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Topic: how important is affection in a relationship?
Balky Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 259	Thu 08/20/09 01:01 AM
Red flag, if she is not affectionate within a month, move on. She may be jaded in some way. It won't change until her sexual peak around 36. Non-affectionate people are often not confident in themselves and this will reflect in more ways down the line as you get to know her. Non-affectionate people do not couple well with affectionate people. Voice your needs and if she doesn't improve, move on to a more affectionate girl who fits your neeeds, better. Best of luck. I've asked her if it bugs her if I'm affectionate towards her, she says she doesn't mind it, is that a good sign? maybe she's a taker and not a giver? Maybe I haven't known her long enough. So far I've been the only one giving her foreplay, she wants to return the favor but haven't had the right chance yet. LOL, then let her have a chance. She likes my tongue ;) but yeah I'm waiting for mine and she will give it to me, we're planning a disneyland trip so I'm sure we'll do lots at the hotel there.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Thu 08/20/09 01:01 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped....

Balky Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 259	Thu 08/20/09 01:03 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped.... I do grope sometimes, you don't like being groped by a handsome guy?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/20/09 01:03 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped.... I do grope sometimes, you don't like being groped by a handsome guy? Uh oh............kling on syndrome!!!!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Thu 08/20/09 01:04 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped.... I do grope sometimes, you don't like being groped by a handsome guy? they weren't handsome.

Balky Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 259	Thu 08/20/09 01:06 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped.... I do grope sometimes, you don't like being groped by a handsome guy? they weren't handsome. Well I'm far from ugly I'd do it but I'm also taken and very loyal but a tease

Balky Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 259	Thu 08/20/09 01:07 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped.... I do grope sometimes, you don't like being groped by a handsome guy? Uh oh............kling on syndrome!!!! Naw I don't think I'm a clingy guy, that could be annoying.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Thu 08/20/09 01:08 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped.... I do grope sometimes, you don't like being groped by a handsome guy? they weren't handsome. Well I'm far from ugly I'd do it but I'm also taken and very loyal but a tease awwww, i just missed out

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 08/20/09 01:08 AM
Bury her...that always seems to work for me...

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Thu 08/20/09 01:09 AM
Red flag, if she is not affectionate within a month, move on. She may be jaded in some way. It won't change until her sexual peak around 36. Non-affectionate people are often not confident in themselves and this will reflect in more ways down the line as you get to know her. Non-affectionate people do not couple well with affectionate people. Voice your needs and if she doesn't improve, move on to a more affectionate girl who fits your neeeds, better. Best of luck. I've asked her if it bugs her if I'm affectionate towards her, she says she doesn't mind it, is that a good sign? maybe she's a taker and not a giver? Maybe I haven't known her long enough. So far I've been the only one giving her foreplay, she wants to return the favor but haven't had the right chance yet. LOL, then let her have a chance. She likes my tongue ;) but yeah I'm waiting for mine and she will give it to me, we're planning a disneyland trip so I'm sure we'll do lots at the hotel there. yay?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/20/09 01:10 AM
Ok here is what you do....... I can see the problem from here. Your all over this chick. She just wants to push you away.......... Step 1: Do not touch her in any way, shape or form for 3 days. By day 3, she is gonna wonder wtf is wrong........and ATTACK YOU!!!! You can pay me by cash, cheque, mastercard, american express or paypal btw!!

Balky Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 259	Thu 08/20/09 01:11 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped.... I do grope sometimes, you don't like being groped by a handsome guy? they weren't handsome. Well I'm far from ugly I'd do it but I'm also taken and very loyal but a tease awwww, i just missed out Kinda far too, that might've played a roll... too many useless states between cali and west virginia

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Thu 08/20/09 01:11 AM
Ok here is what you do....... I can see the problem from here. Your all over this chick. She just wants to push you away.......... Step 1: Do not touch her in any way, shape or form for 3 days. By day 3, she is gonna wonder wtf is wrong........and ATTACK YOU!!!! You can pay me by cash, cheque, mastercard, american express or paypal btw!! good plan

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Thu 08/20/09 01:12 AM
Bury her...that always seems to work for me... oh yes, that's such a turn on

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Thu 08/20/09 01:13 AM
Or maybe your a GROPER!!! ah i remember being groped.... I do grope sometimes, you don't like being groped by a handsome guy? they weren't handsome. Well I'm far from ugly I'd do it but I'm also taken and very loyal but a tease awwww, i just missed out Kinda far too, that might've played a roll... too many useless states between cali and west virginia

Balky Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 259	Thu 08/20/09 01:13 AM
Ok here is what you do....... I can see the problem from here. Your all over this chick. She just wants to push you away.......... Step 1: Do not touch her in any way, shape or form for 3 days. By day 3, she is gonna wonder wtf is wrong........and ATTACK YOU!!!! You can pay me by cash, cheque, mastercard, american express or paypal btw!! Hmmm I might try that, that could work. Id like her to attack me

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/20/09 01:13 AM
Ok here is what you do....... I can see the problem from here. Your all over this chick. She just wants to push you away.......... Step 1: Do not touch her in any way, shape or form for 3 days. By day 3, she is gonna wonder wtf is wrong........and ATTACK YOU!!!! You can pay me by cash, cheque, mastercard, american express or paypal btw!! good plan oh ya.........1-800-gypsyknows!!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/20/09 01:14 AM
Ok here is what you do....... I can see the problem from here. Your all over this chick. She just wants to push you away.......... Step 1: Do not touch her in any way, shape or form for 3 days. By day 3, she is gonna wonder wtf is wrong........and ATTACK YOU!!!! You can pay me by cash, cheque, mastercard, american express or paypal btw!! Hmmm I might try that, that could work. Id like her to attack me Ohhhhhhhhh it will work. Trust me!!!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Thu 08/20/09 01:14 AM
Ok here is what you do....... I can see the problem from here. Your all over this chick. She just wants to push you away.......... Step 1: Do not touch her in any way, shape or form for 3 days. By day 3, she is gonna wonder wtf is wrong........and ATTACK YOU!!!! You can pay me by cash, cheque, mastercard, american express or paypal btw!! good plan oh ya.........1-800-gypsyknows!!! you should put that on your profile

Balky Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 259	Thu 08/20/09 01:15 AM
I'm sitting here naked btw lol. I got some hair removal cream and I'm using it downstairs, just thought I'd share this... she won't go down if there's a jungle down there haha see i got no shame