Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough?


If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long?


At which point do you wait to?

Why is this only directed towards guys? This **** happens to me all the time...

i never get out of the "friend zone" .i think now i fear more getting into a relationship because leaving the "friends zone" would be a big change for me

I think I try and make it pretty clear I am interested so that doesn't happen, so I guess I try and not let the friend zone even pop up.

Cos I like men better.

Ok anyone.. you know free country, wanna hear from you too..

Its YO WORLD girl.. do what you wanttt.

you need female friends first, im guessing?


no
no idear
n/a

when it happens i`ll let you know

Ok 1 question at a time please.
I think my brain is smoking.
I think if you were meant to have anything more than a friendship with someone it will happen.

*Friends
How many of us have them?
Friends
Ones we can depend on
Friends
How many of us have them?
Friends
Before we go any further, let's be
Friends*

I require friendships first... if ya can't be my friend, how can you be anymore?

Did I just post a topic asking men to express their fears?

I agree with the first poster. The friends zone is something that men put women into. What I find ironic is that if women only want a man as a 'friend', guys are meant to feel inferior or like they're not real men. Yet, when I tell a female I like her just as a friend, not necessarily in a romantic way, I get chastized for being a player, not wanting to commit, being too picky, etc...

I can tell right off the bat whether I'd like a girl as a friend or someone to date. It's hard to explain why you like someone as a friend or as someone you want to have as a girlfriend/boyfriend.

Good point!

wow whoodini....dam...cool tune

I like men better as well... they are so darn cute and useful sometimes

I think my issue is that I will wait long enough to make sure I have their respect... Apparently if you don't play footsies and bat your eyelashes at guys they have NO CLUE

I have very few male friends that dont want to persue something more, and in my experience, they fade out of my life eventually.


This question was spawned from me reading a guys post that he was afraid of the friend zone.

One of my favorites from back in the day

I agree, BUT if you put them in your friends only list, you shouldn't lead the person on to believe that you are wanting more then just friends. I think thats where the stereotyping comes into play.

Mmm Men
But alas, I'm always just a friend. Some of my guy friends have actually said "Nah, Ra, you're just a cool dude with long hair."
How much does that suck? A lot. C'est la vie right?

I get the feeling some men want to make the move to be romantic quickly because they are afraid of becoming "just a friend".


THATS not true in my case.. I would just probably ditch him all together.


(Now this is a guy in my area, not a long distance friend, I can DO long distance male friends ok.)

it has more meaning then most know...cool way to use the song