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Thu 09/10/09 06:53 PM
Hi all, New to this single thing. Want honest feedback on my profile. Any ideas or suggestions are welcome. Thanks

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Mon 08/10/09 08:21 PM
Thanks, Thats what i'm trying to do. Figured it was time to see if there is someone else out there for me.

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Mon 08/10/09 08:02 PM
Yea she was always depressed because of her weight. Took depression meds. Told her all the time she was beautiful and tried to get her to go to gym and work out with me so she would feel better about herself. Told her I was happy with the way she was but she needed to do it for herself, never would though.

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Mon 08/10/09 07:48 PM
Guess so

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Mon 08/10/09 07:42 PM
After our first was born she never really lost the weight and after the second gained more. She was over weight for almost all of our marrige after having the kids. In the last year she lost over 100 lbs and had tummy tuck, face lift then decided she wanted to be single again. Never really showed any signs before that except for being unhappy about her weight. Tried to get her to go dancing and out all the time but she never would.

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Mon 08/10/09 06:51 PM
Edited by Brett8588 on Mon 08/10/09 07:16 PM
Married for 25 years and there was never a problem in the marrige. My job moved me here to Sacramento and my wife stayed in Oregon to sell the house.

After 2 months she say's that she needs alone time, tired of being a mother, a wife something to everyone. That she is not the same person that she was when she met me at 17. She just wants to be single, party and know what it's like to be single again, because she never really had that chance.

Say's I was a great husband, father and lover and it's not me or our marrige and she hates breaking my heart. That she will always love me but that she just needs to relive her youth and be single because she never got the chance. She is just tired of being something to everyone and she needs to concentrate on her self now.
That she has changed and is not the same person as when she was 17.

All of this came out of the blue because we never had a problem in our marrige except the occasional fight. Before I moved here she came and looked at areas so I knew where to look for houses when ours sold. So everything was fine and all of the sudden 2 months later she wants to not be married any longer.

Well for the last 6 months I have been so crushed that I have done basically nothing but work and sit alone in my appartment after wondering what the Hell happened.

I am finally ready to start living life again, so I joined this site . Any advice on how to start again and put your heart on the line again and trust again?

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Mon 08/10/09 05:59 PM
I even did laundry and dishes for all the 25 years of my marrige. Still

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Mon 08/10/09 05:37 PM
Thanks for the kind words. Guess we will see how it goes.

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Mon 08/10/09 05:35 PM
Hello all. New to site and single life. I could use help to see if my profile is alright. If you get a chance at anytime please check out rate my profile and let me know. Thanks, Brett8588


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Mon 08/10/09 05:29 PM
Thanks

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Mon 08/10/09 05:25 PM
Thanks, any advice on profile?

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Mon 08/10/09 05:21 PM
New to site and single life. Please read profile and let me know what you think. Any advice is welcome. Hit me with it what do I need to change?

Thanks, Brett

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Sun 08/09/09 11:19 PM
You mean stalk?

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Sun 08/09/09 11:10 PM
To attract the sexy ladies of course.

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Sun 08/09/09 10:37 PM
one should never take offense of foreplay, It's the best part.bigsmile bigsmile