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Giving someone a compliment in an email does not mean they want to get in your pants, It is simply just a compliment which is a sweet thing to get. I would appreciate any compliments you get, because there are simply not enough going around.
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I frequently, compliment women I see.........
in the grocery store "You look nice, I like those boots" or In the airport; Most people do not dress up for travel any more. Thanks for making the effort, you look "great".....etc. etc. sincere and no underlying motive.......well, other than seeing them smile.... |
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...smile uncorfortably as they run to find an air marshall to get the creepy guy.
 jk
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I really don't classify a random unknown person emailing me calling sexy or hot as a compliment. I don't have an easy time excepting compliments from people but I try to do so gracefully. I appreciate them and I give compliments when I feel they are deserved. But I'd rather a friend give me a compliment than someone who doesn't know anything about me because I agree with the OP, usually it's the pervs who do that. (Notice, I said usually!) How about if a stranger simply emailed you with "Hello how are you, you have really pretty eyes." Is that an acceptable compliment or is it too much comming from a stranger? Especially since on here you see alot of photos of people with big smiles and can really see their eyes! |
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How about if a stranger simply emailed you with "Hello how are you, you have really pretty eyes." Is that an acceptable compliment or is it too much comming from a stranger? Especially since on here you see alot of photos of people with big smiles and can really see their eyes! exactly. i think that's a good one. normally the only thing i notice about her eyes is if she has some. if someone's eyes look pretty enough for me to mention it, that's a real compliment with no dirty intentions. |
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I'm usually pretty accurate with being able to tell if it's a sincere compliment or not. I won't say that i was never wrong but you can usually tell. The oes i thought had alterior motives usually did and the ones i thought were sincere are still my friends on here.
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How about if a stranger simply emailed you with "Hello how are you, you have really pretty eyes." Is that an acceptable compliment or is it too much comming from a stranger? Especially since on here you see alot of photos of people with big smiles and can really see their eyes! exactly. i think that's a good one. normally the only thing i notice about her eyes is if she has some. if someone's eyes look pretty enough for me to mention it, that's a real compliment with no dirty intentions. Hummmmmmmmmm well if that is not considered a compliment then I'm in real trouble. For actually I just e-mailed a guy yesterday or the day before due to he had posted in a thread said he will be turning 50 next month. Well all I can say he sure looked mighty fine for fixing to turn 50 and had the smile to boot. So yeah hummm I dropped him and e-mail and in fact told him that as well. I had no other intentions but to let him know hey your good looking and don't look 50 at all. Now was he insulted due to what I said must not have been he wrote me back and said thank you sweetheart that means a lot to me. All I can say is I'm sure it brought a smile to his face and that was my only intentions. Myself at times I get compliments and don't think I deserve them but I always say thank you and it does bring a smile to my face. It never crossed my mind that all they wanted was to get in my pants. Besides kind of hard to do if they live a state away or even 5 miles away unless I choose to let them.  Matter of fact just got one last night from a member due to a response that I posted. Was he out to get anything hummmm nooooooooo he does not even come across as that type of guy. So take them for what they are a compliment say thank you and move on.
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Edited by
Jamie82
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Tue 07/21/09 03:25 PM
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All i'm saying is i had plenty of dirty ones who only wanted to be dirty. I found out by the next 2 or 3 emails they sent. No not everyone is as jaded about it as me but i had lots of good reasons
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Well Jamie and Kristi, anytime someone compliments either of U, it is deserved, cause U are both classy, beautiful ladies!!
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Well Jamie and Kristi, anytime someone compliments either of U, it is deserved, cause U are both classy, beautiful ladies!! (((Mikey))) Now your's i see to be sincere! |
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I ALWAYS try to be sincere, even if Im perving!!
 U are a darling lady!!
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Well Jamie and Kristi, anytime someone compliments either of U, it is deserved, cause U are both classy, beautiful ladies!! Thank you (((((Mikey)))) But the answer is still nooooooooooooooooooo your blowup doll can not have her own profile hehehehe  
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... A lil focused discernment goes a very long way, in ANY/ALL communication, regardless of the particular format ...
... Genuine article? ... Or fool's gold? ... 
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Well Jamie and Kristi, anytime someone compliments either of U, it is deserved, cause U are both classy, beautiful ladies!! Thank you (((((Mikey)))) But the answer is still nooooooooooooooooooo your blowup doll can not have her own profile hehehehe 
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i thank everyone who emails and compliments me profusely. but as i've posted in this forum just last night... sometimes that just goes a rye. it goes a type of bread? i don't know if that's bad or not. at least it didn't go awry 
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