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Ok, none of those, lol. Here is what I meant: I've been here since last year December. I got hundreds upon hundred of emails ever since from alot of women. I answered all of them and there are no unanswered emails. So that means many women never wrote back. Probably different reasons why not, but still , doesn't it make you wonder what it takes to succeed to have a date, or ok, let's say not a date, but just someone who writes back? we would have to have some idea of the kinds of things that you've said to these ladies that they didn't feel compelled to respond to it. maybe you offended them in some way without being aware of it? or perhaps, a lot of women like to be pursued. once they've made the extraordinary leap of making the first move, perhaps they expect you, having now noticed their existence, to pursue them. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 08/09/09 11:08 PM
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Ok, none of those, lol. Here is what I meant: I've been here since last year December. I got hundreds upon hundred of emails ever since from alot of women. I answered all of them and there are no unanswered emails. So that means many women never wrote back. Probably different reasons why not, but still , doesn't it make you wonder what it takes to succeed to have a date, or ok, let's say not a date, but just someone who writes back? we would have to have some idea of the kinds of things that you've said to these ladies that they didn't feel compelled to respond to it. maybe you offended them in some way without being aware of it? or perhaps, a lot of women like to be pursued. once they've made the extraordinary leap of making the first move, perhaps they expect you, having now noticed their existence, to pursue them. Insulting, no, you can ask around any on my friends' list for double check, I do not insult anyone. Not pursuing? I have pursued and then it became a problem (scared them away) that perhaps I'm trying too hard, then I tried moderate and even neutral stance. The only thing I haven't tried is to be an complete jerk. Should I? |
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Ok, none of those, lol. Here is what I meant: I've been here since last year December. I got hundreds upon hundred of emails ever since from alot of women. I answered all of them and there are no unanswered emails. So that means many women never wrote back. Probably different reasons why not, but still , doesn't it make you wonder what it takes to succeed to have a date, or ok, let's say not a date, but just someone who writes back? we would have to have some idea of the kinds of things that you've said to these ladies that they didn't feel compelled to respond to it. maybe you offended them in some way without being aware of it? or perhaps, a lot of women like to be pursued. once they've made the extraordinary leap of making the first move, perhaps they expect you, having now noticed their existence, to pursue them. Insulting, no, you can ask around any on my friends' list for double check, I do not insult anyone. Not pursuing? I have pursued and then it became a problem (scared them away) that perhaps I'm trying too hard, then I tried moderate and even neutral stance. The only thing I haven't tried is to be an complete jerk. Should I? It sounds like maybe you're trying too hard. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 08/09/09 11:12 PM
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Ok, none of those, lol. Here is what I meant: I've been here since last year December. I got hundreds upon hundred of emails ever since from alot of women. I answered all of them and there are no unanswered emails. So that means many women never wrote back. Probably different reasons why not, but still , doesn't it make you wonder what it takes to succeed to have a date, or ok, let's say not a date, but just someone who writes back? we would have to have some idea of the kinds of things that you've said to these ladies that they didn't feel compelled to respond to it. maybe you offended them in some way without being aware of it? or perhaps, a lot of women like to be pursued. once they've made the extraordinary leap of making the first move, perhaps they expect you, having now noticed their existence, to pursue them. Insulting, no, you can ask around any on my friends' list for double check, I do not insult anyone. Not pursuing? I have pursued and then it became a problem (scared them away) that perhaps I'm trying too hard, then I tried moderate and even neutral stance. The only thing I haven't tried is to be an complete jerk. Should I? It sounds like maybe you're trying too hard. What is "trying too hard" ? Define. Because I got more mails by other initiating the email convo, than me doing it. How can I be trying too hard if it's not even me who starts emailing around? |
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well... i've heard from numerous "nice guy" threads that some women like jerks...
 but i don't know how reliable that info is. i honestly don't know what to tell ya.  |
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I'm not sure what the problem is.. it seems pretty simple....
