Went to a bar with a group of friends. Two guys who were either dating or had dated two of my girlfriends were picking up on me right in front of them! Girls don't go for that sort of thing.

So one of them stormed off and left and the other went silent on me and then another one of the girls was just shaking her head at ME.. like it was my fault these guys were hitting on me.

Sooo... girls hate on girls but not the guys for treating them badly. Is this desperation? insecurity? We're talking about adult women with careers and what appears to be a 'good head on their shoulders.'

I'm shunned from the group for basically doing nothing but showing up. This is dumb and another reminder why female friendships are so fragile and so many fail. And does it need to be said that guys who hang out in bars probably aren't the exclusive or marrying type.

Nights fueled by alcohol should be viewed accordingly.

Sweetie don't take it so hard

A drunk horny guy will hit on anything

Remember that!!

oh 'guys' in bars

cat fights are awesome though!

Thanks. I thought it was because they found me attractive

Should I issue you a summons?

They suck. It's a sad state for girls to lose friendships or fight over unworthy guys.

Don't get me to lying, but I would have to guess that if you didn't rebuke them, then your girlfriends think that maybe you were enjoying it, instead of pushing the guys away and turning back to them. I dont know, but that's my take on it.

Drunk horny guys find everything and anything attractive. If it wasn't you it would have been another girl at the bar

go on then ur so persuasive

guys lose friendships over unworthy girls too.it's part of life,so ya might as well have a cat fight and turn some guys on

Then again, they could be jealous that you got more attention then they did.

these types of guys will hit on anything that walks when they are drinking, but they go to the most attractive first.
Im sure it was your looks that drug them over there. lol

Also if your a confident women you handle it as so

Not whine about it

Be a warrior!!


Ohhh I'm tough early in the morn

That is a good point! From my point of view, everyone is drinking and generally being friendly and jovial in a barroom. The girls reacted faster than I realized that these guys WERE ACTUALLY picking up on me.

It was such poor behavior that for a second there I thought, they HAVE to be just being friendly.

Still, it's not my place to get involved in what is ultimately their business to handle. I'm not a moderator or a babysitter for boys.

that was a summons to appear in court

have you been up to guy tricks

Thats right, if you didn't act on it, then you have nothing to explain to them or prove. If they are your friends, they will get over it.

not another court case

i don't get up to any tricks

ok. so it's everyone's battle. maybe friendships that can't withstand this kind of scenario since it is bound to happen (repeatedly) aren't worth much anyway..