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I like to show my affection to a girlfriend but she tells me that she feels uncomfortable showing me her affection towards me and thats just how she is... I think she's just not used to this, is there a chance for her to change with time?
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could just be her way. some people aren't touchy feely and some are. is that what you mean, physical affection? or like buying gifts or something?
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I like affection......Im used to it and if I dont get it, then I just dont get it!!
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this is
 but i'm curious- if you already have a gf, why does your profile say you're looking for a relationship?
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could just be her way. some people aren't touchy feely and some are. is that what you mean, physical affection? or like buying gifts or something? Gifts don't matter to me. We've only known each other for 2 weeks but I show my affection by cuddling, hugging, going for the kisses, holding her hand. She doesn't seem to reciplicate those actions towards me. |
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Affection is only important to those who have been acclimated toward such emotions.
I grew up in a rather affectionless (not to mention dysfunctional) household, and -as a result- I tend not to show very much in the way of such. So showing or receiving affection in any shape essentially means nothing to me. |
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could just be her way. some people aren't touchy feely and some are. is that what you mean, physical affection? or like buying gifts or something? Gifts don't matter to me. We've only known each other for 2 weeks but I show my affection by cuddling, hugging, going for the kisses, holding her hand. She doesn't seem to reciplicate those actions towards me. oh, well, like i said, it could just be her way. i'm not a very affectionate person either. |
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I want my hand held, and I want to be hugged and kissed and if I dont get it.........YOU SUCK!!!
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could just be her way. some people aren't touchy feely and some are. is that what you mean, physical affection? or like buying gifts or something? Gifts don't matter to me. We've only known each other for 2 weeks but I show my affection by cuddling, hugging, going for the kisses, holding her hand. She doesn't seem to reciplicate those actions towards me. oh, well, like i said, it could just be her way. i'm not a very affectionate person either. She seems to be alright other than the affection... I'm thinking of taking a chance and she might open up more if the relationship lasts long enough, my affection could rub off on her. |
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could just be her way. some people aren't touchy feely and some are. is that what you mean, physical affection? or like buying gifts or something? Gifts don't matter to me. We've only known each other for 2 weeks but I show my affection by cuddling, hugging, going for the kisses, holding her hand. She doesn't seem to reciplicate those actions towards me. oh, well, like i said, it could just be her way. i'm not a very affectionate person either. She seems to be alright other than the affection... I'm thinking of taking a chance and she might open up more if the relationship lasts long enough, my affection could rub off on her. maybe... |
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I really hate when they lick my face........gawwwwwwwwwwd thats just gross!!!
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I really hate when they lick my face........gawwwwwwwwwwd thats just gross!!!
Or when they wee-wee on you, huh! |
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Maybe she just isn't comfortable caring on in public with a married man. Your wife catches her letting you love up on her she is likely to get hurt and she knows it.
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Affection is only important to those who have been acclimated toward such emotions. I grew up in a rather affectionless (not to mention dysfunctional) household, and -as a result- I tend not to show very much in the way of such. So showing or receiving affection in any shape essentially means nothing to me. She did get beat as a kid, that might have a big role in it huh? |
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I really hate when they lick my face........gawwwwwwwwwwd thats just gross!!!
ewwww, LOL |
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Maybe she just isn't comfortable caring on in public with a married man. Your wife catches her letting you love up on her she is likely to get hurt and she knows it. yeah i asked about that.... |
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Affection is only important to those who have been acclimated toward such emotions. I grew up in a rather affectionless (not to mention dysfunctional) household, and -as a result- I tend not to show very much in the way of such. So showing or receiving affection in any shape essentially means nothing to me. She did get beat as a kid, that might have a big role in it huh? It could, but it could also have to do with any emotional abuse or trauma that may have happened in her childhood. Heck- just seeing the parents bicker and argue about stuff would be enough to make someone hardened like that. You're just gonna have to ask her and try to get to the bottom of things. You'll probably even need to take her in some for counseling. |
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Maybe she just isn't comfortable caring on in public with a married man. Your wife catches her letting you love up on her she is likely to get hurt and she knows it. I'm seperated and the divorce is underway and my girlfriend knows about that. |
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I really hate when they lick my face........gawwwwwwwwwwd thats just gross!!!
ewwww, LOL
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Affection is only important to those who have been acclimated toward such emotions. I grew up in a rather affectionless (not to mention dysfunctional) household, and -as a result- I tend not to show very much in the way of such. So showing or receiving affection in any shape essentially means nothing to me. She did get beat as a kid, that might have a big role in it huh? It could, but it could also have to do with any emotional abuse or trauma that may have happened in her childhood. Heck- just seeing the parents bicker and argue about stuff would be enough to make someone hardened like that. You're just gonna have to ask her and try to get to the bottom of things. You'll probably even need to take her in some for counseling. We've only known each other for 2 weeks, I don't think I should be probing her mind just yet and counseling might be way down the line from now if I do try that |
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