THIS IS DIRECTED AT A CERTAIN INDIVIDUAL I KNOW, HOWEVER I KNOW MANY WOMEN DEAL WITH THIS SAME SITUATION. SO THIS IS FOR ALL THE WOMEN WHO DEAL WITH THIS STUFF. I KNOW SOME MEN DEAL WITH IT TO IM NOT IGNORANT, BUT IT'S VERY DIFFERENT WHEN A WOMAN DEAL WITH THIS. ENJOY MY RANT
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It took me a while to be able to sit here and type away what I really think of you as a person and father. As a human being I find it offensive that people like you are allowed to walk through life while the good people suffer and cry every night. But to see one of my best friend be hurt by your stupid actions doesn't allow me to sit back and do nothing about this.
Whether my words faze you or not that doesn't matter I'm not only doing this for her but I'm doing this for every single woman who has to deal with a dimwit like you. You are a coward and shouldn't ever call yourself a man. I won't list names in this blog however I can tell you that you are the type of man that makes any human being with morals and common sense so sick.
How can you sit there knowing you have two children out in the world who know nothing of their father? You don't provide emotionally for them nor financially. See the thing here is not the money it's the fact that their father is out in the streets wasting his life whoring himself trying to pretend he's tough ****.
You're a punk *** ***** and I'll sit here and say it and own up to my words. I was trying to write this without any profanity but I'm so heated that I frankly don't care. I'll still make my point while taking shots at you. You are lazy, pathetic, a sorry excuse for the human race in general. You throw in her face that you're over her and are ****ing random *******. If you were over her you would be indifferent especially when she was nothing but good to you. I hope you get an STD with all sincerity so you have a reminder of the shitty person you are.
You think that because she filed a child support claim against you that entitles you to see HER kid whenever you want? No it actually doesn't. The law doesn't work that way so don't try to scare her. You haven't provided in any way for that child. Not diapers, formula, or anything of that sort. You say you have no car to see him. Take the metro. If you really wanted to see your son you would find a way. You wouldn't have any excuses. You spend your money on food and video games. Grow the **** up will you?
You CANNOT just see him when you want. You have to go through the court system. She has FULL custody of him, do you know what that means or are you that much of an idiot? You cannot spit out seeds and expect no role in a child's life. We should snip your balls like the dog you are. You aren't a player a pimp or whatever you think you are. You are a low life slutty *****. I have met horrible men in my short life, but not one as despicable as you. You are the biggest hypocrite. How dare you post pics of HER son and pimp him out so you can get broads? You're scum.
How in the hell did you land an amazing girl like her? I don't know. You are a woman beater and I bet if a man came at you, you wouldn't know what to do. There's only one good thing that came from the train wreck that is you, and that's that beautiful little boy who thankfully looks nothing like you and will grow up to be a beautiful and respectable man. He will be nothing like you and we will make sure of that.
Keep being a ho and thinking you're hot ****. A real man faces and owns up to his responsibilities. That boy like every child out there deserves both a father and a mother. So don't you sit there and take credit as being a good father. Because you have no idea what that word means. How can someone be so selfish? I have no clue. Her life is better with you gone. Because now she is only surrounded by people who truly love her and support her and will be there for her and that little boy no matter what. We hoped you would come around. We understood the financial circumstances you dealt with. She was understanding. She just wanted you to visit him, that's all she ever wanted, but that was too much to ask of you wasn't it?
You have no right over that child. Step up to the plate and stop being a stereotype. This is when I wish condoned violence. But I'm better than that. You on the other hand are the little petty ******* who get nowhere in life. You are losing two amazing people, and unfortunately they're hurt. But if this is who you really are, then it's maybe best you stay away. We don't need a boy teaching a baby how to be a man of his word when he alone can't hold his own. That's just my opinion. Enough said.

Take him to court.

wow...
I raised my boys without the father and the money and they are doing just fine..responsible young men now, compassionate and kind. She and her children will be fine also. jmo

Like my ole man said- "It takes 2 to tango".

i raised both my kids with out there dad, but i was married to my son dad, but it didnt feel like it

my daughter dad is on social security as hes considered totally blind.. the state wrote off the child support all together when she was about 3yrs old some where in there..

my son dad is deffently a dead bead but he pays through the state, even though my son is now 22yrs old,. he still owes the back pay

I have no issues with the ex..I have enjoyed my boys. It may have been easier with help, but it is what it is and I don't regret a single moment of it.
Actually all the years went by so fast, next thing ya know their all grown up, the past doesn't even matter.

I would agree with ya there, it is not a poem...

See my thing is it isn't even just about financial responsibility. Its about caring to be their for the kids. I just dont get how ppl can be so careless

Some people are too self-centered to care about others.

lol its a rant duh

Hey it sounds like my father aka the sperm donor

Maybe some people know they wouldn't be a good father. Maybe the kids are better off without him in their lives and he knows it.

There are many things that come in life. You just need to have the strength and power to be above them and deal with them accordingly. You have to be the responsible factor in the equation.

now thats funny, my daughter said that very same thing when she was about 13-14yrs old about her dad...

theres no excuse for not being a father. you arent born n prepped to be a good father you learn along the way. theres no justification.

what about deadbeat moms? i have a friend who's baby mama drove up, dropped the kid off and took off for good. he's raised his little girl since she was just a baby and she's 7 now.

mom's just a foul irresponsible thing.

I also said there were mothers..but this was written to a specific individual.

I have placed this here, as I don't believe that xxkonstantine125xx was trying to start a discussion on deadbeat dads. If I felt she was, or if I'm wrong, it'd be in the Parenting forum.

This is an expressive essay, a rant so to speak. It's creative, and it's cathartic. It is NOT a place to debate, only comment on the emotional content.

All other posts will be deleted.

Lori
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Exactly thank you this is a rant. thats what it is. I wasnt trying to start a debate. I wrote this for people out there who can relate whether it b a mother or father figure.

It is sad, whether it be mom or dad..but life sometimes is.