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Jon85213 Joined Sat 02/14/09 Posts: 185	Mon 07/27/09 08:10 PM
Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough? If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long? At which point do you wait to? i always get pushed to the friend zone. the only time i don't is when i meet a psycho female or one i am not really attracted to. so when i find one who doesn't my first instinct is to think she is psycho.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 07/27/09 08:12 PM
Why is this only directed towards guys? This happens to me all the time... Cos I like men better. Ok anyone.. you know free country, wanna hear from you too.. Its YO WORLD girl.. do what you wanttt. I like men better as well... they are so darn cute and useful sometimes I think my issue is that I will wait long enough to make sure I have their respect... Apparently if you don't play footsies and bat your eyelashes at guys they have NO CLUE Very true, I kissed my current guy first, right in the middle of dinner the other night, just so he would be assured I was into him, he was SO NERVOUS!!

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 07/27/09 08:13 PM
Ok 1 question at a time please. I think my brain is smoking. I think if you were meant to have anything more than a friendship with someone it will happen. Okie dokie smokie!

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Mon 07/27/09 08:17 PM
Why is this only directed towards guys? This happens to me all the time... Cos I like men better. Ok anyone.. you know free country, wanna hear from you too.. Its YO WORLD girl.. do what you wanttt. I like men better as well... they are so darn cute and useful sometimes I think my issue is that I will wait long enough to make sure I have their respect... Apparently if you don't play footsies and bat your eyelashes at guys they have NO CLUE Whats wrong with playing footsies?

LeAiTàeRiSpEtTo20 Joined Wed 07/22/09 Posts: 161	Mon 07/27/09 08:17 PM
I get the feeling some men want to make the move to be romantic quickly because they are afraid of becoming "just a friend". THATS not true in my case.. I would just probably ditch him all together. (Now this is a guy in my area, not a long distance friend, I can DO long distance male friends ok.) well thats good for us then huh haha.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 07/27/09 08:19 PM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Mon 07/27/09 08:20 PM
I get the feeling some men want to make the move to be romantic quickly because they are afraid of becoming "just a friend". THATS not true in my case.. I would just probably ditch him all together. (Now this is a guy in my area, not a long distance friend, I can DO long distance male friends ok.) well thats good for us then huh haha. Hope so, cos I chase NO man. and.. cute.

LeAiTàeRiSpEtTo20 Joined Wed 07/22/09 Posts: 161	Mon 07/27/09 08:21 PM
I get the feeling some men want to make the move to be romantic quickly because they are afraid of becoming "just a friend". THATS not true in my case.. I would just probably ditch him all together. (Now this is a guy in my area, not a long distance friend, I can DO long distance male friends ok.) well thats good for us then huh haha. Hope so, cos I chase NO man. and.. cute. ha well don't have to chase me if I am standing still do you? haha

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 07/27/09 08:23 PM
I get the feeling some men want to make the move to be romantic quickly because they are afraid of becoming "just a friend". THATS not true in my case.. I would just probably ditch him all together. (Now this is a guy in my area, not a long distance friend, I can DO long distance male friends ok.) well thats good for us then huh haha. Hope so, cos I chase NO man. and.. cute. ha well don't have to chase me if I am standing still do you? haha you flatter me.

LeAiTàeRiSpEtTo20 Joined Wed 07/22/09 Posts: 161	Mon 07/27/09 08:24 PM
I get the feeling some men want to make the move to be romantic quickly because they are afraid of becoming "just a friend". THATS not true in my case.. I would just probably ditch him all together. (Now this is a guy in my area, not a long distance friend, I can DO long distance male friends ok.) well thats good for us then huh haha. Hope so, cos I chase NO man. and.. cute. ha well don't have to chase me if I am standing still do you? haha you flatter me. awww well thats good for me.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 07/27/09 08:38 PM
hee.

LeAiTàeRiSpEtTo20 Joined Wed 07/22/09 Posts: 161	Mon 07/27/09 08:48 PM
haha guess so

AdventureBegins Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 7666	Mon 07/27/09 09:03 PM
Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough? If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long? At which point do you wait to? Wow... Friend zone. If I dont' act... If I'm me then friend zone becomes best friend zone and so forth. If I act then she won't know. (Yah I know you did'nt meen that kinda act)

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 07/27/09 09:19 PM
at fifty, i find that i've learned alot, but know less, for it just becomes more confusing with the more people i meet and the differences between them. not everyone fits in the usual specific patterns, and screw-ups on timing and personallity can ensue even what you think might be solid psycology, and then becomes an enigma.......therefore, i just take my time, and let it ride for the positive....that's really all one can do in the sceme of things....

Rockmybobbysocks Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 3961	Mon 07/27/09 09:44 PM
Why is this only directed towards guys? This happens to me all the time... Cos I like men better. Ok anyone.. you know free country, wanna hear from you too.. Its YO WORLD girl.. do what you wanttt. I like men better as well... they are so darn cute and useful sometimes I think my issue is that I will wait long enough to make sure I have their respect... Apparently if you don't play footsies and bat your eyelashes at guys they have NO CLUE Mmm Men But alas, I'm always just a friend. Some of my guy friends have actually said "Nah, Ra, you're just a cool dude with long hair." How much does that suck? A lot. C'est la vie right? we "friends" should join a support group.

trunner69 Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 762	Mon 07/27/09 09:47 PM
Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough? If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long? At which point do you wait to? I do not fear going into the friend zone....if it is meant to be it just is......

heavenlyboy34 Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 17348	Mon 07/27/09 09:49 PM
in my experience, one has to avoid getting into the friend zone at all, cuz it's hard to get out! :(

lovespassion Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 244	Mon 07/27/09 10:00 PM
Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough? If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long? At which point do you wait to? YOU SHOULD BE COME FREINDS FRIST TO SEE IF YOU ARE COMPATABLE THEN MAKES THE RELATIONSHIP MORE BEAUTIFUL

John1932 Joined Sat 07/25/09 Posts: 761	Mon 07/27/09 10:10 PM
There's a friend zone? Heck I don't even get in there. hummmm!!!! I DON'T EVEN HAVE ANY IN MINE , MAN WHERE HAVE I BEEN? Guess I should get busy

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 07/27/09 10:22 PM
Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough? If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long? At which point do you wait to? I have been involuntarily thrown there so many times...I just don't even think about it anymore.

simtrick Joined Tue 07/07/09 Posts: 2	Mon 07/27/09 11:29 PM
I think if there is an attraction there, it will follow it's course. For me though, I find it hard to take it a step farther than "Friends" so I think I miss out on a lot of potential sex, Lol. I'm shy and I hate it.