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Whats a "wishy-washy" guy? He's like a wax-on; wax-off kind of guy with a little more swish than swash! ![]() Um, just someone that can't make up their mind. They flirt, act interested, but when the opportunity arises, they chicken out, change their minds, etc. Keep in mind, I know that women can be just as bad. ![]() Getting the terminology down. I follow. |
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I usually have to do the asking. If I waited around, I would date even less than I do now. ![]() When I find someone of interest, I send the signals. The problem is I might not be their type or they might be attached. I can’t take it personally. The window of attraction, availability and timing are so delicate! I would hope I am approachable enough for a guy to ask me out. I keep reading this thread to get a guy's perspective. More feedback from the guys ... ![]() That's what my intention was too. Guys, please answer! |
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Nope, not at all. If u like someone, don't be a pansiy, just come out and say it.
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maybe some guys like to take matters slow, maybe they feel pressured to ask someone out, usually when i ask someone out for the 1st time i like to keep it simple, like maybe meet for coffee or a drink have lunch together.
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maybe some guys like to take matters slow, maybe they feel pressured to ask someone out, usually when i ask someone out for the 1st time i like to keep it simple, like maybe meet for coffee or a drink have lunch together. Time to pull up the big boy pants and not be so passive. Life is running past you at 100 miles per hour. ![]() |
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Feedback time guys. How many of you have not asked a woman out because you just assumed she would say no? Does fear of rejection stop you from approaching? Just want to get the male's point of view since I have a girl-brain. I wouldn't know I've never been rejected |
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Feedback time guys. How many of you have not asked a woman out because you just assumed she would say no? Does fear of rejection stop you from approaching? Just want to get the male's point of view since I have a girl-brain. I think of meeting women like fishing. I see an interesting woman, I approach her and say hello. If she likes me we take the next step. If she doesn't I just talk to someone else. I don't feel that women ever reject me because they don't know me. How can she truly know if she likes me after only a few seconds? She can't. I just assume she's in a bad mood that night. There same woman may like me another time. I have had that happen. |
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Feedback time guys. How many of you have not asked a woman out because you just assumed she would say no? Does fear of rejection stop you from approaching? Just want to get the male's point of view since I have a girl-brain. I think of meeting women like fishing. I see an interesting woman, I approach her and say hello. If she likes me we take the next step. If she doesn't I just talk to someone else. I don't feel that women ever reject me because they don't know me. How can she truly know if she likes me after only a few seconds? She can't. I just assume she's in a bad mood that night. There same woman may like me another time. I have had that happen. ![]() ![]() |
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it depends. i guess you can say im like a girl but if im in a good and happy mood then id ask her out. if im not in a good mood then id thnik that im not her type.
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maybe some guys like to take matters slow, maybe they feel pressured to ask someone out, usually when i ask someone out for the 1st time i like to keep it simple, like maybe meet for coffee or a drink have lunch together. Time to pull up the big boy pants and not be so passive. Life is running past you at 100 miles per hour. ![]() |
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Feedback time guys. How many of you have not asked a woman out because you just assumed she would say no? Does fear of rejection stop you from approaching? Just want to get the male's point of view since I have a girl-brain. Not I. Part of me being interested is assuming that the lady is interested. |
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Feedback time guys. How many of you have not asked a woman out because you just assumed she would say no? Does fear of rejection stop you from approaching? Just want to get the male's point of view since I have a girl-brain. I don't ask women out because I don't want to date. If I did want to date, I would ask whomever I was interested in...because I am that damn good. ![]() |
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Edited by
HawaiiMusikMan
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Wed 09/09/09 09:36 PM
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Feedback time guys. How many of you have not asked a woman out because you just assumed she would say no? Does fear of rejection stop you from approaching? Just want to get the male's point of view since I have a girl-brain. I'm not as aggressive about approaching a woman I'm interested in as I should be. I usually flirt a bit and wait until she shows signs of interest. Haven't quite got the hang of this dating game. I've only been in a few, but long term relationships. Been with someone more than not. |
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yup big time
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yup, ![]() chevy will you go out with me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I dont really use cheezy pick up lines or any of that crap so I have no problem talking to a girl,sometimes I get a little nervous if the girl is super hot but I dont fold I just get better..I never make a move right away so if they give me a chance to talk to them long enought then I make my move if not then she isnt interested..SO I guess I am a little nervous but it never stops me
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A guy has to be a real jerk for me to not agree to at least meet up for a cup of coffee... great friends can be made that way.
I would ask them to meet up if there were any local... ![]() |
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rejection is part of life
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I have e-mailed lot of girls and don't get anything back. Yes it does make it harder to keep going sending out e-mails know that they won't respond but you have to keep on trying.
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I have e-mailed lot of girls and don't get anything back. Yes it does make it harder to keep going sending out e-mails know that they won't respond but you have to keep on trying. ![]() I enjoy being rejected, not everyone will like ya. Get over it. |
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