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What excatly is it about me that my guy thinks he can just not show up...not even a call...What should I say to him when he does call??? easy one here...tell him "It's your loss pal" Quick and easy. Kinda like pulling off a band-aid. Slow or fast. Either way it hurts. I prefer the fast approach here. We all deserve better than that. 
So at least tell me I will have the satisfaction that it will bother him if I do tell him to go away?? |
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Out of interest, Mary, did you take any steps to check this person was the person he was showing himself to be in his pics?
We hear this same thing a lot, where someone doesnt show, and one reason i think it happens is because the people are lying about who they are and what they look like. If they are lying, you are gonna find them out when you meet them. They might plan on showing up anyway, but many lose their nerve. Just a theory. |
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What excatly is it about me that my guy thinks he can just not show up...not even a call...What should I say to him when he does call??? DID ya need me to repeat THAT?????lol    
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Ya messed up my whole screen with that 
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It will not bother him at all if he disrespected you and does not bend over backwards to get your forgivness. and a second chance.
It smells like poop to me. It happens both ways, men and women, but my thought is he did not care about your feelings then, and probably will repeat it in the future if you give him another shot....jmo |
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Out of interest, Mary, did you take any steps to check this person was the person he was showing himself to be in his pics? We hear this same thing a lot, where someone doesnt show, and one reason i think it happens is because the people are lying about who they are and what they look like. If they are lying, you are gonna find them out when you meet them. They might plan on showing up anyway, but many lose their nerve. Just a theory. Yes, I have been seeing him for months now...I know hes not married or anything. He is however very much into himself...I just need to get over being sooo into him and tell him to screw off! |
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What excatly is it about me that my guy thinks he can just not show up...not even a call...What should I say to him when he does call??? easy one here...tell him "It's your loss pal" Quick and easy. Kinda like pulling off a band-aid. Slow or fast. Either way it hurts. I prefer the fast approach here. We all deserve better than that.
I'll play Bill if ya want,wink,lol Those kind DON'T HURT,,,ok,,,just know that,, THEY cry and whine GREAT,,,but never really hurt like YOU or I do... So at least tell me I will have the satisfaction that it will bother him if I do tell him to go away?? |
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I just have to say this...I never mind in a relationship if a man does what he wants... sometimes I think men are babies that way...but I do need the respect of a phone call.
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What excatly is it about me that my guy thinks he can just not show up...not even a call...What should I say to him when he does call??? easy one here...tell him "It's your loss pal" Quick and easy. Kinda like pulling off a band-aid. Slow or fast. Either way it hurts. I prefer the fast approach here. We all deserve better than that.
I'll play Bill if ya want,wink,lol Those kind DON'T HURT,,,ok,,,just know that,, THEY cry and whine GREAT,,,but never really hurt like YOU or I do... So at least tell me I will have the satisfaction that it will bother him if I do tell him to go away?? Gawd I wish I could do that! |
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I just have to say this...I never mind in a relationship if a man does what he wants... sometimes I think men are babies that way...but I do need the respect of a phone call. If you act like so what, he might treat your romance as such,,so if HE knows you would be hurt by not contacting you, then HE DOESN'T,,,HE'S A FREAKIN JERK,,and lose him and find a nice guy like me OH,,,sorry,,
I meant LIKEEEEEE ME,,but not me, well,I mean ,,,ok,,a,,, WE INTERUPT THIS REPLY FOR A STATION IDENIFICATION!!!!!! You will be fine and he's NOT your best catch,,,really.. 
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I just have to say this...I never mind in a relationship if a man does what he wants... sometimes I think men are babies that way...but I do need the respect of a phone call. If you act like so what, he might treat your romance as such,,so if HE knows you would be hurt by not contacting you, then HE DOESN'T,,,HE'S A FREAKIN JERK,,and lose him and find a nice guy like me OH,,,sorry,,
I meant LIKEEEEEE ME,,but not me, well,I mean ,,,ok,,a,,, WE INTERUPT THIS REPLY FOR A STATION IDENIFICATION!!!!!! You will be fine and he's NOT your best catch,,,really..
