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Topic: What do you all think?
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Fri 09/04/09 11:23 AM
My friend Jennifer called me up last night and said she smoked a bowl of marijuana, due to too much stress. She is breastfeeding, which is the kicker. What should she do? Will the THC affect her baby? or should she refrain from breastfeeding for a bit and stick with formula?

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Fri 09/04/09 11:30 AM
She should hand that baby over to someone who would be a responsible adult. ASAP!!!! What the h*ll is she thinking? Who gave her the right to damage that poor baby because of her own selfish need to self-destuct? Is this love? NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Fri 09/04/09 11:30 AM
She should not breastfeed at all if she smoked weed at any time. Stick with formula. Yes, it will go straight to baby.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:30 AM
they all got their justifications for smokin the stuff - she's addicted and now her baby has to smell the chit - try talking some sense to her

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Fri 09/04/09 11:32 AM

She should hand that baby over to someone who would be a responsible adult. ASAP!!!! What the h*ll is she thinking? Who gave her the right to damage that poor baby because of her own selfish need to self-destuct? Is this love? NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
holy cow ohwell You don't know all the details. You don't know if the baby was even there. It not like she shoved crack in the baby's bottle. I don't quite think this warrants a "you need to hand over your baby to another person because you're a terrible person"

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Fri 09/04/09 11:33 AM


She should hand that baby over to someone who would be a responsible adult. ASAP!!!! What the h*ll is she thinking? Who gave her the right to damage that poor baby because of her own selfish need to self-destuct? Is this love? NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
holy cow ohwell You don't know all the details. You don't know if the baby was even there. It not like she shoved crack in the baby's bottle. I don't quite think this warrants a "you need to hand over your baby to another person because you're a terrible person"


drinker drinker drinker flowerforyou

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Fri 09/04/09 11:33 AM

My friend Jennifer called me up last night and said she smoked a bowl of marijuana, due to too much stress. She is breastfeeding, which is the kicker. What should she do? Will the THC affect her baby? or should she refrain from breastfeeding for a bit and stick with formula?


Of course it will effect the baby. Whatever the mom eats, drinks or smokes will effect the baby. That is horribly irresponsible. Not to mention completely freakin selfish.
When you're responsible for a baby, your life is supposed to change.
My personal opinion is that she should be beaten and her baby taken away from her and given to someone who will give a **** about it.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:34 AM

they all got their justifications for smokin the stuff - she's addicted and now her baby has to smell the chit - try talking some sense to her


How do you talk any sense into someone that smokes a bowlful? The baby comes first as it doesn't have any choice regarding what it's ingesting. WTF? I feel angry right now and have very strong opinions about child abuse, which is what this amounts to. Report her before something awful happens to baby.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:35 AM
shocked surprised

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Fri 09/04/09 11:38 AM
She needs to express and trash the milk for a day or so.....depending on the amount smoked and the concentration the weed.....how old is the baby?...perhaps formula would be her best option......

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Fri 09/04/09 11:38 AM
Tell your friend to stick with formula for her baby or get another way to handle stress

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Fri 09/04/09 11:39 AM

She needs to express and trash the milk for a day or so.....depending on the amount smoked and the concentration the weed.....how old is the baby?...perhaps formula would be her best option......


drinker drinker drinker

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Fri 09/04/09 11:40 AM


She should hand that baby over to someone who would be a responsible adult. ASAP!!!! What the h*ll is she thinking? Who gave her the right to damage that poor baby because of her own selfish need to self-destuct? Is this love? NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
holy cow ohwell You don't know all the details. You don't know if the baby was even there. It not like she shoved crack in the baby's bottle. I don't quite think this warrants a "you need to hand over your baby to another person because you're a terrible person"


You provided enough details for me to make my mind up about what's right or what's wrong. This is definitely wrong. What the h*lls the difference -- pot, crack, heroine, rat poison, alcohol? Wrong, wrong, wrong. No-one will ever change my mind. I'm not going to get pulled into a debate about something that's so blatently obvioous.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:41 AM
... PLEASE! ... Encourage her to study 5~HTP ...

The brain chemistry that she's seeking to balance, will be in INSTANTLY w/in her reach, w/out ill~effects upon the child.

There are MANY books and online sources, as regards 5~HTP ... flowerforyou

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Fri 09/04/09 11:43 AM
Her baby is 7 months old, she said it was only a very small amount she did smoke. Wish, I was there to stop her.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:43 AM


She should hand that baby over to someone who would be a responsible adult. ASAP!!!! What the h*ll is she thinking? Who gave her the right to damage that poor baby because of her own selfish need to self-destuct? Is this love? NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
holy cow ohwell You don't know all the details. You don't know if the baby was even there. It not like she shoved crack in the baby's bottle. I don't quite think this warrants a "you need to hand over your baby to another person because you're a terrible person"


The majority of woman when breastfeeding their baby have or are taking legal drugs not recommended for babies, breath dangerous chemicals in our air everyday, eat so many additives that are in the on the counter food and so on.

Yes you should watch and avoid anything that can arm your child and be very careful what you put in your body when breastfeeding, but to come out and say that she is damaging the baby is very judgmental without knowing all the facts.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:44 AM
Well, not that I am condoning this in anyway but 30 years ago (before everyone had such a stick up their butt about weed) people used to smoke all the time while pregnant.

My mother fully admitted to doing so while pregnant with me and my IQ is higher than 99% of the population....

I don't think its wise to smoke and breast feed, I'm sure her Dr can prescribe something for her stress. If she really only did smoke once then I'd say give it a few days to get out of her system.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:44 AM

... PLEASE! ... Encourage her to study 5~HTP ...

The brain chemistry that she's seeking to balance, will be in INSTANTLY w/in her reach, w/out ill~effects upon the child.

There are MANY books and online sources, as regards 5~HTP ... flowerforyou


But what about baby's well-being right now? Who's looking out for baby?

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Fri 09/04/09 11:45 AM
Same with Dr. prescribe SSRI's for Post-Partum Depression.....




She should hand that baby over to someone who would be a responsible adult. ASAP!!!! What the h*ll is she thinking? Who gave her the right to damage that poor baby because of her own selfish need to self-destuct? Is this love? NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
holy cow ohwell You don't know all the details. You don't know if the baby was even there. It not like she shoved crack in the baby's bottle. I don't quite think this warrants a "you need to hand over your baby to another person because you're a terrible person"


You provided enough details for me to make my mind up about what's right or what's wrong. This is definitely wrong. What the h*lls the difference -- pot, crack, heroine, rat poison, alcohol? Wrong, wrong, wrong. No-one will ever change my mind. I'm not going to get pulled into a debate about something that's so blatently obvioous.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:46 AM

... PLEASE! ... Encourage her to study 5~HTP ...

The brain chemistry that she's seeking to balance, will be in INSTANTLY w/in her reach, w/out ill~effects upon the child.

There are MANY books and online sources, as regards 5~HTP ... flowerforyou
If she wants to smoke pot the world will still go on. Give some people a break. It's not like she's been up for 12 days on meth or noddin' off at the wheel from doin' heroin......:tongue:

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