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Why am I more attracted to some women than others? Some women spark intense passion in me, while others simply don't. Why?
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Edited by
Winx
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Sun 07/19/09 04:23 PM
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It's called the "Law of Attraction".
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Preference
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Tell me more about this Law...
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Tell me more about this Law... The Law states that you will be wildly attracted to women that won't bother to give you the time of day. You will, in turn, NOT be attracted to someone who could make you very happy for the rest of your life. |
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from a biological standpoint, prevailing theories say some of the foundations of beauty would be symmetry, (particularly facial), proportion, and overall healthy appearance. these are things even very young babies can recognize. psychology would add that your life experiences have a significant affect on what you find attractive and may even modify or override the original "programming".
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Why am I more attracted to some women than others? Some women spark intense passion in me, while others simply don't. Why? It's a mix between visually-appealing elements, personality-based elements, and probably pherenome-based attraction as well. But then again, who knows? |
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It's preference, we all have a preference as to what we like, what gets our motor running, floats our boat, makes our skirt fly....
We have a certain kind of person we are attracted to, most of us repeat that pattern. 
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Well... there have been several scientific studies that have gone on to prove that "attraction" is a wee bit more than a matter of preferences only. There are certain bio-chemical changes that take place that determine one is attracted to another or not.
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Edited by
daytime
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Sun 07/19/09 09:57 PM
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Why am I more attracted to some women than others? Some women spark intense passion in me, while others simply don't. Why? This is a great question. I have the same question about why some men spark my attention and some do not!!! There are many theories on this but and you can read them all but does not make a person more rationale. 
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Tell me more about this Law... The Law states that you will be wildly attracted to women that won't bother to give you the time of day. You will, in turn, NOT be attracted to someone who could make you very happy for the rest of your life. God that is SO true, for both sexes! WTH? 
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Typically people are attracted to who they believe is the healthiest, fittest mate for them for making children.
Be it concious or not. Thats what science says. Unfortunately, all are not sane, and alot of our pickers are broken. |
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Typically people are attracted to who they believe is the healthiest, fittest mate for them for making children. Be it concious or not. Thats what science says. Unfortunately, all are not sane, and alot of our pickers are broken. What if you're done making children? |
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Well... there have been several scientific studies that have gone on to prove that "attraction" is a wee bit more than a matter of preferences only. There are certain bio-chemical changes that take place that determine one is attracted to another or not. It's complicated enough as it is ... bio-chemical changes or just getting the hots, either way same effect. |
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Tell me more about this Law... The Law states that you will be wildly attracted to women that won't bother to give you the time of day. You will, in turn, NOT be attracted to someone who could make you very happy for the rest of your life. God that is SO true, for both sexes! WTH?
It's simply not wanting what we know could be good for us. We want what we can't really have. That whole " ideal " of perfection or ' the total package ' that all the fairy tales ( well...except for the Grimm's Fairy Tales ) have told us that we can have. Ever hear of the Princess falling in love with the frumpy guy who treats her like a queen?? Nope. It's always Fair Haired, Handsome Prince Charming. The Studliest man In The Kingdom. Just once, I wanted to hear a Fairy tale that ends with that p*ick getting eaten by the Dragon. The reality is, the studliest dude or the most beautiful woman are most likely gonna be completely vapid, self centered and egotistical because they have always gotten what they wanted because of how good they look. |
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Typically people are attracted to who they believe is the healthiest, fittest mate for them for making children. Be it concious or not. Thats what science says. Unfortunately, all are not sane, and alot of our pickers are broken. Is the picker broken? Or is it aimed at the fairy tale and just needs a bit of windage adjustment. |
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Tell me more about this Law... The Law states that you will be wildly attracted to women that won't bother to give you the time of day. You will, in turn, NOT be attracted to someone who could make you very happy for the rest of your life. God that is SO true, for both sexes! WTH?
It's simply not wanting what we know could be good for us. We want what we can't really have. That whole " ideal " of perfection or ' the total package ' that all the fairy tales ( well...except for the Grimm's Fairy Tales ) have told us that we can have. Ever hear of the Princess falling in love with the frumpy guy who treats her like a queen?? Nope. It's always Fair Haired, Handsome Prince Charming. The Studliest man In The Kingdom. Just once, I wanted to hear a Fairy tale that ends with that p*ick getting eaten by the Dragon. The reality is, the studliest dude or the most beautiful woman are most likely gonna be completely vapid, self centered and egotistical because they have always gotten what they wanted because of how good they look. Except for Beauty and the Beast. Always my personal favortie. No joke.
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Tell me more about this Law... The Law states that you will be wildly attracted to women that won't bother to give you the time of day. You will, in turn, NOT be attracted to someone who could make you very happy for the rest of your life. God that is SO true, for both sexes! WTH?
It's simply not wanting what we know could be good for us. We want what we can't really have. That whole " ideal " of perfection or ' the total package ' that all the fairy tales ( well...except for the Grimm's Fairy Tales ) have told us that we can have. Ever hear of the Princess falling in love with the frumpy guy who treats her like a queen?? Nope. It's always Fair Haired, Handsome Prince Charming. The Studliest man In The Kingdom. Just once, I wanted to hear a Fairy tale that ends with that p*ick getting eaten by the Dragon. The reality is, the studliest dude or the most beautiful woman are most likely gonna be completely vapid, self centered and egotistical because they have always gotten what they wanted because of how good they look. Except for Beauty and the Beast. Always my personal favortie. No joke.
True. But that was one story out of hundreds. Trust me. Being the Beast sucks. |
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Tell me more about this Law... The Law states that you will be wildly attracted to women that won't bother to give you the time of day. You will, in turn, NOT be attracted to someone who could make you very happy for the rest of your life. This is part of the reason I deleted my profile. I noticed this. |
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Edited by
snarkytwain
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Sun 07/19/09 10:24 PM
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I know. Believe it or not. I totally know.
After all, the women are ALWAYS skinny and beautiful. ALWAYS. And the ones that aren't? They're the evil ones. It's not one-sided, babes. Not at all. |
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