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 Granted its only a short time, but I cannot believe that I have only received a handful of e-mail and what 6 nudges. I am fairly attractive, advernturesome but I think I made a mistake in joining. I have been on many dating sites and people want to meet people, I have found that is anything but true here. I mean no disrepect to the people of mingle but even attempting to join into a forum is like getting a dog bite that you really do not want to go back to where you were bitten. I joined and when my time is up, I wish I could say it was a pleasure. I find it more of a blog site than a real dating site. I think something is really missing here. Its just an opinion and everyone has one.. Good Luck to Mingle....  nice undies you got there
Mirror..it's a bathing suit bottom... 
Thanks for the backup Ladylid
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I think true love happen when I put my lover before me in every thing in my life, and of course I expect the same from her. Giving my sole heart and body to her , its true, i agree, but again I think the main conflict here between any couples is how to compremis things in a way that both feel comfertabl in the relationship. Also people get confuse some time between love and like. I think its all start with like the person, get to know him or here and the more you know, the more the pic gets clear. I know some girls and guys just like the good things and dont except the rest of other things that a lil off, again no one is perfect and I think its either to except the person as he or she is or not. I cant change her to be the one im looking for or dream of. Some gets stuck and dont know what to do.Then they choose the easy way, WALK A WAY from the relationship. Right?!!! I think it is a thing called chemistry it is either there or not. You cannot force you either have it or you dont. If it is not there you do not waste her time or yours. Plus you sound very jaded. FYI: read your post before you post it. So far nothing you have said makes sense. |
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Granted its only a short time, but I cannot believe that I have only received a handful of e-mail and what 6 nudges. I am fairly attractive, advernturesome but I think I made a mistake in joining. I have been on many dating sites and people want to meet people, I have found that is anything but true here. I mean no disrepect to the people of mingle but even attempting to join into a forum is like getting a dog bite that you really do not want to go back to where you were bitten. I joined and when my time is up, I wish I could say it was a pleasure. I find it more of a blog site than a real dating site. I think something is really missing here. Its just an opinion and everyone has one.. Good Luck to Mingle.... Just because I am in a coverup and my bikini bottom does not mean I not deserve the respect of any other woman on here. Your remark definitely uncalled for. I always thought it is the woman that makes the photos not the photos that make the woman... |
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well, i think it depends on what you r really looking for in your companion. I call him/her a companion because thats who they really r and after every thing done and gone , the only thing left is companionship. right?!!!! A true relationship is more than just a companion. Your friends are companions but you are not giving your friend your heart, mind, body and sole. Having that one and only, yes is your best friend, someone who you share all, keeping no secrets. Your lover your fighter, your makeup partner after the fight. The one whole holds you, assures you, one you can count on no matter what. All this is a two way street and with it is does not work. My belief, at least it is my opinion that true love is much more deeper than just companionship. As you put it after everything done and gone then why be together? A reltionship grows and expands and if you have gotten to a point that everything is done and gone then you have stopping working to keep what you first found and had to begin with. When You see couplea who are 60, 70 years old and still holding hands and smiling and laughing as if they were together for the very first time, they are more than companions that it true love. |
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Patience young master.....it sounds like you want a relationship and you want it NOW!!!! 
Try looking for guys within 50 miles of you if you can and elimidate all of them. Date 100 guys in 100 days. You are bound to get a boyfriend. Not sure if he will be a good boyfriend but Im sure you will get one!! lol  
I think when you are looking for the real thing, its quality not quantity. I could get whatever, whenever. I do not need a guy on my arm to go out, I am confident. I an lucky where ever I go I have respect because if I arrive alone, I leave alone and that is a rarity in Havasu. So pretty much everyone has my back, as far as being safe and going out alone. I rather do that then waste someone's time who I have no interest in. I may have high standards and like my father always told me the kind of man I want does not exist anymore. I told him then I will be single for a long time. I want what I never had and I am not going to settle.. |
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hi i,m tim,your lucky you have that many replys and nudges,i myself have been on this site for four months had very few replys,i think this christian dating site has very vain people or should i say stuck up people, i would expect a lot more from christians ,no compassion or symphaty here lol! well thats my take on this site,good luck. 
I think you have your sites mixed up, this is not a christian dating site. And according to the last post 4 months and no posts what do you expect. Hey those are not my words they are moondark. I got told 5 days and only 61 posts so man you are in big trouble.     
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Granted its only a short time, but I cannot believe that I have only received a handful of e-mail and what 6 nudges. I am fairly attractive, advernturesome but I think I made a mistake in joining. I have been on many dating sites and people want to meet people, I have found that is anything but true here. I mean no disrepect to the people of mingle but even attempting to join into a forum is like getting a dog bite that you really do not want to go back to where you were bitten. I joined and when my time is up, I wish I could say it was a pleasure. I find it more of a blog site than a real dating site. I think something is really missing here. Its just an opinion and everyone has one.. Good Luck to Mingle.... I've met a couple people through here. The people I would most like to meet are just too far away. But one thing other sites lack that I just love here is the forum feature. In the time I've been on here, there have been a number of people that have had great success. If you want instant gratification, then you may want to avoid online sites at all. 7 days and 61 posts is hardly any time at all. Sorry I am not glued to the computer, I do have a life... Unfortunately just single.... |
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Don't worry I'm sure you'll find someone. You have nice body. 
