i have been with my gf for almost 2 years. she seperated from me when i found out i had a medical problem. she also tells me that she cares for me a lot and would worry for me if something happened to me. i am all for giving people space and i have volunterred to sleep on the couch. we have talked and she seems to want to be friends date and start over again. what am i to do? she says she wants a kid with me in the future. but i am scared once i get my own place she will call it off. what am i to do? we spend time together and still have somewhat of a relationship but it seems like she is not into it like before. im also afraid she will get back into the escorting again. what do i say or do? do i leave and test her theory of if she would miss me and want me back? or no?

I agree

Ok, escorting? I'll just leave that out of my response.

Why is it she wants you to move out / start over? Your medical condition? I guess I'm not clear on what that's about.

If she wants space, what other choice to have? YOu can't force her to be in relationship with you. If she decides, after you leave, that she doesn't want to be with you, then you have to just keep living.

Is it Erectile Dysfunction?

When I read this, my understanding was that she seperated from you when you found out about your medical condition. If she truly loved you, she would still be with you. You love someone in good times and bad, esp medically.
Why would you want to be with someone when you are so unsure that they want to be with you? It seems like you are terrified to be away from her just in case she decides that she wants to end things. You can not force someone to stay with you and love you. Give her space and if its meant to be, then it will be.
If you keep forcing yourself on her, how do you know that she is not going to cheat on you anyway? You can not smother her or you will make drive her away.
The whole escort thing...all I can say is why would you want someone that does that for a living? I think you need to do some soul searching deep within yourself. Never feel that you NEED anyone or it makes you out to be a desperate person.
Good Luck

Sounds like your going to get hurt if you carry on with this kind of relationship.

Wow
Sounds like she does care, but only in her own way as a friend. I believe she would worry about you if something does happen to you, but only as a friend, not as a significant other....And dating a woman that was in an escoprt service is alltogether dangerous. I say get out of that relationship soon because it seems she doesn't even want to be in it anymore.

I don't think so
figure it out escort and medical condition?

i think you should be more worried about your health than what this woman wants to do . If she said she needs time and space its best to give her that before you push her away all together..i hope you get well soon

Is this a joke situation? It would have to be. If this isn't a joke and if you have any relationship with this woman, you get what you deserve.

If she's not there for u with a medical problem then u should just end the relationship.Also escort service.Is that really the kind of woman that u want?:

least she's employed

Jerry!! Jerry!! Jerry!!!

DOH!

Depends. Does she ever bring home any coworkers?

When people decide to break up it is rare that both see the same details as the "whys".

With only your side of the story it may or may not be that your illness is the reason she is asking you to hit the road.

Or "that her plan is to go back to and escort business". I hope you can prove what you say because if not she should slap you with slander.

Who knows but sounds like sour grapes from an over the hill construction worker who followed his ex girlfriend to her sofa and is now figureing out a disability check might be more dependable than a finding work in a failing construction economy.

I would be surprised if what sounds like a player story will be good enough to find a new pidgeon on this site. Most of the women are savy enough to chew a big hole in this scenario.

Oh the memories flourish so vividly...

If she was a prostitute, and might go back to it, then she isn't worth being with anyways.

that's what i'm thinking. it just sounds too over-the-top.

it it's real, i'd tell her to escort herself the hell away from me.

Gainfully