I agree, I think the couple who meets for the same interest they will get bord so soon. The excitement is in the differences :-)

or a fish wih no direction or goal :-)

thats true for some people or may be for many people, but the truth is on THE EFFORT, even if its for some time, whatever it takes, if we like each other why not? I think long distance like salt and paper for the relationship ex.. it helps to let us missing each other instead of seeing her in regular time and finally nothing to say or do... no excitement !!!! we did it all :-)

RIGHT?!!!

lol

well i know from a guys point of view that many may find you unatianable, to me you are very actractive and i would not mind a chance, but for me distance would be and issue, at least until my career change is done, then i may be traveling a lot. when i get there in a couple of years look me up.

Patience young master.....it sounds like you want a relationship and you want it NOW!!!!

Try looking for guys within 50 miles of you if you can and elimidate all of them. Date 100 guys in 100 days. You are bound to get a boyfriend. Not sure if he will be a good boyfriend but Im sure you will get one!! lol

I dont think relationship just happend like that it needs a lot of work man, beside you got to know that , if you not ready for long distance then you r not :-) .

Right?!!!

I think when you are looking for the real thing, its quality not
quantity. I could get whatever, whenever. I do not need a guy on
my arm to go out, I am confident. I an lucky where ever I go I have
respect because if I arrive alone, I leave alone and that is a rarity
in Havasu. So pretty much everyone has my back, as far as being
safe and going out alone. I rather do that then waste someone's time who I have no interest in. I may have high standards and like
my father always told me the kind of man I want does not exist anymore. I told him then I will be single for a long time. I want
what I never had and I am not going to settle..

well, i think it depends on what you r really looking for in your companion. I call him/her a companion because thats who they really r and after every thing done and gone , the only thing left is companionship.

right?!!!!

Keep trying hun and you will get it. Also you will find true love if it does not find you first

A true relationship is more than just a companion. Your friends
are companions but you are not giving your friend your heart,
mind, body and sole. Having that one and only, yes is your
best friend, someone who you share all, keeping no secrets.
Your lover your fighter, your makeup partner after the fight.
The one whole holds you, assures you, one you can count
on no matter what. All this is a two way street and with it
is does not work. My belief, at least it is my opinion that
true love is much more deeper than just companionship. As you
put it after everything done and gone then why be together?
A reltionship grows and expands and if you have gotten to a point that everything is done and gone then you have stopping working to keep what you first found and had to begin with. When You see couplea who are 60, 70 years old and still holding hands and smiling and laughing as if they were together for the very first time, they
are more than companions that it true love.

loose the knickers and the bra and the demand will sky rocket

Just because I am in a coverup and my bikini bottom does not mean I
not deserve the respect of any other woman on here. Your remark
definitely uncalled for. I always thought it is the woman that
makes the photos not the photos that make the woman...

Facts were asked in the thread facts were presented
Amen

I think true love happen when I put my lover before me in every thing in my life, and of course I expect the same from her. Giving my sole heart and body to her , its true, i agree, but again I think the main conflict here between any couples is how to compremis things in a way that both feel comfertabl in the relationship. Also people get confuse some time between love and like. I think its all start with like the person, get to know him or here and the more you know, the more the pic gets clear. I know some girls and guys just like the good things and dont except the rest of other things that a lil off, again no one is perfect and I think its either to except the person as he or she is or not. I cant change her to be the one im looking for or dream of. Some gets stuck and dont know what to do.Then they choose the easy way, WALK A WAY from the relationship.

Right?!!!

I think it is a thing called chemistry it is either there or not.
You cannot force you either have it or you dont. If it is not there
you do not waste her time or yours. Plus you sound very jaded.
FYI: read your post before you post it. So far nothing you have said
makes sense.

Dear MysticEyes63,

I agree with you. When you have strong feelings for someone location is not a problem. You find ways to overcome this obstacle. I had the same experience with you. I was travelling to Leeds (England) for about 3 ½ years and she was traveling too. We manage to stay happily together for about 8-9 months a year. Never regret it.

As we feel nice and happy, and all our thoughts, all our passions, all our delights are true, whatever stirs this mortal frame, are all but ministers of Love, and we have to feed this sacred flame.

I dont think it is so much of christian people not being sociable but that there are so many folks with attitudes like yours. Christian are not stuck up.

hi i,m tim,your lucky you have that many replys and nudges,i myself have been on this site for four months had very few replys,i think this christian dating site has very vain people or should i say stuck up people, i would expect a lot more from christians ,no compassion or symphaty here lol! well thats my take on this site,good luck.


this is what I was commenting about!! Thanks for your input truztme LOL!!!!