Looks are just part of me and I am not counting on them forever. I thought it was what is on the inside that counts. A big heart, down to earth, well my profile says it all. |
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the only thing that goes with the flow is dead fish thats the dam truth
I guess that is my problem I am just a dead fish.. 
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It has nothing to do with what you do, its who you are inside.
We all have a past and my outlook the past is the past and just look forward to the future.
Just go with the flow... |
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no longer than i have been on here i have talked 2 some nice folks-i enjoy it and it does take time You can talk to alot of people, I am talking about meeting or dating if that is such a word on this site. i dont understand why ur having problems---ur a hottie and seem inteligent Well after reading your profile, I guess your interests have something to do with it...  
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no longer than i have been on here i have talked 2 some nice folks-i enjoy it and it does take time One day and 32 posts, I guess you had to talk to someone you have been busy or glued to your computer |
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no longer than i have been on here i have talked 2 some nice folks-i enjoy it and it does take time You can talk to alot of people, I am talking about meeting or dating if that is such a word on this site. |
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Thank for the advice.. |
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I still cannot get the hang of how this quote thing works.
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Edited by
MysticEyes63
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Tue 09/08/09 11:16 PM
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ummm. Just exactly how long have you been looking, out there? I have been single for 5 years now. I have had relationships, I guess the longes was a year. Last one ended last Labor Day, it was a summer romance. Then my Dad took Ill and I was back and forth from PA... Pa. is a nice state. It takes a really long time to drive acrossed it......
Pa. is a nice state. It takes a really long time to drive acrossed it......
It only 8 hours, but I have done cross country so many times it does not faze me any more. Although I have one last trip to make in OCt. To pick up the things that I have in storage from my fathers apartment. Oct is great time to do it. Not much traffic, easy to get a motel, and the scenery at that time of year is beautiful. Although with no summer back east fall colors are already starting. I usually leave at night, drive the night and next day. Depending which way I go. I would end up in St Louis and stop there and do the rest of the way the next day. Other wish It is somewhere around Memphis that I would Stop. Coming back I take my time and do some site seeing. Its getting there and once the tension is over I can enjoy myself...2400 miles..OK is the worst it seem like it never ends. |
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ummm. Just exactly how long have you been looking, out there? I have been single for 5 years now. I have had relationships, I guess the longes was a year. Last one ended last Labor Day, it was a summer romance. Then my Dad took Ill and I was back and forth from PA... |
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oh, sometimes we just get stuck, or have kids that are settled and sometimes were just afraid of change and get confused and oh sorry, not talking to me... 
You are right, I am stuck here for now. I have my neighbors, and after losing my father in June I would be lost without there support. Like I said the house, me putting the pool in. I would never get what I even paid for it. So it is going to take a year or two. There are some normal people and I go where I know I have security watching out for me, my friends and the bartenders know I come out alone and go home alone. They always have security walking me to my car if my friends took off. I am very careful and you get smart very fast. I am east coast, and this lifestyle is not me. Do I miss the winters in PA, no way. I love the southwest and when time comes I am know where I want to go. The only change will be if someone comes into my life.. 
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yea, there are some in your area..I have gotten emails from several right in your town... There are very few with a normal lifestyle here. I keep to myself, I have a few close friends the rest acquaintances. Between swingers, bisexuals men and woman. The guys that are single know that every weekend there is a new group of hotties coming in to party so one night stands are all they are interested in. Sure I have met a couple nice guys but they either smoke like a chimmey or do not like to drink. I do not find that a problem, but I like to have a glass of wine or an after dinner dink and many that is a deal breaker. Havasu just happened as far as life goes, I came here married in 2000 as a snowbird and little did I know you had to keep a chain on your husband. Its the story of everyone in this town. My neigbors are the best the are from ILL they are like my second parents. There daughter is the same age as me and lives 2 lots down and one lot over from her parents. I am lucky as far as that goes, they have been there for me through everything. But then we have several sex offenders, the police were at the door today with a new list in the area.. So the more private you are in Havasu, especially being single and living alone the better.. What in the world is keeping you there? It sounds weird. I said it just happened, it was great when I was married, we had married friends who were from PA and normal. I had many single friends that eventually moved back to where they came from. I have a house, the market is not good so to get what was paid I have to wait it out. Its funny how you find out who your friends are after a divorce. We were all so close, had get togethers all the time. But I was the wife who played Texas Holdem being comp up in Vegas for boxing fights, whatever, love football and the other wives were not like me. I grew up between two brothers, my sisters were older. I was close with my dad, we always watched football every weekend. He use to take us to Mohamad Allies Camp which was 40 minute from where I lived. I was a girl with photos of the champ and Mike Schmith on my wall. I loved the Redskins, had all there autographs and photos. So I am different, yes I am a girly girl but I love a great boxing match and football season is back  .
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I believe what is missing is your drawers young lady......
Its my bikni bottom, I just have a cover up over the top. I am sure you have seen a bikni on a woman before.. You obviously do not know who you are talking to. No I guess I do not. My apologies... |
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