Topic: Am I Missing Something About This Site??
mssilverfox's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:12 PM



yea, there are some in your area..I have gotten emails from several right in your town...


There are very few with a normal lifestyle here. I keep to myself,
I have a few close friends the rest acquaintances. Between swingers,
bisexuals men and woman. The guys that are single know that every
weekend there is a new group of hotties coming in to party so one
night stands are all they are interested in. Sure I have met a couple nice guys but they either smoke like a chimmey or do not like
to drink. I do not find that a problem, but I like to have a glass of
wine or an after dinner dink and many that is a deal breaker. Havasu
just happened as far as life goes, I came here married in 2000 as a snowbird and little did I know you had to keep a chain on your husband. Its the story of everyone in this town. My neigbors are the best the are from ILL they are like my second parents. There daughter is the same age as me and lives 2 lots down and one lot over
from her parents. I am lucky as far as that goes, they have been there for me through everything. But then we have several sex offenders, the police were at the door today with a new list in the
area.. So the more private you are in Havasu, especially being single and living alone the better..


What in the world is keeping you there? It sounds weird.





I was going to ask that same question...

newarkjw's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:18 PM




yea, there are some in your area..I have gotten emails from several right in your town...


There are very few with a normal lifestyle here. I keep to myself,
I have a few close friends the rest acquaintances. Between swingers,
bisexuals men and woman. The guys that are single know that every
weekend there is a new group of hotties coming in to party so one
night stands are all they are interested in. Sure I have met a couple nice guys but they either smoke like a chimmey or do not like
to drink. I do not find that a problem, but I like to have a glass of
wine or an after dinner dink and many that is a deal breaker. Havasu
just happened as far as life goes, I came here married in 2000 as a snowbird and little did I know you had to keep a chain on your husband. Its the story of everyone in this town. My neigbors are the best the are from ILL they are like my second parents. There daughter is the same age as me and lives 2 lots down and one lot over
from her parents. I am lucky as far as that goes, they have been there for me through everything. But then we have several sex offenders, the police were at the door today with a new list in the
area.. So the more private you are in Havasu, especially being single and living alone the better..


What in the world is keeping you there? It sounds weird.





I was going to ask that same question...



You know I was too. I guess I got distracted.........smokin

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:21 PM
oh, sometimes we just get stuck, or have kids that are settled and sometimes were just afraid of change and get confused and oh sorry, not talking to me...:angel:

MysticEyes63's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:21 PM



yea, there are some in your area..I have gotten emails from several right in your town...


There are very few with a normal lifestyle here. I keep to myself,
I have a few close friends the rest acquaintances. Between swingers,
bisexuals men and woman. The guys that are single know that every
weekend there is a new group of hotties coming in to party so one
night stands are all they are interested in. Sure I have met a couple nice guys but they either smoke like a chimmey or do not like
to drink. I do not find that a problem, but I like to have a glass of
wine or an after dinner dink and many that is a deal breaker. Havasu
just happened as far as life goes, I came here married in 2000 as a snowbird and little did I know you had to keep a chain on your husband. Its the story of everyone in this town. My neigbors are the best the are from ILL they are like my second parents. There daughter is the same age as me and lives 2 lots down and one lot over
from her parents. I am lucky as far as that goes, they have been there for me through everything. But then we have several sex offenders, the police were at the door today with a new list in the
area.. So the more private you are in Havasu, especially being single and living alone the better..


What in the world is keeping you there? It sounds weird.


I said it just happened, it was great when I was married, we had married friends who were from PA and normal. I had many single friends that eventually moved back to where they came from.
I have a house, the market is not good so to get what was paid
I have to wait it out. Its funny how you find out who your friends
are after a divorce. We were all so close, had get togethers all
the time. But I was the wife who played Texas Holdem being comp up
in Vegas for boxing fights, whatever, love football and the other wives were not like me. I grew up between two brothers, my sisters
were older. I was close with my dad, we always watched football every
weekend. He use to take us to Mohamad Allies Camp which was 40 minute from where I lived. I was a girl with photos of the champ and
Mike Schmith on my wall. I loved the Redskins, had all there autographs and photos. So I am different, yes I am a girly girl but
I love a great boxing match and football season is back:banana: :banana: :banana: .

LewisW123's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:26 PM

I am a girly girl but
I love a great boxing match and football season is back:banana: :banana: :banana: .


ummm. Just exactly how long have you been looking, out there?


