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I have nothing to hide and tell my partner all. Either I SHARE my life with someone.. or I don't. secrets kill a relationship. Agreed!!! |
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Do you tell your partner every and any thing that is bothering you? I do, but it never has a good outcome. I just need to learn to keep my mouth shut sometimes....  me too!!! 
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You know, I was thinking,.. There IS a time, and a place for these concerns.
Like, ya just dont wait til your man has worked all day, and when he walks in the door, you bombard him with your issues, and any negativity. Noone wants that bs. Being complainy, and bitchy have no place. Keeping it positive is important. Keeping it simple helps Ive learned. |
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You know, I was thinking,.. There IS a time, and a place for these concerns. Like, ya just dont wait til your man has worked all day, and when he walks in the door, you bombard him with your issues, and any negativity. Noone wants that bs. Being complainy, and bitchy have no place. Keeping it positive is important. Keeping it simple helps Ive learned. Ya know earthy, if my ex learned that, I might have still had a girlfriend. I think I need to get you to my neck of the woods so you can teach the women around here that very important lesson in life |
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Edited by
EquusDancer
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Wed 08/05/09 12:39 PM
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Used to. Then I was a nagging b!tch apparently. I guess asking the person to keep the apartment clean while you work an 8-12 hour day isn't supposed to be done.
So instead, I do it myself. Changing the oil on the car seems to upset some men who think its a macho thing but don't get off the couch and do it themselves. Guess that's why I stay single. Easy to keep up with myself and the animals and not have to keep up with a slob of a man. |
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Used to. Then I was a nagging b!tch apparently. I guess asking the person to keep the apartment clean while you work an 8-12 hour day isn't supposed to be done. So instead, I do it myself. Changing the oil on the car seems to upset some men who think its a macho thing but don't get off the couch and do it themselves. Guess that's why I stay single. Easy to keep up with myself and the animals and not have to keep up with a slob of a man. It's not so much what is said as it is HOW it is said! Example.. you can scream at a dog.. at the top of your lungs.. good boy, But he will run because of the tone. but you can say " come here **** head in a soft mellow tone and he will come running to you. It is all in the delivery. |
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Used to. Then I was a nagging b!tch apparently. I guess asking the person to keep the apartment clean while you work an 8-12 hour day isn't supposed to be done. So instead, I do it myself. Changing the oil on the car seems to upset some men who think its a macho thing but don't get off the couch and do it themselves. Guess that's why I stay single. Easy to keep up with myself and the animals and not have to keep up with a slob of a man. It's not so much what is said as it is HOW it is said! Example.. you can scream at a dog.. at the top of your lungs.. good boy, But he will run because of the tone. but you can say " come here **** head in a soft mellow tone and he will come running to you. It is all in the delivery. Hey hun, in between all the job hunting online would you mind running the vacumn and doing laundry. It would be appreciated. Good enough? But let's be honest Mob, it shouldn't have to even be asked. That's basic cleanliness and housecare. I don't see men asking women to clean house. That's an automatic assumption that its their job to do. It would be different if I was asking the guy to grab a chainsaw and cut down some trees. |
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Used to. Then I was a nagging b!tch apparently. I guess asking the person to keep the apartment clean while you work an 8-12 hour day isn't supposed to be done. So instead, I do it myself. Changing the oil on the car seems to upset some men who think its a macho thing but don't get off the couch and do it themselves. Guess that's why I stay single. Easy to keep up with myself and the animals and not have to keep up with a slob of a man. It's not so much what is said as it is HOW it is said! Example.. you can scream at a dog.. at the top of your lungs.. good boy, But he will run because of the tone. but you can say " come here **** head in a soft mellow tone and he will come running to you. It is all in the delivery. Hey hun, in between all the job hunting online would you mind running the vacumn and doing laundry. It would be appreciated. Good enough? But let's be honest Mob, it shouldn't have to even be asked. That's basic cleanliness and housecare. I don't see men asking women to clean house. That's an automatic assumption that its their job to do. It would be different if I was asking the guy to grab a chainsaw and cut down some trees. The guy would actually be much more willing to do the chainsaw thing because...let's face it....it's a CHAINSAW!!!! LMAO |
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Used to. Then I was a nagging b!tch apparently. I guess asking the person to keep the apartment clean while you work an 8-12 hour day isn't supposed to be done. So instead, I do it myself. Changing the oil on the car seems to upset some men who think its a macho thing but don't get off the couch and do it themselves. Guess that's why I stay single. Easy to keep up with myself and the animals and not have to keep up with a slob of a man. Very interesting. It's not so much what is said as it is HOW it is said! Example.. you can scream at a dog.. at the top of your lungs.. good boy, But he will run because of the tone. but you can say " come here **** head in a soft mellow tone and he will come running to you. It is all in the delivery. |
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