Topic: "OUT OF MY LEAGUE"
msmyka's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:23 AM
Edited by msmyka on Sat 07/25/09 11:25 AM
Well guys, just so you know, beautiful women want a guy with confidence. If you don't think you deserve a beautiful woman you will never have one flowerforyou

And the key to winning one of these women over is to treat them with respect and not just hit on them and make them feel like a piece of meat. Chances are they know they are hot and don't need to be told that in email #1.

no photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:24 AM




It means that your to pretty,or to good for them.


But I think it's quite silly to judge a person by their looks and automatically assume you won't find the other person interestinghuh


What are you doing 2 night then BABYblushing


Hanging out with you Sweet Thangbigsmile
BLOODY HELL i'av pulled..whoop,whoop:banana: :banana:

FindMe1113's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:25 AM

Because your beautiful

That seems to intimidate some men


You are very Beautiful as Well...has a guy ever said that to you?

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:25 AM
i've never had the "problem" of being so achingly beautiful i'm out of anyone's league laugh

i wish i had problems like that. :tongue:

lionsbrew's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:26 AM
Thinking someone else is out of your league is usually a self confidence issue. "She is out of my league" Usually means they view you as too good for them.

For some strange reason the more attractive a person is the less approachable they seem to be because of the thought process that comes after the initial visual. "Shes way hot I bet shes taken." "Wow she's beautiful she'd never go for a guy like me."


FindMe1113's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:26 AM

Well guys, just so you know, beautiful women want a guy with confidence. If you don't think you deserve a beautiful woman you will never have one flowerforyou

And the key to winning one of these women over is to treat them with respect and not just hit on them and make them feel like a piece of meat. Chances are they know they are hot and don't need to be told that in email #1.


WELL SAID Myka!flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:27 AM

i've never had the "problem" of being so achingly beautiful i'm out of anyone's league laugh

i wish i had problems like that. :tongue:


Yer gorgeous anyway, Jas. :-)

And I know of at least two women who would tell you that you really don't wish you had that problem...lol

msmyka's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:27 AM
Edited by msmyka on Sat 07/25/09 11:28 AM


Well guys, just so you know, beautiful women want a guy with confidence. If you don't think you deserve a beautiful woman you will never have one flowerforyou

And the key to winning one of these women over is to treat them with respect and not just hit on them and make them feel like a piece of meat. Chances are they know they are hot and don't need to be told that in email #1.


WELL SAID Myka!flowerforyou

:wink:

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Sat 07/25/09 11:28 AM

I've heard these words spoken quite often from guys, and don't really understand what is meant by them, I'm just a normal everday personohwell

I'm thinking that maybe this happens quite often to both men and women alike...so

What's your interpretation of these words, and why do you think that you have been placed in a "league" of your own that seems to make you unapproachable in someone else's eyes? spock


I've heard people use this terminology -- it seems to mean "I'll never get her, she's too good for me."

Sort of a generalized value judgment based on a superficial standard.

I really don't understand the applicability of the term "league" as it's utilized here. If what's intended is a sort of hierarchical structure, then maybe "level" would be a better term.

But I never think of it in terms of "good enough" or "not good enough." I don't have any reference point for that.

I do think about things like "interesting enough" or "individualistic enough" or "intelligent enough." But I don't equate those with "good" or "bad" -- I equate those with "compatible" and "incompatible." So it's a completely different frame of reference.

I really never thought of myself as "unapproachable" -- I'm about as "approachable" as it gets. The fact that people seem to have issues with my being "intimidating" (this still baffles me!) just strikes me as more an interpretational problem on their part than anything intentional on mine.


JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:30 AM

Well guys, just so you know, beautiful women want a guy with confidence. If you don't think you deserve a beautiful woman you will never have one flowerforyou

And the key to winning one of these women over is to treat them with respect and not just hit on them and make them feel like a piece of meat. Chances are they know they are hot and don't need to be told that in email #1.


