I am a spunky guy

Never! I love sweet.

Hi Karen

You can never be too sweet or too kind. If your bf is losing interest it is not because you are being too nice - he may simply be incapable of appreciating you appropriately for a variety of reasons.



but there is never a path to an improved relationship by treating your partner less well. this only makes things worse.

My friend told me he wanted me to post his response, so:





A sweet, wonderful, good girl like you?

how can someone have too much of the candylike substance which eminates, and oozes out your every perfect pore, of your poor,emotionally, neglected existance.


I for one care DEEPLY about others, (you included) and can see that you above all, must be the most decent, loving, character, that I have come across.

Please! Please! Leave that callus uncaring, inconsiderate, insensitive, fool, caveman of a so called boyfriend, and enter MY world.

Yes MY world.. a realm of understanding to wash over you like the caress of the deepest ocean, pulling you to me, only to never want to breathlessly come back up for air.

How could I have ever known? I mean,.. I COULDNT have known that fate would this day bring me across your presence to be enlightened with only the sweetest, most important meanings I ever have, or ever WILL meet in this life, or any other.

Please, let me wisk you away, and take you for my wife, and we shall laugh, and giggle, and sing all the days of our life, while the pitiful little man- child you were with will blindly fumble forever.



Hm whaddaya know? *shrug*

I dont think so as long as your sweetness isnt taken advantage of

Lat time I checked I was too

With and for the right person, I don't think you can be to sweet. Just be sure you are not playing the "how can you not love me when I do so much for you" game. It is a fairly common trap, suffered from it myself for a long time. I am still a very nice person, just learned to stay my nice self for better reasons than keeping a man who otherwise didn't want me.

Also called the "I give you everything and you give me nothing" game.

My ex g/f was one of the nicest, sweetest women I ahve ever met.

The problem was, I need someone with at least a little attitude.

Not taken to extremes, of course.

She wouldn't argue with me about anything. It was kinda boring.