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I have received some wierd emails with some sexually inapproiate stuff, why would I email back??
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I've only replied to a small numbers of site mails sent to me.
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Edited by
wraithme66
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Sun 08/09/09 11:19 PM
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Ok, none of those, lol. Here is what I meant: I've been here since last year December. I got hundreds upon hundred of emails ever since from alot of women. I answered all of them and there are no unanswered emails. So that means many women never wrote back. Probably different reasons why not, but still , doesn't it make you wonder what it takes to succeed to have a date, or ok, let's say not a date, but just someone who writes back? we would have to have some idea of the kinds of things that you've said to these ladies that they didn't feel compelled to respond to it. maybe you offended them in some way without being aware of it? or perhaps, a lot of women like to be pursued. once they've made the extraordinary leap of making the first move, perhaps they expect you, having now noticed their existence, to pursue them. Insulting, no, you can ask around any on my friends' list for double check, I do not insult anyone. Not pursuing? I have pursued and then it became a problem (scared them away) that perhaps I'm trying too hard, then I tried moderate and even neutral stance. The only thing I haven't tried is to be an complete jerk. Should I? It sounds like maybe you're trying too hard. What is "trying too hard" ? Define. Because I got more mails by other initiating the email convo, than me doing it. How can I be trying too hard if it's not even me who starts emailing around? They may be the ones starting it... But it is possible to come on too strongly. ie. willing to be too open, and honest (need to know stuff) overly nice, or overbearing. Willing to commit to, or seeking to make plans too soon. Too easy to please... (example... answering every single email) Granted... It's extremely endearing and civil/courteous. But of all of the emails you answered to, how many were you attracted to? Better yet, Some women want to be the only one you're emailing. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 08/09/09 11:20 PM
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I have received some wierd emails with some sexually inapproiate stuff, why would I email back?? Umm..not from me hon. Let's shut out these excuses: -unintelligent garbage -sexual desire, sexual requests - local weather forecast - "hi" - harassment - pointless junk - politics - money requests I do none of those. |
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You mean stalk?
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You mean stalk? weird question, but not even that. |
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I have received some wierd emails with some sexually inapproiate stuff, why would I email back?? Umm..not from me hon. Let's shut out these excuses: -unintelligent garbage -sexual desire, sexual requests - local weather forecast - "hi" - harassment - pointless junk - politics - money requests I do none of those. I did not mean you Atlantis, I just mean random emails I receive that I would never want to respond to. |
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Mybe you were being to direct?? keep up the hard work, eventually someone will bite
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Now, think about that for a minute, what does that tell you? that some dude in Africa's going to be getting money from you? 
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 08/09/09 11:31 PM
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well anyway, It makes me think all the time, that I just can't find somebody with something in common ?
Or maybe the way I think is just a lot different than others? Some peopl who talked to me said (and not just one), that it's hard to figure me out. Not that I keep secrets, but there is something about me, don't know if it's scary or makes them become passive. Don't know if it's the way I write or the way I think or the way I speak or all that once. There is got to be an explanation. |
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you're intimidating?
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you're intimidating? Intimidating? No...maybe my picture is I put up, but no. There is absolutely no brag here, but I am different and it's a curse. That's my explanation. Not different like "evil" or somehow bad, but rather think of it like another dimension or something. It's hard to explain, but I do the same thing that everybody else do, and think of the same things, but entirely differently i guess and it may scare away people or just immediately make the others passive for some reason. |
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I do not respond to any emails which break the rules clearly stated in my profile  One little disclaimer and I never have to feel bad about not responding to a 20 yr old emailing me with "hay boo, u look good, holla atcha boi"  I can see your profile with my mind's eyes: "men, if your disclaimer is very small, don't even write, please." |
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i guess you're answering your own questions then... from there you could change who you are or wait patiently for the right, appreciative woman to come along... |
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