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Edited by
bry11calcool
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Mon 07/20/09 10:18 AM
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I have learned to pay more attention to actions than words.
Whether they are into you and have the capacity to love unconditionally is revealed in small actions. I encourage people to be just who they are and I do the same. Sure, some relationships are shorter that way, but isn't that the point? To find out sooner, rather than later? Forget about him, he is going to do whatever he can to justify his actions. Focus on what you do and what you think. Don't be overly suspicious, but look a little deeper, and talk to more people. See if the faults they admit to are the ones their friends see (we all have them you know) and see if he takes responsibility for them. But what the heck do I know?  Bry  
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What a jack ***
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Aww honey, I am sorry for you. Unfortunatly this is a common occurance. At least it was only two months even though the hurt and betrayal is still there. Wnen people are lonely and they make a connection, its like euphoria, and insta relationship sets in. I hope that doesnt offend anyone
 . More tears have been cried over my bar from both sexes, over this situation. Myself included. Patience is best for a budding relationship, milestones should not be crammed into a 6 month spread. His problem wasnt drugs or mental disorder, its was a lack of honesty and a failure to communicate. Read hes just not that into you, it is good, skip the movie though. Thats the sad part of "relationship oriented guys" they are so quick to materialize a relationship before a freindship sets in or real compatibality has been established. There is no harm in dateing, and mr. wonderfull is never all hes cracked up to be. I wish you better success and happiness next time 
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Edited by
alternativa
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Wed 07/22/09 05:36 PM
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UNCONVENTIONAL >
 The following needs to be etched in stone somewhere! Thats the sad part of "relationship oriented guys" they are so quick to materialize a relationship before a freindship sets in or real compatibality has been established. There is no harm in dateing, and mr. wonderfull is never all hes cracked up to be. It seems like everyone's wanting an instant relationship without the groundwork and this is why so many fail. |
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that is very long and one day i inted to read it Dude. 
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been there, he's not worth your pain. hope you feel better soon.
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UNCONVENTIONAL > The following needs to be etched in stone somewhere! Thats the sad part of "relationship oriented guys" they are so quick to materialize a relationship before a freindship sets in or real compatibality has been established. There is no harm in dateing, and mr. wonderfull is never all hes cracked up to be. It seems like everyone's wanting an instant relationship without the groundwork and this is why so many fail. Wow! I agree. This just clarified something for me from a past relationship. I'm glad you reposted it, I hadn't caught it the first time. OP.......Sounds like you have your head on straight and this guy did not. Good luck to you! |
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UNCONVENTIONAL > The following needs to be etched in stone somewhere! Thats the sad part of "relationship oriented guys" they are so quick to materialize a relationship before a freindship sets in or real compatibality has been established. There is no harm in dateing, and mr. wonderfull is never all hes cracked up to be. It seems like everyone's wanting an instant relationship without the groundwork and this is why so many fail. Wow! I agree. This just clarified something for me from a past relationship. I'm glad you reposted it, I hadn't caught it the first time. OP.......Sounds like you have your head on straight and this guy did not. Good luck to you! Thanx it took me awhile to learn that particular lesson. Its almost a mantra now 
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Remember, this is an opinion and the way I see it only from what you have said.
1. Like an earlier post said, he's a player and got busted. 2. He was telling you the truth. or 3. He realised he was falling in love with you and it made him face some hidden qualities he didn't realise had and it scared him. The girl you described gave it away. You sound like a wonderful and mature woman whom has her priorities in order. Very good example of marriage material. He is getting older and wants to stay young without facing the maturity aspects. Your relationship very well may have woke him up to the fact that he's not 17 anymore and it shook him. Hence the it's not you it's me statement and the teenage groupy acting girl. It's only my opinion and I could be completely wrong. Only he knows the rwal reasons for doing what he did and you are left to try and figure it out. My advice is not to. Learn from it. I commend you on your journey. Hartache is very tough to overcome. You are obviously alot stronger than you give yourself credit for. Any guy would be blessed to spend time with you. You didn't lose him,,,,,,,,,,,,,,he lost you. Cheers, 
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Remember, this is an opinion and the way I see it only from what you have said. 1. Like an earlier post said, he's a player and got busted. 2. He was telling you the truth. or 3. He realised he was falling in love with you and it made him face some hidden qualities he didn't realise had and it scared him. The girl you described gave it away. You sound like a wonderful and mature woman whom has her priorities in order. Very good example of marriage material. He is getting older and wants to stay young without facing the maturity aspects. Your relationship very well may have woke him up to the fact that he's not 17 anymore and it shook him. Hence the it's not you it's me statement and the teenage groupy acting girl. It's only my opinion and I could be completely wrong. Only he knows the rwal reasons for doing what he did and you are left to try and figure it out. My advice is not to. Learn from it. I commend you on your journey. Hartache is very tough to overcome. You are obviously alot stronger than you give yourself credit for. Any guy would be blessed to spend time with you. You didn't lose him,,,,,,,,,,,,,,he lost you. Cheers, Very well put, especially the last. 
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I am sorry this happened to you. He is definitely a player. I had an similar situation with someone I lived with years ago. I came home after my mother passed away, to have a phone call from his "girlfriend". I was shocked. He was a pathological liar and a very sick person. Consider yourself lucky this relationship didn't last longer. Best of luck to you/
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Wow! What a coward. When IS a good time to introduce the kids? I'm wondering that too. I suppose, never? You're better off without him. Snake in the grass. Best of luck to you.
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