(Biglife) hahah no, of course not. I really do need a reality check. Thanks.

What about the dinner that we are supposed to have together?
I set up the date for that before our second "date". And she said yes.
It is coming up in two days. Should I even ask her if she is interested or just forget about it.

Hi,

I need help from mostly all the lovely ladies but also welcome gentleman's input on this.

There is this girl I really like and I am willing to do just about anything to win her. But what she did recently has pushed me over the limit and I'm not sure what to think of it anymore.

All right, so here is the story.

One night, she was going out for a friend's birthday party and told me I should meet her there. Something came up that night and I wasn't able to meet her. However, that same night, I did text her and told her that I might not make it.

Few days after, I asked her out.
She joked and said only if you can find my house. She gave me an intersection the major streets she lives around and told me to look for her car, it will be parked right outside of her house. I thought she was joking and told her that was a crazy idea and told her I would do no such thing. She finally agreed and said she needs some time to change and get ready. She gets off work at 10:00PM so I told her I will pick her up at 11:00PM. At 11:00, i call her, she is still not ready and ask me for more time. I said fine and give her another hour. At midnight, I call her again and she tells me she is not ready yet and that she is tired from work. I was frustrated and told her that we should do try this some other days. She agrees and said we should it on a day that she is not working. She told me that she is always tired after work.

A week later I asked her out again on a work day... I know she told me not to but I still did.
Again, she said yes. And I told her I will pick her up at 11:00 since she gets off work at 10:00. She agrees. Then I told her I will take her challenge on finding her car. She ask me if I was sure. I said "Yeah, I don't want to give you any reason to cancel on me tonight."
11:00PM, I'm around her block looking for her car. She tells me that she is not home, she had to help her friend out with something but that her car is home. I told her "Fine, I will continue looking for your car but let me know when you are done." Half and hour later, she contacts me and tells me that she is tired and wants to go to sleep. I was furious. Even after all this?? We are scheduled to go out for a dinner in two days. So that night I brought that into the conversation and asked her "If she is going to cancel on me for the dinner too?? I was furious.

That is the last time we talked.

My questions:
1) Should I apologize for what happened that night? Or did i have the right to be furious.
2) Should I even ask her for the dinner that we are schedule to go to in two days?


We have never actually went on a date. What bothers me is when I ask her out she never says no or makes up excuses. She always tells me yes and seems interested in going out. But when the time comes to go out she cancels on me. =(

I'm not sure if she is playing some kind of a game. Is she playing hard to get??

Terry

What about the dinner that we are supposed to have together?
I set up the date for that before our second "date". And she said yes.
It is coming up in two days. Should I even ask her if she is interested or just forget about it.

hard to get is one thing. But you are being a sucker. Hate to break it to you but you're going over into pushover land. Once you go in, you never come back out. She's not playing hard to get, she's playing you for a fool.

What about the dinner that we are supposed to have together?
I set up the date for that before our second "date". And she said yes.
It is coming up in two days. Should I even ask her if she is interested or just forget about it.

hun im sorry to say that shes messing with you and doesnt want to date you.im sorry but you need to drop her like a stone.