Topic: liars
Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Mon 09/07/09 03:23 PM

I forgive them but I never trust them again.


but if you never trust them again.. what is left of your friendship?

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Mon 09/07/09 03:24 PM

Everyone lies a little, i have lied so as to take off from work or maybe to not hurt someones feelings t is part of human nature.


you're right. everyone lies a little.


but do you lie big? i mean do you tell people you have a degree but you dont? do you tell people that you've done something big when you haven't? do you tell people you're in rehab getting help when you're not? do you tell people you love someone when you don't? do you tell someone an opinion that isn't real?

where do you draw the line in lying?

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 09/07/09 03:29 PM


I forgive them but I never trust them again.


but if you never trust them again.. what is left of your friendship?


If they are lying to me it wasn't much of a friendship, was it?

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Mon 09/07/09 03:33 PM


Everyone lies a little, i have lied so as to take off from work or maybe to not hurt someones feelings t is part of human nature.


you're right. everyone lies a little.


but do you lie big? i mean do you tell people you have a degree but you dont? do you tell people that you've done something big when you haven't? do you tell people you're in rehab getting help when you're not? do you tell people you love someone when you don't? do you tell someone an opinion that isn't real?

where do you draw the line in lying?


i knew a guy who told everyone his mom was dying of cancer (she was healthy as a horse and working every day) and then he actually "killed" her so he could get gifts and time off from school- this was in college, he lied about how wealthy his father was- they were flat broke, he lied about being accepted at Julliard but he couldn't go, he lied about being straight, he lied about being married and why he got married, he just lied lied lied. i was really young back then and enthralled with him, so i put up with it, but now, if i find out someone lies about unnecessary ****, i'm over them. there's a difference in lying about how i look in a skirt to save my hurt feelings, but when you tell me you own a jaguar, and you're actually catching the bus, we have a problem.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Mon 09/07/09 04:07 PM



Everyone lies a little, i have lied so as to take off from work or maybe to not hurt someones feelings t is part of human nature.


you're right. everyone lies a little.


but do you lie big? i mean do you tell people you have a degree but you dont? do you tell people that you've done something big when you haven't? do you tell people you're in rehab getting help when you're not? do you tell people you love someone when you don't? do you tell someone an opinion that isn't real?

where do you draw the line in lying?


i knew a guy who told everyone his mom was dying of cancer (she was healthy as a horse and working every day) and then he actually "killed" her so he could get gifts and time off from school- this was in college, he lied about how wealthy his father was- they were flat broke, he lied about being accepted at Julliard but he couldn't go, he lied about being straight, he lied about being married and why he got married, he just lied lied lied. i was really young back then and enthralled with him, so i put up with it, but now, if i find out someone lies about unnecessary ****, i'm over them. there's a difference in lying about how i look in a skirt to save my hurt feelings, but when you tell me you own a jaguar, and you're actually catching the bus, we have a problem.


BINGO!


TxsSun's photo
Mon 09/07/09 04:09 PM

Everyone lies a little, i have lied so as to take off from work or maybe to not hurt someones feelings t is part of human nature.




I have only lied for work. Anything else, noway

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Mon 09/07/09 04:19 PM
I actually have a problem forgiving to an extent. When it comes to relationships and friendships, if I'm lied to, no I don't forgive and forget. Family, well, depends on the extent of the lie. I still have family to this day that I would give an asskicking to for some of the things they have done.

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Mon 09/07/09 04:27 PM
If someone lied to me I would go along with it and find out as much of the truth along the way. Depending on the relationship. I would let them lie, then find opportunities for them to lie to cover up their previous lie. Then encourage more lying to find more truths about them until their life is so jumbled up with lies that she wont want anything to do with me just because she doesnt know where she left off in her web of lies. I was dating someone like that recently. I was sitting outside of her aunts house, calling her, when I asked her where she was, she said she was at her aunts. Well, she wasnt there. Her aunt said she was not only seeing another man, she had a total of 3 other boyfriends whom she all plays. One she lives with. She kept telling how she wants to have kids with me and how beautiful they would be, come to find out, she cant have kids due to an abortion she had from her first marriage because the kid was not her husbands, which ended the marriage. Gotta love disgruntled relatives. She calls me once a week now, like a sucker I am still nice to her. I need to learn how to be a bad boy, get some real women.

