Topic: Am I such a bastard???
anthsm22's photo
Tue 08/25/09 09:40 AM


What really sucks is it seems that eh only time people want to talk to me is when they need something from me.


That's precisely my scenario in real life. They need to be "rescued," they come to me. I "rescue" them, they disappear until such time as they need "rescuing" again.

And I've been here since the end of '06 and haven't met anybody....the writing, as they say, is on the wall (whatever isn't in my profile, anyway).

Try being the one that needs rescued....who knows.LOL.....

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Tue 08/25/09 09:42 AM

Sigh.

You break my heart Sexy Lexy.


I'm just apparently really bad at picking the good ones....

shades

....or really good at picking the bad ones....

LewisW123's photo
Tue 08/25/09 09:42 AM


Sigh.

You break my heart Sexy Lexy.


I'm just apparently really bad at picking the good ones....

shades

....or really good at picking the bad ones....


In any event: your picker is broken.

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Tue 08/25/09 09:42 AM



What really sucks is it seems that eh only time people want to talk to me is when they need something from me.


That's precisely my scenario in real life. They need to be "rescued," they come to me. I "rescue" them, they disappear until such time as they need "rescuing" again.

And I've been here since the end of '06 and haven't met anybody....the writing, as they say, is on the wall (whatever isn't in my profile, anyway).

Try being the one that needs rescued....who knows.LOL.....


I'd love to, but the fact is, whenever I need someone, there's no one around. I don't get to have a "rescuer" -- one of the inequities of the system, I suppose....

lilith401's photo
Tue 08/25/09 09:43 AM
Peter Piper Picked a Peck of Pickled Peppers!!!!!!frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated


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Tue 08/25/09 09:43 AM



Sigh.

You break my heart Sexy Lexy.


I'm just apparently really bad at picking the good ones....

shades

....or really good at picking the bad ones....


In any event: your picker is broken.


For sure. Not even duct tape is gonna fix this one.

Irish23468's photo
Tue 08/25/09 09:48 AM
I'm at war with an ice cream cake right now, if that makes you feel any better.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Tue 08/25/09 11:07 AM
okay so i'm gonna treat this like a "rate my profile" situation okay andy?

your profile is too long. i didn't get past "i'm too smart for religion" because it felt like i as reading a bad article in the times, and thats just plain offensive as apparently you find those who have faith to be less intelligent.

there's alot of negativity in that pile you wrote.

i was looking for humor..

um..

and in the forums.. you're kinda negative too.

soooo that said...

good luck man! :)

:thumbsup:

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 08/25/09 12:30 PM

okay so i'm gonna treat this like a "rate my profile" situation okay andy?

your profile is too long. i didn't get past "i'm too smart for religion" because it felt like i as reading a bad article in the times, and thats just plain offensive as apparently you find those who have faith to be less intelligent.

there's alot of negativity in that pile you wrote.

i was looking for humor..

um..

and in the forums.. you're kinda negative too.

soooo that said...

good luck man! :)

:thumbsup:


Well opposites are supposed to attract. maybe I am not meeting all of the negative girls!

Where are the positive ones!


:angel:

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Tue 08/25/09 12:40 PM

Well, so far I have been on mingle for a while now but I have yet to actually meet anyone. What surprises me even more is that I have yet to really get past the luke warm emails or even worst scammers. Now I am really curious, Am I total bastard or what?

I am curious! Now I know I am not advocating driving around squashing little animals or trying to form a group of Manson like nutbags, I am not a cultist or religiously affiliated especially to the extreme where "I love Jesus" or even more extreme a Zealot. I sure have not been spitting on people. I know I am an EOO (Equal Opportunity Offender, I piss everyone off at some time or another without regard to race creed sex etc.).

So what is it going to take to actually begin to meet women here? Wrap myself in $100 bills and tell everyone I am Bill Gates? God for as rich as he is he is still a total CHOAD! I'd rather be poor and have a good personality and get along with people!

So WTF! What exactly am I doing wrong? Who the heck did I piss off?










This has been my morning rant. Thank you for your patronage. IN advance I also thank those of you for playing your tiny violins for me. All sympathy appreciated. All snide comments even more appreciated!

:banana:


A lot of people "like Jesus" and so unless you are really serious about not wanting to be involved whatsoever with religion maybe you should leave Him out of it. I'm thinking that maybe you meant that you are not a fanatic about Jesus and His teachings. Benefit of the doubt here.waving

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Tue 08/25/09 05:02 PM

Peter Piper Picked a Peck of Pickled Peppers!!!!!!frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated




Is he related to Billie Piper?


papersmile's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:33 PM
So what is it going to take to actually begin to meet women here? Wrap myself in $100 bills and tell everyone I am Bill Gates?


if you're being serious about this post, then i doubt even that much money will get you a date. :wink:

luv2roknroll's photo
Tue 08/25/09 05:45 PM
Now wait a minute here!!!grumble

I thought Dan99 was suppose to be the bastard here!!!!drinker

You know like Phuque is the hottie,pitchfork (well one of them)
And Old Sage is the silver foxlove ,
Repunzel is super patriotic and niceflowers ,
And im the pervert!!!pitchfork

Did I miss a memo being gone so much, or what?what biggrin

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 08/25/09 09:59 PM
Hi Roberta!flowerforyou

TexasScoundrel's photo
Tue 08/25/09 10:21 PM
It's not you. They cannot reject you because they don't know you. What they are rejecting is what you are saying in your messages. So, think of something differant to say.

If the fish aren't biting, change your bait.

daniel48706's photo
Wed 08/26/09 12:31 PM


Sigh.

You break my heart Sexy Lexy.


I'm just apparently really bad at picking the good ones....

shades

....or really good at picking the bad ones....


You and I are in the same boat Lex. I seem to always pick the ones that are looking for help or "rescue" but then go back to what got them there in the first place.

If we ARE in the same boat, I highly recommend we coordinate our paddling efforts so that we quit rowing in circles drinker

Wellroundedgeek's photo
Wed 08/26/09 12:33 PM

Well if you offend or piss off people equally, why would anyone want to hang around?



You might have said that to be funny, but there is something to that statement. :thumbsup:


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Wed 08/26/09 12:35 PM



Sigh.

You break my heart Sexy Lexy.


I'm just apparently really bad at picking the good ones....

shades

....or really good at picking the bad ones....


You and I are in the same boat Lex. I seem to always pick the ones that are looking for help or "rescue" but then go back to what got them there in the first place.

If we ARE in the same boat, I highly recommend we coordinate our paddling efforts so that we quit rowing in circles drinker


Yup, this particular circle leads nowhere!

Albeit I'm very very good at rescuing now....

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 08/26/09 01:18 PM
in the case of love, negativity won't attract positivity, unless you want some codependant who's going to try to save you.

LOL good luck man.

earthytaurus76's photo
Wed 08/26/09 01:22 PM
Dont fret, the alternative in my experience is a million emails from people youd never consider.