Hey I thought you were taken... |
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I just have to say this...I never mind in a relationship if a man does what he wants... sometimes I think men are babies that way...but I do need the respect of a phone call. If you act like so what, he might treat your romance as such,,so if HE knows you would be hurt by not contacting you, then HE DOESN'T,,,HE'S A FREAKIN JERK,,and lose him and find a nice guy like me OH,,,sorry,,
I meant LIKEEEEEE ME,,but not me, well,I mean ,,,ok,,a,,, WE INTERUPT THIS REPLY FOR A STATION IDENIFICATION!!!!!! You will be fine and he's NOT your best catch,,,really..
Hey I thought you were taken...   
BY WHO,,,At least I'd like to have met them....? Been single a long time here, now,,,,last romance was Nov 08... But if someones talking,,,pssst,,,who is it,,,,OMG I HAVE A CRUSH????? WAIT,,,I must brush my hair and comb my teeth and OH,,,, SHAVE,,,,yes,,,,I must shave,,,everyWHERE.......lol I am single,wink,AND, I NEVER LIE... 
OH,,one MORE thing,,if even a bit late,,,,I CALL!!!!!!!!!!ALWAYS Just had to throw that in there... |
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I just have to say this...I never mind in a relationship if a man does what he wants... sometimes I think men are babies that way...but I do need the respect of a phone call. If you act like so what, he might treat your romance as such,,so if HE knows you would be hurt by not contacting you, then HE DOESN'T,,,HE'S A FREAKIN JERK,,and lose him and find a nice guy like me OH,,,sorry,,
I meant LIKEEEEEE ME,,but not me, well,I mean ,,,ok,,a,,, WE INTERUPT THIS REPLY FOR A STATION IDENIFICATION!!!!!! You will be fine and he's NOT your best catch,,,really..
Hey I thought you were taken...
BY WHO,,,At least I'd like to have met them....? Been single a long time here, now,,,,last romance was Nov 08... But if someones talking,,,pssst,,,who is it,,,,OMG I HAVE A CRUSH????? WAIT,,,I must brush my hair and comb my teeth and OH,,,, SHAVE,,,,yes,,,,I must shave,,,everyWHERE.......lol I am single,wink,AND, I NEVER LIE...
OH,,one MORE thing,,if even a bit late,,,,I CALL!!!!!!!!!!ALWAYS Just had to throw that in there... Very cute! |
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Edited by
suncandy25
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Sat 07/25/09 08:14 PM
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Someone explain this to me please...when I am with him I sort of feel him liking me...just a feeling I get. And now hes been calling more....SO now why this???? Go and do your own thing, when he wants to go out with you be busy. Don't wait around for him. |
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Mary, you're going about this all wrong..What he needs is a little reassurance..a little understanding...ultimately..he needs confirmation... In order to do this, you will have to compromise your integrity for a few moments... I have devised a template letter, which you can adjust accordingly.. Dearest ________ After much thought, and with the hardiest of intentions, at possibly sharing a relationship with you, i have determined/deemed it "not a plausible venture" for the reasons i have listed below. I have optic rectitus, and for that reason, i simply can't see my arse dating an arsehole like you, Have a nice life, sincerely (and i do mean sincerely) buzz off.. __________ <--------Sign here.. See how easy it is? 
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Mary, you're going about this all wrong..What he needs is a little reassurance..a little understanding...ultimately..he needs confirmation... In order to do this, you will have to compromise your integrity for a few moments... I have devised a template letter, which you can adjust accordingly.. Dearest ________ After much thought, and with the hardiest of intentions, at possibly sharing a relationship with you, i have determined/deemed it "not a plausible venture" for the reasons i have listed below. OMG I love that!!! I have optic rectitus, and for that reason, i simply can't see my arse dating an arsehole like you, Have a nice life, sincerely (and i do mean sincerely) buzz off.. __________ <--------Sign here.. See how easy it is?
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WELL SAID, MARK!!!!
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I was nothing but kind to him...this time I am telling him to frick off!
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Sorry everyone who tried to help...I do thank you....I'm just feeling kind of PITIFUL tonight...
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well if he treats you so badly why do you keep him around?
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well if he treats you so badly why do you keep him around? LOL...that was sweet of you...thanks! |
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