I don't know that this situation has anything to do with moral standards. There are times where two people click and age is the obvious issue. I do wonder when an older man or woman is with a younger person. Even if I have a lot in common with a younger man, it's in my head that they are my daughter or son-in-laws age. Even if the man offers up sexual intimacy and is red-hot, it's hard for ME to envision getting between the sheets.
But, as for morals..... I was at the pool yesterday and not only were two ugly paunchy 50ish old men talking nasty about young women and their parts and what they did to those women, they were talking about it loudly enough that I could hear it and I'm sure the two tweenage girls nearby probably could, too. That kind of talk speaks volumes about moral fortitude. Those are the types that make the age gap feel immoral. And THAT'S the type of personality that screams of a wallet being the attraction and people being used and abused.
I personally don't want to involve myself with a younger man, but I WILL take a younger man with better character over these old funky user oafs any day.

An adult individual cannot be 'kept' in any kind of relationship. He knew full well what he was doing and wanted to do it. If an individual does not like the relationship they are in,walk away. I refuse to believe that anyone can be 'kept' by another human being,even in domestic violence situations. If your relationship is so bad,get out. be seeing you

I love and adore men my age and older !!!!!

Yeah ..I didnt mean she kept him against his will... I meant he stayed with her

Boy where is you mind fella?

In the gutter,the mind follows the body. be seeing you

When I was in my mid-late 20's I was seeing a woman that was ten yrs older than me.
Part of the appeal was that she found me to be mature and desirable.
That she would chose me over men that had more going on in their lives-financially established, careers, life experience.

I dont blame you, its a creepy situation, and shudder to imagine this woman seducing your son.

Its obvious she lacks something. Thats quite a age difference, and I totally understand you probably are concerned about him involving himself, and getting hurt. Luckily, this wont last long, as they usually dont, and it will be another experience for him.

Id be WAY creeped out if I met a woman her age being with my son.


I see there is an excitement factor for both parties here, which is also creepy.

I feel for ya.

Fear, that was very well said! You are my hero!!!

Hummm okay had to put in my two cents as well what ever it is worth. I have a son that is 26 would I date someone my kids age no way just can't do it. Not that I see those that do any less of a person just something myself I could not do.

My best friend is a guy he is 34 now and is dating a lady that is 48. Do I think anything of it hummm noooooooooo they are happy he has always leaned towards women that are older. At first it bothered her due to his mom is close to our age. But....his mom was overjoyed just to know he had found someone he was happy with.

Myself if my son came home and told me he was dating someone my age sure I would cringe it is what parents do. It is a natural thing to wonder why and WTF is wrong with that woman. But now would I make a big deal about it NOT. Why not because I have found out that when my son tries to shock me with any kind of news to take it with a grain of salt it normally is only a passing thing for most anyway.

Some of those relationships last for a while but very few last very long at least not with that much of a gap in age. But..... now they can have heard of a few of them.

Myself if my kids are happy and they treat them good I would just have to sit back and bite my tongue no matter how hard it was to do..

One of my co-workers, male 50 yrs old married a 28 yr old woman.
She's a real cutie too. So one night he's telling her how to check the circuit breakers, he says "You have to learn how to do this, I am not going to be around forever you know"

This woman has control issues. She seeks to have a young stud on a leash, who only too late would have perceived the trap he had fallen into, were she to have "kept" him longer. She is a succubus, no less. (search "Kolchak: The Night Stalker-Demon in Lace")
And at his youthful age, this realization could have taken years to finally smack him upside his head...
...and that's why he is lucky to have YOU to smack him upside his head.
I'm just no fun at all, am I!

No women older than 25

sorry but the truth is... you cant change the way your child feels. throw a fit, curse them, threaten them , but the are gonna do wat they are gonna do. sorry, hon but thats the way it seems to go

your son is one lucky dude!

Stamina I'm thinking. And not having to buy so many batteries.

can't a mid aged woman explore with some legal penis without it being a big deal....seriously there is no written law so she wants to have her little bit of fun with a 22 year old man,big deal....damn people stop being so conservative and sheltered

It's the OP's son.

so he's a man she's a woman...they are just having some fun it won't last that long...believe that

All of these moms saying they've got 20-something year old sons ... I'm 21 ... send them my way!

He's over 21 if she brought him up right he'll be okay.