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| Topic: Getting hit on (I should have been more specific) | |
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I've just had times when I was really freaked out but the times they've followed me down halls and kept asking for my number, and things like that. Also, instances where I've let them know I'm not single and they wouldn't go away. That's what my whole post is really about.
Casual flirting when someone acts like a gentleman and not a stalker is totally cool with me and welcomed. |
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it wasnt me ......
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if you have a stalker report them to campus security and your teachers so people are aware.
if thats not the case, i recommend you start picking your @ss in public. |
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I've just had times when I was really freaked out but the times they've followed me down halls and kept asking for my number, and things like that. Also, instances where I've let them know I'm not single and they wouldn't go away. That's what my whole post is really about. Casual flirting when someone acts like a gentleman and not a stalker is totally cool with me and welcomed. My apologies, AQ. I just couldn't resist messing around with the way that first attempt was posted.
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This isn't being hit on, this is stalking/harrassment, report them to your school.
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we can only comment on what is posted...
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Two words that are incredibly effective in THAT situation...
*Phuck Off* or *No Thankyou* or *Go Away* or * Herpes Positive* or any other variable... Honey, you sound like you are a 'victim' here.. Bees dont hang around the honey pot if there is no honey....  |
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Just let them follow you right up to the closest security guard police type person and report them for harassment.
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I would say: Stalker is out and lurking....Have pepper spray with you...
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I would say: Stalker is out and lurking....Have pepper spray with you... I would but it illegal to carry in NYS, but I am taking karate as a PE course :D |
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I would say: Stalker is out and lurking....Have pepper spray with you... I would but it illegal to carry in NYS, but I am taking karate as a PE course :D Okay when someone is following you call someone (friend family) from your cellphone right away and keep talking while this guy is following you. I bet, he will go away. |
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Some people just won't take "NO" for an answer.....I know that this is true. Hell, got a text yesterday from a nice girl from another site....still proclaiming her love and chastising me for my arrogance of not accepting the inevetability of "us".....
We all deal with it sister. It ain't easy and sometimes there is just not an easy answer. |
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I know how you feel. I had this one gay guy sit next to me at a ball game. He was giving me the eye, sizing me up, and trying to get to know me and get my number. I was like W.T.F. PSYCHO.
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I know how you feel. I had this one gay guy sit next to me at a ball game. He was giving me the eye, sizing me up, and trying to get to know me and get my number. I was like W.T.F. PSYCHO. If he didn't have you actually questioning your hetero manhood....then what's the big deal??? My brother's gay friends all wish I wasn't straight. I find it funny and, in an odd way, kinda flattering. |
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"Why do some people think it's okay to hit on random people?"
Although in retrospect I should have been more specific and askded: "Why do some people think it's okay to hit on random people in an aggressive and confrontational matter?" Just had a bad day at school last week and got severely irked. Well, I DON'T do the "aggressive or confrontational" come ons...(that is more the hip-hop wish I was a gangsta rapper thing) I will say that I DO flirt unmercifully.... Don't matter if they are 18 or 80 90lbs or 320lbs I personally just flirt relentlessly to boost the chicks egos and self esteem. Sure, I have gotten laid from it but, more often than not...the woman will walk away knowing that at least SOMEONE out there thinks she is attractive.....and I think everyone deserves that....even if it ain't convienient timing. |
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I know how you feel. I had this one gay guy sit next to me at a ball game. He was giving me the eye, sizing me up, and trying to get to know me and get my number. I was like W.T.F. PSYCHO. If he didn't have you actually questioning your hetero manhood....then what's the big deal??? My brother's gay friends all wish I wasn't straight. I find it funny and, in an odd way, kinda flattering. Sounds like some broken gaydar to me, its as simple as "i dont swing that way" They usually drop it. |
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I know how you feel. I had this one gay guy sit next to me at a ball game. He was giving me the eye, sizing me up, and trying to get to know me and get my number. I was like W.T.F. PSYCHO. If he didn't have you actually questioning your hetero manhood....then what's the big deal??? My brother's gay friends all wish I wasn't straight. I find it funny and, in an odd way, kinda flattering. Also, it's a known fact gay men are usually really picky, so it is definitely a compliment! |
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I know how you feel. I had this one gay guy sit next to me at a ball game. He was giving me the eye, sizing me up, and trying to get to know me and get my number. I was like W.T.F. PSYCHO. If he didn't have you actually questioning your hetero manhood....then what's the big deal??? My brother's gay friends all wish I wasn't straight. I find it funny and, in an odd way, kinda flattering. Sounds like some broken gaydar to me, its as simple as "i dont swing that way" They usually drop it. Either broken, or actually accurate and hidden. |
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I've just had times when I was really freaked out but the times they've followed me down halls and kept asking for my number, and things like that. Also, instances where I've let them know I'm not single and they wouldn't go away. That's what my whole post is really about. Casual flirting when someone acts like a gentleman and not a stalker is totally cool with me and welcomed. Okay, at my school, I would ask you the following questions! 1. Do you at any time feel threatened, uncomfortable or that your safety is at risk? 2. Have you transcribed the events and details what happened? 3. Have you asked them to leave you alone? 4. Would you be making a case of harrassment and want me to do something about your claims? 5. Get me all the evidence, if I feel that there is a case, I will have a disciplinary meeting tomorrow and we will listen to their side and then we will take it from there. The reason I post this, is because if you go to report it, then you should ahould have all the evidence to hand, then it can be dealt with quickly, hazing, bullying, harrassment, is taken very seriously at my school and I hope your school has the same zero tolerance, but nobody can help you unless you speak up. |
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I've just had times when I was really freaked out but the times they've followed me down halls and kept asking for my number, and things like that. Also, instances where I've let them know I'm not single and they wouldn't go away. That's what my whole post is really about. Casual flirting when someone acts like a gentleman and not a stalker is totally cool with me and welcomed. Okay, at my school, I would ask you the following questions! 1. Do you at any time feel threatened, uncomfortable or that your safety is at risk? 2. Have you transcribed the events and details what happened? 3. Have you asked them to leave you alone? 4. Would you be making a case of harrassment and want me to do something about your claims? 5. Get me all the evidence, if I feel that there is a case, I will have a disciplinary meeting tomorrow and we will listen to their side and then we will take it from there. The reason I post this, is because if you go to report it, then you should ahould have all the evidence to hand, then it can be dealt with quickly, hazing, bullying, harrassment, is taken very seriously at my school and I hope your school has the same zero tolerance, but nobody can help you unless you speak up. But, do we really need every horny idiot who can't take a hint to end up with charges on thier record? My thought...if you got a brother/cousin/good friend....have him say..."Back off my sister" While standing up in the guys face.....I know that I have protected my sister that way Works like a charm. |
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