LewisW123's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:29 PM
Edited by LewisW123 on Tue 09/08/09 09:38 PM

MysticEyes63's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:29 PM

oh, sometimes we just get stuck, or have kids that are settled and sometimes were just afraid of change and get confused and oh sorry, not talking to me...:angel:


You are right, I am stuck here for now. I have my neighbors, and
after losing my father in June I would be lost without there support.
Like I said the house, me putting the pool in. I would never get what
I even paid for it. So it is going to take a year or two. There are
some normal people and I go where I know I have security watching out
for me, my friends and the bartenders know I come out alone and
go home alone. They always have security walking me to my car if
my friends took off. I am very careful and you get smart very fast.
I am east coast, and this lifestyle is not me. Do I miss the winters
in PA, no way. I love the southwest and when time comes I am know where I want to go. The only change will be if someone comes into my
life..love flowerforyou

MysticEyes63's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:32 PM



ummm. Just exactly how long have you been looking, out there?




I have been single for 5 years now. I have had relationships, I guess
the longes was a year. Last one ended last Labor Day, it was a summer romance. Then my Dad took Ill and I was back and forth from
PA...

newarkjw's photo
Tue 09/08/09 09:44 PM




ummm. Just exactly how long have you been looking, out there?




I have been single for 5 years now. I have had relationships, I guess
the longes was a year. Last one ended last Labor Day, it was a summer romance. Then my Dad took Ill and I was back and forth from
PA...


Pa. is a nice state. It takes a really long time to drive acrossed it......smokin

MysticEyes63's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:14 PM
Edited by MysticEyes63 on Tue 09/08/09 11:16 PM





ummm. Just exactly how long have you been looking, out there?




I have been single for 5 years now. I have had relationships, I guess
the longes was a year. Last one ended last Labor Day, it was a summer romance. Then my Dad took Ill and I was back and forth from
PA...

Pa. is a nice state. It takes a really long time to drive acrossed it......smokin
Pa. is a nice state. It takes a really long time to drive acrossed it......smokin


It only 8 hours, but I have done cross country so many times it does
not faze me any more. Although I have one last trip to make in OCt.
To pick up the things that I have in storage from my fathers apartment. Oct is great time to do it. Not much traffic, easy to
get a motel, and the scenery at that time of year is beautiful. Although with no summer back east fall colors are already starting.
I usually leave at night, drive the night and next day. Depending
which way I go. I would end up in St Louis and stop there and do the
rest of the way the next day. Other wish It is somewhere around Memphis that I would Stop. Coming back I take my time and do some site seeing. Its getting there and once the tension is over I can
enjoy myself...2400 miles..OK is the worst it seem like it never ends.

MysticEyes63's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:17 PM
I still cannot get the hang of how this quote thing works.frustrated

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 09/09/09 05:03 PM

I still cannot get the hang of how this quote thing works.frustrated

waving
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no photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:07 PM
Hey girl, I was wondering the same thing myself. I'm in San Antonio Texas and it is still hard to find someone. On this site it has been hard to find someone just to chat with. I used to do the chat thing on yahoo and it seemed much easier. This forum thing is ok, but I agree with you on the what's up with this site.

AMobOfOne's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:56 PM
I couldn't agree more, in Colorado you only need to log on about every 2 months to meet anyone new! They must not promote this site much, I guess we get what we pay for...which is nothing! Good luck!

MysticEyes63's photo
Wed 09/09/09 09:21 PM


I still cannot get the hang of how this quote thing works.frustrated

waving
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/199646



Thank for the advice..

Averageguy1964's photo
Wed 09/09/09 09:22 PM
I do not think any one on here made a mistake on joining,I have chatted with alot of nice people here,It just takes time and learning to jump in on a thread.

no photo
Wed 09/09/09 09:32 PM
no longer than i have been on here i have talked 2 some nice folks-i enjoy it and it does take time

MysticEyes63's photo
Wed 09/09/09 09:38 PM

no longer than i have been on here i have talked 2 some nice folks-i enjoy it and it does take time



You can talk to alot of people, I am talking about meeting or dating
if that is such a word on this site.

MysticEyes63's photo
Wed 09/09/09 09:40 PM

no longer than i have been on here i have talked 2 some nice folks-i enjoy it and it does take time



One day and 32 posts, I guess you had to talk to someone you have
been busy or glued to your computer

no photo
Wed 09/09/09 09:42 PM


no longer than i have been on here i have talked 2 some nice folks-i enjoy it and it does take time



You can talk to alot of people, I am talking about meeting or dating
if that is such a word on this site.


i dont understand why ur having problems---ur a hottie and seem inteligent