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Topic: Married women love me?!
ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Tue 09/15/09 10:57 PM
I have no idea why I am having an Austin Powers flashback ... got your mojo running man? yeah baby yeah ... all will be fine if you keep your mojo in your pants

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Tue 09/15/09 11:05 PM
I have no idea why I am having an Austin Powers flashback ... got your mojo running man? yeah baby yeah ... all will be fine if you keep your mojo in your pants

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Tue 09/15/09 11:15 PM
Is anyone gonna offer a real solution that does not involve sex or losing my friends? Yes, you decide what is acceptable interaction. When that has happened to me with 'the husbands' I started out with ignoring their comments. If that didn't work, I tried to deflect with humour or changing the subject. If that didn't work, I told them very bluntly that their behaviour was inappropriate and I wasn't going to accept it. It stopped! Although I am not sure if it was that or the scathing lecture they had to endure about how disrespectful this was to their wives and their relationship. Oh YES I DID!!!! If they speny half that much attention on the sweethearts they married, they would be in a very happy relationship indeed.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 09/15/09 11:35 PM
Say thankyou...you are flattered.... and then gently remind them they are married, and that you have the utmost respect for their husbands and feel obligated to let the husband know you won't be calling around for a while until their wife/partner gets a grip on herself. Watch what happens!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 09/15/09 11:36 PM
Uh oh...We did it again!!!! it works every time doesn't it?

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 09/15/09 11:42 PM
Why not joke around about it with them and make light of it? Turn it into a playful joke you can laugh at and not take it so seriously. or. Stop being a pu$$ and give the women what they want and need! ...or maybe just tell your friends. and we have a winner!

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Tue 09/15/09 11:51 PM
Say thankyou...you are flattered.... and then gently remind them they are married, and that you have the utmost respect for their husbands and feel obligated to let the husband know you won't be calling around for a while until their wife/partner gets a grip on herself. Watch what happens! yup that works pretty quickly

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 09/16/09 12:16 AM
Why is it that most of my friend's wives admit to having some sort of crush or fantasy involving me? This makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and I need some advice on how to stop it! Do unmarried women not admit they have a crush on you?? Are you trying to say it is only married women?? Where is your date when you go to functions with your male friends and thier wives?? Hmmmmm.....some unanswered parts here

daddydg_2000 Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Wed 09/16/09 05:11 AM
Why is it that most of my friend's wives admit to having some sort of crush or fantasy involving me? This makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and I need some advice on how to stop it! Do unmarried women not admit they have a crush on you?? Are you trying to say it is only married women?? Where is your date when you go to functions with your male friends and thier wives?? Hmmmmm.....some unanswered parts here Well.. I am a little old school in that I will not just take date after date to meet my friends. She has to be pretty special to make it to that level. I used to but the kids kept calling them by different names and asking where " whats her name" is. lol i realized that I should probably not bring them around till I found a good one anymore.

daddydg_2000 Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Wed 09/16/09 05:12 AM
Why is it that most of my friend's wives admit to having some sort of crush or fantasy involving me? This makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and I need some advice on how to stop it! Do unmarried women not admit they have a crush on you?? Are you trying to say it is only married women?? Where is your date when you go to functions with your male friends and thier wives?? Hmmmmm.....some unanswered parts here Well.. I am a little old school in that I will not just take date after date to meet my friends. She has to be pretty special to make it to that level. I used to but the kids kept calling them by different names and asking where " whats her name" is. lol i realized that I should probably not bring them around till I found a good one anymore.

AGoodGuy1026 Joined Wed 04/22/09 Posts: 1333	Wed 09/16/09 05:46 AM
frankly, to me -- it sounds like you are enjoying it, and encouraging their behavior. you know what to do - it just sounds like you don't want too (that is to say, stop flirting with them)... perhaps you are the one who feels "safe" flirting with them because they are married -- go find some single women -- and leave your friends drama behind you. Tell them to talk to their husbands and fix their marriage... bottom line, you should stop talking to them until it "passes". Why does your friends wife have your cell number anyway?? Uhmm, one guess... you gave it to her...

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Wed 09/16/09 06:39 AM
Why is it that most of my friend's wives admit to having some sort of crush or fantasy involving me? This makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and I need some advice on how to stop it! Because you are hot

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 09/16/09 07:50 AM
Get BJ's from all of them

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Wed 09/16/09 10:38 AM
BJs from all of them is probably what he has done already. I mean, why else would he think he was in trouble? Had to have a BJ from one of them, at least one

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Wed 09/16/09 10:43 AM
Hope U have GREAT Life insurance!!