Then again, they could be jealous that you got more attention then they did.

ok. so it's everyone's battle. maybe friendships that can't withstand this kind of scenario since it is bound to happen (repeatedly) aren't worth much anyway..

Also if your a confident women you handle it as so

Not whine about it

Be a warrior!!


Ohhh I'm tough early in the morn

Thank you! the whining and the fit throwing is just ridiculous. I walked out. I'm done with it.

Ya know what, what happens when you're drunk, tends to be forgotten pretty easily within a day or two. Call your girlfriends, explain your point of view and you know what, they'll probably feel like jackasses. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Next time, though, be very clear that you aren't interested in getting with the ex's, that's probably the assumption they made.

ADDA girl, whats the ole song say?
"I am woman, hear me roar", lol

I meant you

I get hit on constantly

I handle it accordingly

Not whine about it!!

ohhh

cool

I will drink to that

Went to a bar with a group of friends. Two guys who were either dating or had dated two of my girlfriends were picking up on me right in front of them! Girls don't go for that sort of thing.

So one of them stormed off and left and the other went silent on me and then another one of the girls was just shaking her head at ME.. like it was my fault these guys were hitting on me.

Sooo... girls hate on girls but not the guys for treating them badly. Is this desperation? insecurity? We're talking about adult women with careers and what appears to be a 'good head on their shoulders.'

I'm shunned from the group for basically doing nothing but showing up. This is dumb and another reminder why female friendships are so fragile and so many fail. And does it need to be said that guys who hang out in bars probably aren't the exclusive or marrying type.

Nights fueled by alcohol should be viewed accordingly.

It doesn’t mater what they or anyone else thinks you can’t help how others reacted the important thing is you showed morels. Be proud because you can look your self in the mirror and know you did right.

well, I was also a little liquored up not any more than the rest of them, but I most certainly didn't go after their men.

They are just jealous cause you are hotter than they are and could take their men if you wanted too. Be proud that your a hottie

I hate to LOSE friends over it, but OK

I was very unassuming that night. I wasnt dressed slutty or flashy nor did I make any special efforts. I wasnt seeking attention, but look. This stuff still happens.

I honestly believed I was going out to be with the girls.

Girls can be funny like this, they automatically seem to think other girls are competing with them in cases like this, even when they're clearly not, and can't help it if others including their guys are gonna hit on them.

Just be honest with them, and if they are real friends they'll understand. Oh and next time this happens if the guys do it again, speak up. If that wouldn't prove you're not competing nothing would.

I will keep my ears and guard up and have one less double vodka next time or maybe quit drinking altogether. Does anything good ever really come of it?

But what a shame. The point of going out IS to let your hair DOWN. This is starting to sound like a lot of trouble.