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Topic: Age Difference
HulloThar's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:21 PM
After the age of consent, or eighteen for some anyway, do you believe that people should not outside of their age range? And if so, what is that range in your opinion?

Most importantly, why do you believe the way you do?

I think that when you are dealing with two people who are mature, there is no exact range, though of course some people don't want to date anyone too old or too young.

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:23 PM
after a certain point of age differences you have era differences.. You don't have much in common... Maybe feelings, maybe sex but not more than that...

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:25 PM
I won't date under 40 or over 60...
I'm 48, just my own guide lines.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:27 PM
It would be unique and fun at first I think but, then it's kind of an Oedipus complex going on. If an 18 year old takes a 61 year old home to Mother it's going to mess up a lot of family barbeques.

no photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:28 PM

It would be unique and fun at first I think but, then it's kind of an Oedipus complex going on. If an 18 year old takes a 61 year old home to Mother it's going to mess up a lot of family barbeques.


yeah, kinda...laugh

no photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:28 PM
I'd feel creepy dating a guy who could be my kid. But that's just me.

HulloThar's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:29 PM

It would be unique and fun at first I think but, then it's kind of an Oedipus complex going on. If an 18 year old takes a 61 year old home to Mother it's going to mess up a lot of family barbeques.


I can definitely see your point. That would definitely be awkward.

tohyup's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:30 PM
From 18 to my age is just fine . I do not see why not .

HulloThar's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:32 PM

From 18 to my age is just fine . I do not see why not .


The question may be a bit different to answer for men and women.

speedbug72's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:33 PM
ive dated girls an woemen btween the ages of 20 an 45 years old. it is interesting the differences in the wants an desires an the definition of romantic.

but yes the era we grew up in created a small stress in the relation ship but opened doors to teaching each other.

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:34 PM

I'd feel creepy dating a guy who could be my kid. But that's just me.


yea, agreed. Especially when you have watched them all go through puberty.

AndyBgood's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:37 PM
In all honesty sex and relationships are as different as the people involved in them. Older women are a learning experience for younger guys most of the time. I like younger women myself. In the end it all boils down to if you feel shame in the relationship or not. There should be none. I don't necessarily let age dominate my choice in who I choose to be with per say. It goes like this, if you gravitate towards older women there is nothing wrong with you per say other than the tripe uneducated and ignorant (fearful) people spout.

When you see an 18 year old girl under the arm of some sixty or seventy year old guy more often then not she sold out to the dollar! Likewise I have seen older (and I mean MUCH older) women with their own Sancho (much younger boy toy.) Here is to you Cougars out there!!!drinker

If you are planning a serious relationship you do have to draw some lines. Again that is personal and a personal choice. Besides, a free lunch is rare as heck and older women can be a learning experience if anything. There is a reason hot moms are called MILFs!

Other than that party on because at 18 you get to call your own shots but bear in mind that now you have to deal with (dare I say it?) RESPONSIBILITY! I should get my mouth washed out with soap for saying that!

Still, if an 18 year old girl and I are happy together why should I look down on a woman who is 52 and playing around with some 19 year old guy? Happiness is truly a rare and hard to find commodity these days. Supposedly at 18 we all can make our own decisions. Too bad there are so many uptight dill holes that don't get that out there!tongue2

AndyBgood's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:39 PM
Here is a thought, what if we achieved Immortality or Amortality where we just lived ridiculously long life spans? Would age matter then at all??????

Honestly though, how many of you would rather drive this year's model car rather than last years?????


Honest answers now!

robert1652's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:47 PM
Edited by robert1652 on Thu 08/20/09 11:59 PM
As we grow older the range of age difference expand
when I was 17 my limits were down to 3 years
when I was 25 my limits were down to 7 years
when I was 30 my limits were down to 10 years
when I was 40 my limits were down to 12 years
when I was 50 my limits were down to 16 years
Now that I am 57 my limits are down to 20 years

And I might add there are many takers too.

This is due to better diet as well as better fitness options that provides men and women with this opportunity
Though I may say in my experience the younger girls tend to want to do things that we left behind long ago such as drinking until sick or stay up all night in Club Ibiza or do drugs of one sort or another.Or they want kids which I already have . I am not condoning nor refuting the desires only saying that differences of interest normally brings the situation to an end.
I also wish to say how sorry I feel for younger men today
some girls at 13 or 14 look developed enough to be 22
Its all the chickens they eat with hormones I tell you.damn chickens


Can you imagine? no birth certificate, we don't fornicate

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:50 PM

I won't date under 40 or over 60...
I'm 48, just my own guide lines.


DAMN!!! 3 more weeks to wait!!!sad sad sad

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:51 PM

I won't date under 40 or over 60...
I'm 48, just my own guide lines.


DAMN!!! 3 more weeks to wait!!!sad sad sad

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:51 PM

I won't date under 40 or over 60...
I'm 48, just my own guide lines.


DAMN!!! 3 more weeks to wait!!!sad sad sad

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 08/20/09 11:58 PM

As we grow older the range of age difference expand
when I was 17 my limits were down to 3 years
when I was 25 my limits were down to 7 years
when I was 30 my limits were down to 10 years
when I was 40 my limits were down to 12 years
when I was 50 my limits were down to 16 years
Now that I am 57 my limits are down to 20 years

And I might add there are many takers too.

This is due to better diet as well as better fitness options that provides men and women with this opportunity
Though I may say in my experience the younger girls tend to want to do things that we left behind long ago such as drinking until sick or stay up all night in Club Ibiza or do drugs of one sort or another.Or they want kids which I already have . I am not condoning nor refuting the desires only saying that differences of interest normally brings the situation to an end.
I also wish to say how sorry I feel for younger men today
some girls at 13 or 14 look developed enough to be 22
Its all the chickens they eat with hormones I tell you.damn chickens





I must say that pretty much sums it up ............

robert1652's photo
Fri 08/21/09 12:01 AM
Edited by robert1652 on Fri 08/21/09 12:02 AM


I must say that pretty much sums it up ............

I was still working on that you were a bit fast

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 08/21/09 12:06 AM



I must say that pretty much sums it up ............

I was still working on that you were a bit fast



Well ya finished yet? hehehehbigsmile

Sshshshh must be that old age setting in :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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