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"DO-IT-YOURSELF" COMPLETENESS...
You have to be willing to "complete" yourself. You can do this. If the person you eventually find is considered to be he/she that "completes" you, imagine the gaping, bloody hole in your heart which will result when/if they are suddenly gone, SINCE YOU HAD NOT FIRST "COMPLETED" YOURSELF? It seems that one doesn't find love...love finds you. Comments? |
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 I agree
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Edited by
Gossipmpm
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Thu 08/13/09 06:05 PM
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My partner does not "complete" me
I was "complete". Years ago He's my yummy. side dish that I love! 
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If you don't like your own company how can you expect some one else to?
One needs to be complete before they can completely give themselves to another..no one else can complete you. They can however inspire you to be a better person...jmo
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I'm not looking for someone to complete my life but for someone to compliment my life with his.
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I do not know if anyone is truly "complete", but some sure are more complete than others.
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Edited by
trublu4u
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Thu 08/13/09 06:19 PM
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Maybe this is how one finds him/herself out on an emotional limb, just sawing away, until too late, they find that the saw is between themselves and the tree of life (and of sanity, maybe...)!
Then, sometimes, somebody can just get crazy! Stalkers, obsessive peeping toms, car-keyers... 
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Edited by
Jess642
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Thu 08/13/09 07:10 PM
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His incompleteness does not make my incompleteness, complete.
I do. 
He 'fits' me. And we recognised each other instantly. |
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I agree
Hellooo, my writer_gurl! 
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Two arms, two legs, two eyes, torso, lungs, brain, stomach, all fingers and toes accounted for, etc....yep, I'm complete.
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you cannot love others if you cannot love yourself. and to love yourself is to be complete within yourself.
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you cannot love others if you cannot love yourself. and to love yourself is to be complete within yourself. so true...
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I'm not sure I am going to join the "cavalier" notion of this.
I suppose that my "completeness" comes from knowing that I have a lot to learn (and teach). ....I've chosen most of my friends wisely When someone I respect, admire, love, etc.,...corrects me, shows a different perception, tells me that I'm being an A-hole. When they reconsider because of "my" opinion. ....I feel more complete....ESPECIALLY in my choices of friends. |
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She makes me com(e)-
She makes me complete- She makes me completely miserable 
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My partner does not "complete" me I was "complete". Years ago He's my yummy. side dish that I love!
Love this! And agrees! |
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My partner does not "complete" me I was "complete". Years ago He's my yummy. side dish that I love!
Well said
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My partner does not "complete" me I was "complete". Years ago He's my yummy. side dish that I love!
Well said
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The only person who can make me "complete" is the one who signs my death certificate. Then I'll be completely completed, whether I'm in one complete piece or not.
A little ray of sunshine from the TM. |
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What exactly is being complete?
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I think if you expect someone to complete you, you are putting a huge burdon on another person. Also if you hold expectations you are basically setting up your relationship for failure as noone can fill every single expectation or know what you need at every moment. I believe in a healthy relationship, it takes two complete ppl to make it work.
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