So in the past 4 weeks or so I have obtained numbers a few numbers from about 3 or 4 girls. The first one, seemed to be playing games with me or something, she didn't remember who I was 3 days later.

I moved on, cause you can't wait forever on a girl. The second girl I was texting for a while. I asked her is she wanted to go for dinner and she said maybe. I told her I would call her later in the day. I did and she didn't answer. Then a few mins later she text me. The convo led to no where. I pretty much gave up cause she wouldn't make actual plans.

So I moved on. The third girl gave me her number. We texted and I asked if she want to get dinner sometime. Then ask her when the best time for her is, she stalls. Then asked her when she work and she claims to work 7 days a week. Its possible, but not probable. I pretty much have given up and am moving on.

Am I doing something wrong? What the hell should I do differently?

Darn...you are too far away. I was going to ask you out for pizza sometime. Well, if your plans continue to fall through then we can order pizza delivery and sit on the phone and pretend it is a date. Good conversation, beer, pizza, what more can you ask for in life?

First off welcome to mingle, since you're new. To answer your question, you're not doing anything wrong. Sounds like you just talk to a lot of women who don't know what they want, or they want to take a long time to make up their minds. Or they thought they wanted to go out with you and then they changed their minds again. They sound fickle; I attract the same type of people, and it sucks. Maybe you should take a really long time to get to know them before asking them out. You can talk to someone long enough and get an idea if they want to do more than just text or talk. Good luck.

I'd say you're quite successful if you ask me! I've been here for 1-2 months already and I'm only getting views.

Thanks, I actually have been here for awhile, I just never have posted before.

Ah well just welcome to the forums then, LOL

well if u are 20, how old are the "women" you are talking to?
20 yr old girls don't tend to be very responsive or responsible, from what I have seen...in my 20s, I didn't put much into some guy asking for my #, come to think of it..lol...

it's a numbers game...keep playin

Yea, seems like 21 is a barrier and too high for me. Not that I would drink if I was 21.

What's up Honda. I'm new to this site, and just now getting back into the online thing. I tried it a few years back on another site, and I had the same thing man. I would email people a few times and they would email me back and then stop for no reason. Or we'd talk and when I thought things were good, they'd just vanish. One thing I noticed, at least from your thread is that you seem to be a sincere person looking to meet someone for a date and see where it goes, and you seem to NOT be into games. You have to remember, everyone on this and a lot of sites aren't on here to meet someone and get to know them, or even meet a sincere person. That goes for men and women. You just have to give it time and wait for the woman who is looking for the same thing you are. Some people are on here just for a good time. If that's their thing, that's cool. Maybe those girls were like that. There are however a lot of women on here looking for a sincere guy and a gentleman too, so good luck in your search man. Just takes time.

very well put

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dating can be a fail sometimes sounds like they were scared so just keep you head up and move forward!

Yes. Stop assuming that any girl wants anything to do with you just because they give you their number. It doesnt mean they like you, just like it doesnt mean that if they look at you.

They were real. Atleast I don't see anyone going to the extreme of leaving a voice mail with a girls voice.

Good point, like guys who send friend requests and emails and then get bored and go off you for no reason. People suck.

Well obviously the didn't mind me texting them, that didn't seem to bug them. Why would the give their number out if they didn't want to be bugged?

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I feel your pain bro I feel your pain..... women are evil....... haha but just keep trying man, its all we can doo.

hell your doing better than me i dont get views or anything hence the reason i stopped coming on here cause ive given up completly

yeah its tough on here, I am trying though.