:28 AM

Thanks msharmony,JustAGuy2112,hitmanceo,PK2,Jen_422004,papersmile,Gossipmpm,Calleigh12,daytime, for helping me out with this problem.{I hope I spelled every bodies sn right}.......Thank you


You're welcome.

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Tue 09/29/09 11:51 AM
So true in agreement with another in posting that states it's really to real it's case of can't believe I suppose .
For guy maybe just gave you up hard lines bud you just lost an oppertunity at what may have been true love.
Yes also both sexes do indeed do this oh my this can't be get scared in battling with emotions of ones own truth well it's here embrace it . Men and woman we all have different ways but much as in same like you stated someone who likes sports blah blah but really at end if day I think as we grow at end of day we really just wish happiness at times seek in all wrong places and when we get it we test it to ends of earth . Truth is there's no real explanation as to why guess in some aspect it's pushing buttons to see wheather or not how deep our love goes . As anything being pushed far enough will leave a huge distance between so just accept it next time and enjoy live and grow together as you know it should be .

Nice n happily ,Soubds as like fairytale well always have ups n downs though it's how we approach obsticles upon our way that let's us see the ever brightening light ahead .

Wish everyone well x ;-)