Topic: how important is affection in a relationship?
FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:00 AM



I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?

Balky's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:02 AM




I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes

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Thu 08/20/09 02:02 AM




I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


i'm sure it would have the same results.sick

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:04 AM





I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.

no photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:07 AM






I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:09 AM







I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...

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Thu 08/20/09 02:10 AM








I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:13 AM









I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...

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Thu 08/20/09 02:15 AM










I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:20 AM











I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....


Well, smells better...well, because of the err...erhm, fertilizer...yeah, it was smelly because of fertilizer...

no photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:21 AM












I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....


Well, smells better...well, because of the err...erhm, fertilizer...yeah, it was smelly because of fertilizer...


LOL vanilla and fertilizer, like nectar to the nose. laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:26 AM













I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....


Well, smells better...well, because of the err...erhm, fertilizer...yeah, it was smelly because of fertilizer...


LOL vanilla and fertilizer, like nectar to the nose. laugh


Sorry, I was busy finishing my Fred finger's...haha, still can't say that without laughing. Fred finger's...kind of like Chicken...err...nevermind...

no photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:27 AM














I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....


Well, smells better...well, because of the err...erhm, fertilizer...yeah, it was smelly because of fertilizer...


LOL vanilla and fertilizer, like nectar to the nose. laugh


Sorry, I was busy finishing my Fred finger's...haha, still can't say that without laughing. Fred finger's...kind of like Chicken...err...nevermind...


Are they anything like Lady fingers? All delicate and airy and delicious?drool

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:30 AM















I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....


Well, smells better...well, because of the err...erhm, fertilizer...yeah, it was smelly because of fertilizer...


LOL vanilla and fertilizer, like nectar to the nose. laugh


Sorry, I was busy finishing my Fred finger's...haha, still can't say that without laughing. Fred finger's...kind of like Chicken...err...nevermind...


Are they anything like Lady fingers? All delicate and airy and delicious?drool


Yeah, only I made mine with Fred's...err...chicken, yeah...I made mine with chicken...

no photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:32 AM
















I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....


Well, smells better...well, because of the err...erhm, fertilizer...yeah, it was smelly because of fertilizer...


LOL vanilla and fertilizer, like nectar to the nose. laugh


Sorry, I was busy finishing my Fred finger's...haha, still can't say that without laughing. Fred finger's...kind of like Chicken...err...nevermind...


Are they anything like Lady fingers? All delicate and airy and delicious?drool


Yeah, only I made mine with Fred's...err...chicken, yeah...I made mine with chicken...


Hmmm, I bet Fred is missing a few digits right about now. Did you hide him under the stoop? And can I steal your headline? I need something repulsive to ward off the crazies, advise me.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 08/20/09 02:33 AM

















I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....


Well, smells better...well, because of the err...erhm, fertilizer...yeah, it was smelly because of fertilizer...


LOL vanilla and fertilizer, like nectar to the nose. laugh


Sorry, I was busy finishing my Fred finger's...haha, still can't say that without laughing. Fred finger's...kind of like Chicken...err...nevermind...


Are they anything like Lady fingers? All delicate and airy and delicious?drool


Yeah, only I made mine with Fred's...err...chicken, yeah...I made mine with chicken...


Hmmm, I bet Fred is missing a few digits right about now. Did you hide him under the stoop? And can I steal your headline? I need something repulsive to ward off the crazies, advise me.


A good headline? "I have a collection of skulls on my headboard"...

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Thu 08/20/09 02:34 AM


















I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha rofl see i got no shame


umm, sometimes shame is a good thing....just sayin'


Eh I know but I need to do this


Is that kind of like "I needed to run through the park naked"?


Yes


Well, at least you're honest.


usually i respect honesty, but in this case...scared


I'm thinking he would be better suited at Adult Friend Finder. Kind of bad when you can note within their first post what they are here looking for...


true, i just wonder what it is about my profile that screams whore. i need to edit that out.grumble


I found putting serial killers in your profile means you will only attract people with like minded interests...otherwise I have to bury them under my stoop...I know that looks bad, but they do have a candle down there...


hmmm, maybe i should put that in mine? as the headline maybe? but it would be stealing yours, would you mind?love

and yeah, they love the candle down there, i heard the new one is vanilla scented....


Well, smells better...well, because of the err...erhm, fertilizer...yeah, it was smelly because of fertilizer...


LOL vanilla and fertilizer, like nectar to the nose. laugh


Sorry, I was busy finishing my Fred finger's...haha, still can't say that without laughing. Fred finger's...kind of like Chicken...err...nevermind...


Are they anything like Lady fingers? All delicate and airy and delicious?drool


Yeah, only I made mine with Fred's...err...chicken, yeah...I made mine with chicken...


Hmmm, I bet Fred is missing a few digits right about now. Did you hide him under the stoop? And can I steal your headline? I need something repulsive to ward off the crazies, advise me.


A good headline? "I have a collection of skulls on my headboard"...



squueeeee!! that's brilliant! i'll definitely use it. you're so wise....love love love

hereformore's photo
Thu 08/20/09 06:35 AM




Maybe she just isn't comfortable caring on in public with a married man. Your wife catches her letting you love up on her she is likely to get hurt and she knows it.


I'm seperated and the divorce is underway and my girlfriend knows about that.


Yea but that would make me a little nervous. Main reason I don't date walking wounded (folks that are newly divorced) just isn't worth the drama.


There's no drama from my ex wife... thats a done deal she's moved on and so have I

You said previously that the divorce was in the works? Is she your ex. or soon to be ex.
Also. I noticed that you have been seeing this girl for two weeks but you live several states apart? How often have you physically "seen" her. Even if you have seen her every day for two weeks straight that is a bit soon for you to be "showing your affection." Are you not happy holding her hand or does she have to let you feel her up to know you have affection for you?

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Thu 08/20/09 10:26 AM





Maybe she just isn't comfortable caring on in public with a married man. Your wife catches her letting you love up on her she is likely to get hurt and she knows it.


I'm seperated and the divorce is underway and my girlfriend knows about that.


Yea but that would make me a little nervous. Main reason I don't date walking wounded (folks that are newly divorced) just isn't worth the drama.


There's no drama from my ex wife... thats a done deal she's moved on and so have I

You said previously that the divorce was in the works? Is she your ex. or soon to be ex.
Also. I noticed that you have been seeing this girl for two weeks but you live several states apart? How often have you physically "seen" her. Even if you have seen her every day for two weeks straight that is a bit soon for you to be "showing your affection." Are you not happy holding her hand or does she have to let you feel her up to know you have affection for you?


She's his soon to be ex, and his profile says he's looking for a relationship (even though he has a gf) and when he was referring to the several states he meant between him and me when he was hitting on me. yeah, i know.frustrated

AngelFireDream's photo
Thu 08/20/09 10:32 AM

I like to show my affection to a girlfriend but she tells me that she feels uncomfortable showing me her affection towards me and thats just how she is... I think she's just not used to this, is there a chance for her to change with time?

Possibly, with the right supports and patience; but, depending on her age, her personality, and the circumstances of her life, there is a chance she won't. If she is open to change, try to help her discover why she is uncomfortable, then work with that. Some people don't like kissing, holding hands, or hugging, and especially not in public. Sad, but true. The question to ask yourself is: "Is it something I can accept or tolerate for the long haul?" Good Luck.