That's totally true, Myka.

But...even the MOST self confident guy will eventually run into the " Why bother " syndrome when he gets shot down, laughed at and/or insulted enough times.

FindMe1113's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:30 AM

Thinking someone else is out of your league is usually a self confidence issue. "She is out of my league" Usually means they view you as too good for them.

For some strange reason the more attractive a person is the less approachable they seem to be because of the thought process that comes after the initial visual. "Shes way hot I bet shes taken." "Wow she's beautiful she'd never go for a guy like me."




Understandable...but is not always the caseflowerforyou

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Sat 07/25/09 11:30 AM

I've heard these words spoken quite often from guys, and don't really understand what is meant by them, I'm just a normal everday personohwell

I'm thinking that maybe this happens quite often to both men and women alike...so

What's your interpretation of these words, and why do you think that you have been placed in a "league" of your own that seems to make you unapproachable in someone else's eyes? spock


Personally...I think we're ALL in the same league! It's called SINGLE!

The married ones on here are in a league of their own, stands to reason.

lionsbrew's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:34 AM
Oh I was just stating a common theme I have seen from my observations and conversations with people I know. Personally I can take being shot down. So I go with the never know till you try method.laughlaugh laugh

newarkjw's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:35 AM
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he married her and then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

[Sax solo]

Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

[Spoken:]
Say man!
Hey baby!
I saw your wife the other day!
Yeah?
Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee!
Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:38 AM
Edited by JasmineInglewood on Sat 07/25/09 11:38 AM
see all these beauuutiful giiiirls
that's why it'll never work
they'll have you suuuicidal, suuuicidal
when they say it's ooverrr

FindMe1113's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:40 AM

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he married her and then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

[Sax solo]

Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

[Spoken:]
Say man!
Hey baby!
I saw your wife the other day!
Yeah?
Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee!
Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you



OMG...you are no HELP!rofl rofl rofl rofl

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:40 AM


i've never had the "problem" of being so achingly beautiful i'm out of anyone's league laugh

i wish i had problems like that. :tongue:


Yer gorgeous anyway, Jas. :-)

And I know of at least two women who would tell you that you really don't wish you had that problem...lol


oh go on... no really, go on! gaaa bigsmile

laugh

msmyka's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:41 AM
Edited by msmyka on Sat 07/25/09 11:42 AM


Well guys, just so you know, beautiful women want a guy with confidence. If you don't think you deserve a beautiful woman you will never have one flowerforyou

And the key to winning one of these women over is to treat them with respect and not just hit on them and make them feel like a piece of meat. Chances are they know they are hot and don't need to be told that in email #1.


That's totally true, Myka.

But...even the MOST self confident guy will eventually run into the " Why bother " syndrome when he gets shot down, laughed at and/or insulted enough times.

I hear you, I feel that way too sometimes. Why bother when it seems like every guy I talk to is more interested in my looks than ME.

So you can see we too are a little jaded by guys making us feel like eye candy and not someone they would want to take home to mom.

FindMe1113's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:42 AM



i've never had the "problem" of being so achingly beautiful i'm out of anyone's league laugh

i wish i had problems like that. :tongue:


Yer gorgeous anyway, Jas. :-)

And I know of at least two women who would tell you that you really don't wish you had that problem...lol


oh go on... no really, go on! gaaa bigsmile

laugh


He's right...you are absolutely beautifulglasses

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 07/25/09 11:43 AM



i've never had the "problem" of being so achingly beautiful i'm out of anyone's league laugh

i wish i had problems like that. :tongue:


Yer gorgeous anyway, Jas. :-)

And I know of at least two women who would tell you that you really don't wish you had that problem...lol


oh go on... no really, go on! gaaa bigsmile

laugh


Ok. Gorgeous, interesting, sweet, witty....

Shall I keep going?? Might have to break out my dictionary, though. LOL