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Edited by
John1932
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Thank you babe. It just happens. Pfft. Yea but you girls are so smart and know when your being played or not, and to see someone actually play you or any sweet lady just boils my arse. Not that it changes anything or makes them stop doing it, awww who am I kidding, its just our world today and all of the complaining wont change it at all. Next time, give me names and numbers.  I wont do anything with them, I promise.  Um, thanks, but I consider myself majorly stupid when it comes to men. I've been played, lied to, jerked around, mistreated, used, everything but hit, no guy has ever tried to hit me, thank god. The only way I really know how to deal with a man, is NOT to deal with him at all. That's one reason I keep coming back on this site, it's my form of virtual reality. I can interact with men and not get crapped on, at least not in a long-lasting, depressing way. I don't think it matters who you are or what you look like in this world, everyone has been treated badly, it's up to you whether you keep putting up with it or not. Well, I am very sorry that has happened to you or anyone else, I think it sucks when these losers screw it up for those that are for real. We have to work that much harder to earn the trust that these d*** heads splashed in the mud, and if your only average in the looks dept. then your just out of luck. 
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Thank you babe. It just happens. Pfft. Yea but you girls are so smart and know when your being played or not, and to see someone actually play you or any sweet lady just boils my arse. Not that it changes anything or makes them stop doing it, awww who am I kidding, its just our world today and all of the complaining wont change it at all. Next time, give me names and numbers. I wont do anything with them, I promise. Um, thanks, but I consider myself majorly stupid when it comes to men. I've been played, lied to, jerked around, mistreated, used, everything but hit, no guy has ever tried to hit me, thank god. The only way I really know how to deal with a man, is NOT to deal with him at all. That's one reason I keep coming back on this site, it's my form of virtual reality. I can interact with men and not get crapped on, at least not in a long-lasting, depressing way. I don't think it matters who you are or what you look like in this world, everyone has been treated badly, it's up to you whether you keep putting up with it or not. 
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Change is a scary thing to me no matter what it may be~ But sometime it is necessary. About the whole firend thing hahas man I have to say that's pretty scary cause it could ruin a friendship I hear.
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My best friend for 40 years is male
He is the best! Love ya jimmy mac!' |
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Thank you babe. It just happens. Pfft. Yea but you girls are so smart and know when your being played or not, and to see someone actually play you or any sweet lady just boils my arse. Not that it changes anything or makes them stop doing it, awww who am I kidding, its just our world today and all of the complaining wont change it at all. Next time, give me names and numbers. I wont do anything with them, I promise. Um, thanks, but I consider myself majorly stupid when it comes to men. I've been played, lied to, jerked around, mistreated, used, everything but hit, no guy has ever tried to hit me, thank god. The only way I really know how to deal with a man, is NOT to deal with him at all. That's one reason I keep coming back on this site, it's my form of virtual reality. I can interact with men and not get crapped on, at least not in a long-lasting, depressing way. I don't think it matters who you are or what you look like in this world, everyone has been treated badly, it's up to you whether you keep putting up with it or not. apparently |
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 Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough? If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long? At which point do you wait to? |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Wed 07/29/09 08:51 AM
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I require friendships first... if ya can't be my friend, how can you be anymore? That's not the best way to go. If you want to have a relationship based on love you must start off from the first step as somebody who is interested in more than just friends. You can't become a "buddy" and later expect that person to be your lover. Don't know how to explain this, but being a "friend" and being a "lover" is 2 different things and 2 different branches and which branch you will end up on is based on the initial encounter and the first few times together. Sometimes it's not something that can be foreseen ahead, some become best "buddies" other times it becomes a love relationship, but if you are interested in more than just friendship than you must show signs of it. |
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I require friendships first... if ya can't be my friend, how can you be anymore? That's not the best way to go. If you want to have a relationship based on love you must start off from the first step as somebody who is interested in more than just friends. You can't become a "buddy" and later expect that person to be your lover. Don't know how to explain this, but being a "friend" and being a "lover" is 2 different things and 2 different branches and which branch you will end up on is based on the initial encounter and the first few times together. Sometimes it's not something that can be foreseen ahead, some become best "buddies" other times it becomes a love relationship, but if you are interested in more than just friendship than you must show signs of it. True. Because once you cross the line from friends to anything else, and then you break up, it's pretty hard to go back to what you were. |
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Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough? If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long? At which point do you wait to? Friends with a lady is great so if we are not made to be lovers nothing wrong to be in the "friend zone". If my heart beats hard for her and she doesn't feel the same it makes it harder but not impossible to be good friends. |
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i was out with a female friend about a month ago and she said, "you just think i'm one of the guys, don't you?". i kind of laughed and said yeah. she got all weird about it for a few weeks but she's good now but still not quite like she was. that's sort of uncool because she's a fun friend.
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i was out with a female friend about a month ago and she said, "you just think i'm one of the guys, don't you?". i kind of laughed and said yeah. she got all weird about it for a few weeks but she's good now but still not quite like she was. that's sort of uncool because she's a fun friend. You should talk to her about it if it's bothering her. |
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i don't fear the "f.z." everytime i got really close
with the opposite sex they always wanted to DO IT! must be pheromoans.  |
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i was out with a female friend about a month ago and she said, "you just think i'm one of the guys, don't you?". i kind of laughed and said yeah. she got all weird about it for a few weeks but she's good now but still not quite like she was. that's sort of uncool because she's a fun friend. That's why it's not good to ask questions like that, if you're not going to like the answer. I try to avoid doing stuff like that, cause you're right, it changes things. |
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Edited by
John1932
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Wed 07/29/09 02:42 PM
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i was out with a female friend about a month ago and she said, "you just think i'm one of the guys, don't you?". i kind of laughed and said yeah. she got all weird about it for a few weeks but she's good now but still not quite like she was. that's sort of uncool because she's a fun friend. That's why it's not good to ask questions like that, if you're not going to like the answer. I try to avoid doing stuff like that, cause you're right, it changes things. Things were so much easier in Middle school. "Do you love me?" "Check yes or no" or was that elementary, don't remember. |
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Once you get into the friend zone, you can never get out.
Not knowing how to measure time and generosity is the issue. |
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dont be friends with someone if you have feelings like that for them. if it happens then great if not move on, IMO.
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Fear going into the "friend zone" if you dont act on a girl quick enough? If you DO fear it, how long do you think is too long? At which point do you wait to? It's been so long since I've run into anyone I'd even WANT to get past the "friend zone" with.... But I've never been the pushy type anyway. If it seems like something HAS to be done within x period of time or it's not going to work, I just see that as unnecessary pressure. |
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Hearing the words. "Oh your like a brother to me." Bites the big high hard one.
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