(Why does my butt hurt?)

catseyes1's photo
Mon 09/07/09 04:33 PM
If it's something small I may consider it, but if it has anything to do with lying NO WAY they can hit the high road

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Mon 09/07/09 04:36 PM

I actually have a problem forgiving to an extent. When it comes to relationships and friendships, if I'm lied to, no I don't forgive and forget. Family, well, depends on the extent of the lie. I still have family to this day that I would give an asskicking to for some of the things they have done.


Forgiving is about letting go of the negativity that follows us around if we let it (see: baggage).

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Mon 09/07/09 04:36 PM

If someone lied to me I would go along with it and find out as much of the truth along the way. Depending on the relationship. I would let them lie, then find opportunities for them to lie to cover up their previous lie. Then encourage more lying to find more truths about them until their life is so jumbled up with lies that she wont want anything to do with me just because she doesnt know where she left off in her web of lies. I was dating someone like that recently. I was sitting outside of her aunts house, calling her, when I asked her where she was, she said she was at her aunts. Well, she wasnt there. Her aunt said she was not only seeing another man, she had a total of 3 other boyfriends whom she all plays. One she lives with. She kept telling how she wants to have kids with me and how beautiful they would be, come to find out, she cant have kids due to an abortion she had from her first marriage because the kid was not her husbands, which ended the marriage. Gotta love disgruntled relatives. She calls me once a week now, like a sucker I am still nice to her. I need to learn how to be a bad boy, get some real women.

(Why does my butt hurt?)


lets run away together bryan. just me and you.. away from the liars of the world.

you can tell me those jeans make my @ss look fat and i will never fake an orgasm.

it'll be bliss.

:D

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Mon 09/07/09 04:44 PM
rofl

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 09/07/09 04:46 PM

She calls me once a week now, like a sucker I am still nice to her. I need to learn how to be a bad boy, get some real women.

(Why does my butt hurt?)


Oh no! Are you saying you are a "nice guy"?

Warning, warning! Danger Will Robinson! Nice guy alert! :laughing:

Bad boys are jerks and nice guys are soft. Just be yourself. flowerforyou

miko1960's photo
Mon 09/07/09 04:57 PM
I SAID NO MORE NICE GUY THREADSmad mad mad mad

BryanYChong's photo
Mon 09/07/09 05:07 PM






lets run away together bryan. just me and you.. away from the liars of the world.

you can tell me those jeans make my @ss look fat and i will never fake an orgasm.

it'll be bliss.

:D


Hey if you actually like men, really are a woman, can actually have and want children, and are the same woman in all your pictures, I promise I wont fake an orgasm either.:wink:

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Mon 09/07/09 05:12 PM
I was talking about how much I hate liars just today with my best friend, ummmmm... Brad Pitt. yeahhhh Brad Pitt. And we were talking about how much we hate liars while were having lunch in... in... Paris yeahhhhh thats the ticket. I was having lunch in Paris with my best friend Brad Pitt and we were talking about how much we hate liars.

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Mon 09/07/09 05:17 PM

I was talking about how much I hate liars just today with my best friend, ummmmm... Brad Pitt. yeahhhh Brad Pitt. And we were talking about how much we hate liars while were having lunch in... in... Paris yeahhhhh thats the ticket. I was having lunch in Paris with my best friend Brad Pitt and we were talking about how much we hate liars.

just sent you a email Quietman:thumbsup:

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Mon 09/07/09 11:09 PM

Some sins warrant not forgiveness from me.
drinker

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Mon 09/07/09 11:22 PM







lets run away together bryan. just me and you.. away from the liars of the world.

you can tell me those jeans make my @ss look fat and i will never fake an orgasm.

it'll be bliss.

:D


Hey if you actually like men, really are a woman, can actually have and want children, and are the same woman in all your pictures, I promise I wont fake an orgasm either.:wink:


and why exactly hasn't this happened yet!?!?!?

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Mon 09/07/09 11:24 PM








lets run away together bryan. just me and you.. away from the liars of the world.

you can tell me those jeans make my @ss look fat and i will never fake an orgasm.

it'll be bliss.

:D


Hey if you actually like men, really are a woman, can actually have and want children, and are the same woman in all your pictures, I promise I wont fake an orgasm either.:wink:


and why exactly hasn't this happened yet!?!?!?
Whoaaaaaaaaaaaaa hottie!!!drool