Topic: Why?
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Fri 09/25/09 09:05 AM
Why is it that when u tell ppl on here that u just want to be friends that they just stop talking to u? Dont you have to be friends before anything else??

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Fri 09/25/09 09:06 AM

Why is it that when u tell ppl on here that u just want to be friends that they just stop talking to u? Dont you have to be friends before anything else??


Don't know, don't care...mark them off the list of prospective friends and move on.

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Fri 09/25/09 09:06 AM
you would think so... drinker

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Fri 09/25/09 09:06 AM
Hello, welcome and good luck.

Yes, I believe before anything else one must be friends.

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Fri 09/25/09 09:07 AM


Why is it that when u tell ppl on here that u just want to be friends that they just stop talking to u? Dont you have to be friends before anything else??


Don't know, don't care...mark them off the list of prospective friends and move on.


I concur.

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Fri 09/25/09 09:08 AM

Why is it that when u tell ppl on here that u just want to be friends that they just stop talking to u? Dont you have to be friends before anything else??


I guess it depends on how you're saying it and what you're really looking for. Your handle would indicate you're looking for something more than friends. But I agree, you should start as friends. But if you say "I just want to be friends" I would take that as "I don't see us being anything more than friends".

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Fri 09/25/09 09:09 AM
They want the booty devil devil

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 09/25/09 09:09 AM

Why is it that when u tell ppl on here that u just want to be friends that they just stop talking to u? Dont you have to be friends before anything else??
:smile: I think they take that as a sign of rejection:smile:

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Fri 09/25/09 09:10 AM

They want the booty devil devil

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Fri 09/25/09 09:10 AM
not from me

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Fri 09/25/09 09:13 AM
but i tell them i n a nice way. I dont know why they would thake it as rejection. I just need to know ppl before i will plan to meet up with them

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Fri 09/25/09 09:18 AM


They want the booty devil devil



Dubby is right. If they were truly interested in more than booty, they'd keep chatting and getting to know you.

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Fri 09/25/09 09:25 AM
well all i can say is life goes on

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Fri 09/25/09 10:58 AM

Why is it that when u tell ppl on here that u just want to be friends that they just stop talking to u? Dont you have to be friends before anything else??


Maybe. But like I tell men all the time, I don't bang my friends, so I guess they figure you might have the same philosophy. Meaning no sex between you and them- ever. Sounds great to me, sounds bad to most people, though...laugh

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Fri 09/25/09 11:01 AM


Why is it that when u tell ppl on here that u just want to be friends that they just stop talking to u? Dont you have to be friends before anything else??


I guess it depends on how you're saying it and what you're really looking for. Your handle would indicate you're looking for something more than friends. But I agree, you should start as friends. But if you say "I just want to be friends" I would take that as "I don't see us being anything more than friends".


Sorry would have to agree with him on this fully........it all depends how you come off saying it and the way they took it...whoa

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Fri 09/25/09 12:06 PM
They just wanna peek at yer bewbs...

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Fri 09/25/09 12:11 PM
do you tell them that in the beginning.. i havent really had that problem... make it known in the beginning and then if they leave they aren't worth it anyways.

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Fri 09/25/09 12:16 PM
Edited by downhomechik on Fri 09/25/09 12:16 PM
I think being friends to start with is implied, isn't it?? :tongue: Whenver ya have to state the obvious its time to
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