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Is anyone gonna offer a real solution that does not involve sex or losing my friends?
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Edited by
BillySuvol
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Tue 09/15/09 10:04 PM
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They are late 20s to early 30s |
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Is anyone gonna offer a real solution that does not involve sex or losing my friends?
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ummmm I thought I did. tell them it's disrespectful. if your friends have a problem with you saying that then maybe they aren't real friends.
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I didn't offer a solution but I did offer some thoughts that didn't have to do with neither sex nor losing your friends...
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Is anyone gonna offer a real solution that does not involve sex or losing my friends? Yeah...tell your friends. If they are your bestfriends then they will understand and scold their woman. |
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Is anyone gonna offer a real solution that does not involve sex or losing my friends? Dude. It really is not that tough. problem solving 101. If it is that big of a deal - tell your buddies, "hey, Cindy has told me she wants to see me dressed in a diaper sucking a lollipop while she spanks me with her vibrator." "dude, I would never think bad thoughts about your wife - she has told ME this. If she is not joking, I wanted you to know so there is no tension around us and I would really feel better about being around you guys if you told her to knock it off." there. Pretty though one. Next? |
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I'm just thinking that a "crush" isn't sleeping with anyone or saying they want to.. Did you ever stop to think that 1) the grass always looks greener but they don't necessarily want to hop the fence or 2) maybe you do things around them that they wish their husband did and crush on "that" aspect of your personality or 3) maybe they're just saying it to make you feel good b/c they feel sorry for you that your single... Just some thoughts.... I did think of that.. good suggestion. And I thought that maybe that was the case.. until.. until one of them told me that she got her hair done "for" me and the other texted me and the first sentence was " I dreamed about you last night" Both instances gave me an indescribable icky feeling. |
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if they are serious then the only thing you can do is tell them it makes you uncomfortable.. If it doesn't stop after that then tell them if it doesn't stop you will tell your friend and if it doesn't stop after that then you'll have to tell or walk away...
The truth is **** happens and it sucks but there aren't many more answers.. unfortunately, we have to deal with situations we'd rather not at times... If they are really interested and not just messing with you, they'll do it again and eventually cheat on your friends.. Unless of course they think they're innocently getting off on flirting with you... |
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And there is no way our friendship will ever be like it is now if I tell the guys.. things will just change.
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I give up
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Buy a recorder so your friends will know you are not BSing them.
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if they are serious then the only thing you can do is tell them it makes you uncomfortable.. If it doesn't stop after that then tell them if it doesn't stop you will tell your friend and if it doesn't stop after that then you'll have to tell or walk away... The truth is **** happens and it sucks but there aren't many more answers.. unfortunately, we have to deal with situations we'd rather not at times... If they are really interested and not just messing with you, they'll do it again and eventually cheat on your friends.. Unless of course they think they're innocently getting off on flirting with you... You have some good ammo girl! You may be right.. because they are comfortable with me and they know I would never jeapordize a marriage they say and do things to me that they would never ordinarily do? |
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And there is no way our friendship will ever be like it is now if I tell the guys.. things will just change. Then they arent your best friends. I know if something like this happened between me and one of my boys...things would be talked about, worked out, and everything would be back to normal. |
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telling your guy friends that their wives are gonna cheat on them with you may be nobel, but thats not what id do. cuz if i was your friend and you told me that id think you already slept with my wife. so before you tell your friends...bang one of em...the ladies that is
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They are late 20s to early 30s Maybe it is all four?..lol |
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Just mosquitos.....swat.evade..RAID..DEET!
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guess i.m weird... eh
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I'll take # 3 Alex for $200.00
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if they are serious then the only thing you can do is tell them it makes you uncomfortable.. If it doesn't stop after that then tell them if it doesn't stop you will tell your friend and if it doesn't stop after that then you'll have to tell or walk away... The truth is **** happens and it sucks but there aren't many more answers.. unfortunately, we have to deal with situations we'd rather not at times... If they are really interested and not just messing with you, they'll do it again and eventually cheat on your friends.. Unless of course they think they're innocently getting off on flirting with you... You have some good ammo girl! You may be right.. because they are comfortable with me and they know I would never jeapordize a marriage they say and do things to me that they would never ordinarily do? I'd give them "one" chance to stop the crap by letting them know you don't like it and it needs to stop... If they don't stop then you have to decide what you want to do.. OR next time they text you that they dreamt about you or got their hair done for you, you could reply "oh barf".. My sister did that to a guy I was talking to and he high-tailed it so I'm kind of sure it works...
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