Topic: dont want to upset anybody
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Thu 08/13/09 01:34 PM
Well, what exactly are you sending? I know that I don't tend to respond to some one that can't be bothered to write out an entire sentence. For example:

how r u?

ur cute

Will not get a reply from me. Also, if it'd clear that they haven't read my profile to see what and who I'm interested in, I won't respond to that either. If you actually take the time to say something interesting, then I know you might be someone worth talking to.

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Thu 08/13/09 01:35 PM

why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply.


hello, welcome and good luck

you'll have more luck in the forums than via email

interact with more people
make friends

flowerforyou

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Thu 08/13/09 01:37 PM




why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply.


Better than them walking away when you ask them out in person...

Just because you send mail, does not mean it will be answered. No one is required to mail you back, and if they are not interested they won't...I'm yet to understand this stance on it, if you e-mail someone who is not interested in you...what kind of response do you expect back?


Well, first of all they can't comprehend that someone wouldn't be interested in them, since they're such a nice guy with a full heart and a lot of love to give- I'm paraphrasing what I've read from stupid profiles. And then they claim they wouldn't mind a "not interested" email, which is total bs, because if you respond to them in any way, they feel a need to write back, usually to insult you or demand WHY you're not interested. That's why I just ignore or even better, block.


Oh, oh...what about the one that can "convince" you? Those are fun.shades


Definitely. "I'm like no one you've ever met before. Just give me a chance to prove it." Um, no. He just proved he's a prick by not understanding basic english.

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Thu 08/13/09 01:59 PM

why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply.
:smile: When I email people who post in the forums I pretty much get a reply 100% of the time.:smile: When I email the non-posters I rarely get a reply:smile:

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Thu 08/13/09 02:01 PM

why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply.



now you've gone and upset me

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Thu 08/13/09 02:01 PM


why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply.
:smile: When I email people who post in the forums I pretty much get a reply 100% of the time.:smile: When I email the non-posters I rarely get a reply:smile:


that's because the forum people know and love the monkey!!!love

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Thu 08/13/09 02:02 PM
i never email strangers scared

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/13/09 02:03 PM



why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply.
:smile: When I email people who post in the forums I pretty much get a reply 100% of the time.:smile: When I email the non-posters I rarely get a reply:smile:


that's because the forum people know and love the monkey!!!love
blushing

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Thu 08/13/09 02:03 PM

i never email strangers scared


i'm strange:tongue:

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Thu 08/13/09 02:04 PM
Also, may I suggest that you proofread what you write. There are a lot of people on here that are sticklers for spelling and grammer.


Couldn't have said it better myself. Bravo!

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Thu 08/13/09 02:05 PM

I can tell you that I absolutely don't reply to someone I have no interest in. I'll look at their profile and make my determination. I don't feel obligated to reply to someone just because they sent me an email...that's just a waste of my time. If you choose to send and email to someone you should be prepared to not recieve a response...pure and simple.

Also, may I suggest that you proofread what you write. There are a lot of people on here that are sticklers for spelling and grammer.



I agree 100%.

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Thu 08/13/09 02:05 PM
I used to reply whether interested or not. However I found that it seemed like I was leading them on in a way.
Sometimes I will say thank you to a compliment and leave it at that. I ALWAYS ignore emails that I find rude in one way or another.
Bottom line, keep up the emails to the women who interest you, but if they dont respond (even to the first one) move on.waving

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Thu 08/13/09 02:06 PM
smile: When I email people who post in the forums I pretty much get a reply 100% of the time.:smile: When I email the non-posters I rarely get a reply:smile:


I would email you back if I wasn't regular Mingler because I would be trying to get Dave Matthews tickets. LOL


Love you!!

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Thu 08/13/09 02:06 PM


i never email strangers scared


i'm strange:tongue:


i know thats why i never email u! :wink:

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Thu 08/13/09 02:06 PM
Could it be your location? Maybe there aren't a lot of people from Wales on Mingle?

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Thu 08/13/09 02:07 PM

smile: When I email people who post in the forums I pretty much get a reply 100% of the time.:smile: When I email the non-posters I rarely get a reply:smile:


I would email you back if I wasn't regular Mingler because I would be trying to get Dave Matthews tickets. LOL


Love you!!
flowerforyou

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Thu 08/13/09 02:09 PM

Could it be your location? Maybe there aren't a lot of people from Wales on Mingle?


wales? oh i thought it was hong kong. well i get plenty hits from welsh fags!

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Thu 08/13/09 02:11 PM


Could it be your location? Maybe there aren't a lot of people from Wales on Mingle?


wales? oh i thought it was hong kong. well i get plenty hits from welsh fags!


I don't think this guy is a fa......errrrrrrr, gay man.

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Thu 08/13/09 02:11 PM



i never email strangers scared


i'm strange:tongue:


i know thats why i never email u! :wink:


oh gawd, the humanity!!!!!!sad

:tongue: laugh

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Thu 08/13/09 02:11 PM



Could it be your location? Maybe there aren't a lot of people from Wales on Mingle?


wales? oh i thought it was hong kong. well i get plenty hits from welsh fags!


I don't think this guy is a fa......errrrrrrr, gay man.


well there's the problem - solved! :wink: