18 years is kindof pushing the limit :/

what on earth could you possibly have in common?

then again my parents are 18 years apart
and their marriage failed miserably

LOL im biased

so am i

it matters to me
looking for someone to grow old with not watch grow old and vice versa

i already made up my mind just wanted to create a debate, and people can have a great number of things in common despite age, its the chance you must be willing to take if you truly want to be happy, i wont sit back and watch life and opportunity pass by ,,, your all awesome peeps thanx,,,,

NO, age difference was not an issue in the past!

Many men for thousands of years have married women much younger than them - before people started realizing that a 13 year old is just a child. Age differences are now becoming a problem for most - mainly since our life span is increasing. in the 1400s a 13 year old was a woman and could have children and many did! And to them marrying a 45 year old man was common and once their husband died they never remarried and took care of the children by themselves.

And same sex couples has been going on as well, it just wasn't as big of a deal as it is now since Porn, Voyourism and Media became involved.

<------------ Think I may go for the younger man syndrome, I had a look at some of the blokes in my age group.

Its not the age difference that should matter but the maturity difference.

I think age can matter if someone is quite a bit older then the other person you may not find that you have much in common as you both will be from different generations I would say no more then ten years would be ok.

Would 11 years be pushing it?

11 yrs would be acceptable.

so is a prison sentence

Cool, in that case, I am going after the Cabanahandyman.

Can you pretend I am a young CabanaHandyman?

I make an exception seeing that you are offering.

Personally I feel like any guy who is old enough to technically be my dad is just too old.

If you get to the point where you feel you need to justify your relationship or ask if there's too much of an age difference, then I think it matters. If you are questioning it, then you obviously have an issue, whether you want to admit it or not.

I'll be the tiny little housemaid if you'll be the young Cabanahandyman with kind of a five o'clock shadow and a sweaty chest. Did I say that?

people think i'm weird because the majority of the time i go for older women (15-20 + years older than myself)but oh well.


i say if the both of you feel something for each other,go for it

i just think you have a mommy complex