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Topic: Do you believe there can be love after cheating?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/29/09 01:24 PM
love doesn't go away that quickly, if it does you're not in love.. but I wouldn't stay with someone that cheated....

danedw9113 Joined Sun 08/23/09 Posts: 141	Sat 08/29/09 01:32 PM
love? yes trust? most likely not.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/29/09 01:33 PM
Didn't the love come during the cheating? I think that was the problem!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/29/09 01:35 PM
love doesn't go away that quickly, if it does you're not in love.. but I wouldn't stay with someone that cheated.... It turns into suffering. Feels almost the same as loving the person but somehow it's painful to think about him or her.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 08/29/09 01:42 PM
Do you believe there can be love after cheating? I dont think I could truly love or trust someone after they cheated.

Locakiss Joined Sun 06/28/09 Posts: 87	Sat 08/29/09 02:19 PM
Do you believe there can be love after cheating? yep ... with another one

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 08/29/09 02:23 PM
Aahh I cheat all the time!! LOL

Katzenschnauzer Joined Sat 03/28/09 Posts: 2731	Sat 08/29/09 02:42 PM
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no and no.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/29/09 02:57 PM
to all of the above

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sun 08/30/09 02:29 PM
Love, yes...trust NO! without trust there is no real love, love is trust COMMITMENT, patience, understanding,compromise,communication,compassion,and unselfish, with out trust its all dead

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sun 08/30/09 02:33 PM
Yes. If you both decide to stay in the relationship, I believe you can work through the issues. Trust is easily broken, difficult to get back but it has happened.

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Sun 08/30/09 02:38 PM
Do you believe there can be love after cheating?

FETTS61 Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 31425	Sun 08/30/09 02:44 PM
it can happen. i tried for 8-9 months to get past it. i still loved her but the marriage was too far gone by then

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 08/30/09 07:09 PM
Yes. If you both decide to stay in the relationship, I believe you can work through the issues. Trust is easily broken, difficult to get back but it has happened.

Syrod0129 Joined Sun 07/26/09 Posts: 15	Sun 08/30/09 10:34 PM
Do you believe there can be love after cheating? I dont think I could truly love or trust someone after they cheated. hav u ever thought of wut could have possibly gone wrong in the mind of the cheater.. not that its a gud thing to cheat.. but the cheater is not always the one to blame... i think love can still exist.. even trust..

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Sun 08/30/09 10:42 PM
Do you believe there can be love after cheating? I couldn't do it. Lord knows I tried......

mythicalman22 Joined Sat 07/19/08 Posts: 2791	Mon 08/31/09 01:00 AM
All people are different and react differently to things thrown there way...Most people would have hatred not love for there partner if they did this but some people are meant to be little b!tches and thrive upon being treated with allmost no respect.These people are called cuckolds and they are pitiful...I once had sex with a married women and her husband watched and enjoyed it, apparently more then me...I had my fun but fealt so angry at the man I wanted to beat him to death...I have no idea how a man could enjoy seeing that but I fealt good making him feel like that cuz he was so pitiful

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 09/11/09 11:58 AM


AGoodGuy1026 Joined Wed 04/22/09 Posts: 1333	Fri 09/11/09 12:09 PM Edited by AGoodGuy1026 on Fri 09/11/09 12:10 PM
Do you believe there can be love after cheating? I couldn't do it. Lord knows I tried...... Mirror is back, along with his old posts!!...

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Fri 09/11/09 12:58 PM Edited by Jhavez on Fri 09/11/09 01:56 PM
Not Now, Not Before, Not Later, Not with me So NO, their is no love after cheating, well at least not here.