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Topic: Breaking up by a text msg.
anthsm22 Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 727	Sat 08/15/09 11:26 AM
Ok..... I was just recently broken up with via text msg following 4 years together. Im pretty angry still that it was done this way. Am I being too sensitive, or do I have a legitimate reason to be angry?

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Sat 08/15/09 11:27 AM
I would be too its the cowards way out

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 08/15/09 11:28 AM
Of course you have a f'ing reason to be angry. Four years and you get a text message. I would TP her house and be sure to spell out "OMG". People never cease to amaze me.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Sat 08/15/09 11:28 AM
I don't know. It sounds cheesy. Move on and good luck.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sat 08/15/09 11:32 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTKI9OUGVGU

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Sat 08/15/09 11:35 AM
childish behavior move on....

countrybelle6471 Joined Fri 06/15/07 Posts: 3150	Sat 08/15/09 11:38 AM
well kinda sorta in the same boat here ,we had just seperated a few days before it happened a week ago today I made him leave, but we still tring to make things 'WORK',them he came and got his stuff earlier this week.but started being a JERK.. think mo I know he just wanted to get out of his part of the bills so he dent he an ugly text message or to & I did i the same ,him result I told him off & leave me alone,cause he wouldn't.sorry on his part i think..and naturally there there is/ was a lot said done that i cant & wont put here,But I go through days of being mad,angry,hurt at him & myself for a varity of different reasons...

IdAppreciate Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 61	Sat 08/15/09 11:39 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTKI9OUGVGU YEAH! Funny! And I like the addition of Roller Girls in the vid!

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Sat 08/15/09 11:40 AM
as bad as a post it left on your desk....

JasmineInglewood Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 4447	Sat 08/15/09 11:41 AM
Ok..... I was just recently broken up with via text msg following 4 years together. Im pretty angry still that it was done this way. Am I being too sensitive, or do I have a legitimate reason to be angry? i'm guilty of this

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/15/09 11:42 AM
Ok..... I was just recently broken up with via text msg following 4 years together. Im pretty angry still that it was done this way. Am I being too sensitive, or do I have a legitimate reason to be angry? Why would she do that after being with you for 4 years? Was she scared or something?

Ted14621 Joined Mon 01/07/08 Posts: 2173	Sat 08/15/09 11:42 AM
as bad as a post it left on your desk.... Oh wow, good idea!

Arcamedees Joined Wed 04/22/09 Posts: 1817	Sat 08/15/09 11:43 AM
Breaking up by txt or email is the cowards way out. Cowards die many times before their death. The brave but once.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Sat 08/15/09 11:44 AM
as bad as a post it left on your desk.... Oh wow, good idea!

anthsm22 Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 727	Sat 08/15/09 11:46 AM
Ok..... I was just recently broken up with via text msg following 4 years together. Im pretty angry still that it was done this way. Am I being too sensitive, or do I have a legitimate reason to be angry? Why would she do that after being with you for 4 years? Was she scared or something? This is how the text went... Her: "I want to be with you, I do love you, but I am done. We are over!" Talk about a head game message!!! No, she had no reason to fear me. The only thing I can think of is that she had guilt and didnt want to face it. But still, I think it was a low, cowardy, childish, manipulative way.

kaylala Joined Thu 07/23/09 Posts: 154	Sat 08/15/09 11:48 AM
I did that once:( i did feel bad, but i it was just a month relationship if that makes it better? 4 years then break up via text would just be wicked

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sat 08/15/09 11:49 AM
a text message is a better break-up method than is walking in and seeing your partner in bed with another person.

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Sat 08/15/09 11:54 AM
Never fun to read it's over and in normal situation it should not happen but we do not know all of the events that lead to the text messages maybe it wasn't deserve maybe it was. When we hear one side of stories it always sounds the one telling it is the victim. Still not a way to do it, people have to face up to their decisions.

anthsm22 Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 727	Sat 08/15/09 11:59 AM
Never fun to read it's over and in normal situation it should not happen but we do not know all of the events that lead to the text messages maybe it wasn't deserve maybe it was. When we hear one side of stories it always sounds the one telling it is the victim. Still not a way to do it, people have to face up to their decisions. I agree with what you say. I can tell you the facts.We were not fighting,NEVER any violence, she had disapeared for a week. That was the only message I got from her. She did not respond to any voicemails, texts, emails afer sending that text. I am left with who what when where and why.

purplehorses Joined Fri 12/26/08 Posts: 21	Sat 08/15/09 12:21 PM
whoa wait...SERIOUSLY? oh now that aint right! after one date, maybe but 4 yrs? i can see an email explaining out the reasons and such cuz face to face confrontation can be confusing due to emotions. but dialog is important even in a breakup, nothing wrong with an email in my opinion so long as it communicates everything. a text message is downright f***** up. i don't know you but...BIG (((((((HUUUUUUUUUUG))))))))))