I have a question to ask u.

A friend of my from a different site thinks that no one can stay true to just one person.

He thinks that everyone wants more and cheats.Just wanted to have your take on this.

Ive never cheated, and have been very satisfied.

Your friend needs to stop speaking for anyone else...before they make themselves look even more stupid.

I couldn't agree with you more Fear!

My 2 wives cheated on me but I've never cheated.

I cheat on crossword puzzles.

Indeed.

Sounds like your friend is trying to justify past or present behaviors...

Oh I can remain true to one person.

What do others on this site think about your friend's opinion?

Hummmmmmmmmmm seems to me your friend just admitted they in fact can not be in a relationship without cheating themselves.

But to say all is so wrong I've been cheated on but do not in turn cheat on others. To me that is just so wrong.

So guess your friends theory has been busted for already there are several here that say they do not cheat. Hummmm friends are not always right but they do seem to speak for themselves and guess it makes them feel better if in fact they include others maybe to make themselves not look so bad.

there is a guy on here that left me a email not to long ago
that accused everyone in this site that was married or in a relationship would cheat and he said in his profile 99% of the woman in this site were cheaters....THATS A BUNCH OF BULL CRAP!!!!

I know,he knows that i totally disagree with him.we have had many disagreement on this

what!!!!

That's his excuse for having poor morals!!!

Maybe you should explain to him that there is roughly 300 billion people in the world, and about 300 million of them live in the states. With that bit of math...he cannot speak for everyone, hell, he can't even speak for a majority.

When people speak in such generalizations... they are bound to be proven incorrect. Not "everyone" cheats. No one person knows "everyone" and what they will or will not do in any regard.

Not evey person is driven to "want more". There are many people satisfied and content with what they have. Also if one does want more, it does not mean one need to cheat to obtain such. Honesty and truth to the current partner, and they can move on. Cheating is not the only means to acquire what someone may believe they desire. Cheating is done by selfish people who want both their cake and to eat it too. If they are unhappy to begin with, they cannot and should not justify using that excuse as a reason to cheat. They need to break it off, and then move on. It is unfair to the one they cheat on to think they are above the common decency to explain their unhappiness. The problem being is that some people forget about empathy. Would they want someone to cheat on them? Most likely not...

Ah, so there still people that think like that...

Odd people.

well the thing is people can stay true to just one person but some refuse to do it.

maybe he's trying to rationalize his own behaviour?

Justification, and projection.