True enough. Haven;t looked at it that way.

Well done.

But then again...I kinda think that the " Beautiful Princess " is skinny because that's the way the girl's imagined them.

Prince Charming is actually pretty much described as The Studliest Dude In The Entire Kingdom.

We should start going after those who are the biggest turn off for us.

Perhaps we should...but we all know it doesn't work that way.

There absolutely HAS to be some kind of attraction. If there isn't, then even the greatest personality will do absolutely nothing.

Some studies state it has to do with the way a person smells, not perfume or a smell you can even detect, that causes the attraction.

See, here's the thing. You go out to ANY publlic place, (not just bars but grocery stores, coffee places, wherever), and who are the girls the guys are looking at? The skinny ones with the big boobs. That's why girls think that's beauty.

Not picking on you, just giving the female pov.



I actually did that. I did. To see if it would work.

It didn't. Why? Because no matter how much I enjoyed his company, I wasn't attracted to him. And that was both something I couldn't help and needed. But I can say I tried.

It's called Pheremones.

Because you just do...there, settled.

Depends on the guy. I may take a look at the skinny chick with the big boobs...but chances are she's gonna be the one with guys drooling all over her and basically trying to c*ck block all the other guys.

Me?? I'll be the guy over there>> who is just people watching and noticing the women who aren't getting all that much attention.

If this theory is true then it would not make a difference if you are attractive or unattractive unless people that are attractive smell differently.

Now that's called the vicious circle!

sounds normal to me

Not necessarily. It's more like the pheremones are different for different people.

Some people wouldn't be attracted to tall and thin, while others would be.

The pheremones sent by people who look a certain way do not necessarily attract everyone of the opposite sex.

It's sadly funny how that works isn't it?

See, here's how a woman reads that: "I'll LOOK at the pretty girl, but I have no chances (c**k block), so I SETTLE for the girls I may have a chance with."

Doesn't change the fact that either way, EITHER gender, those of us who are average aren't considered good enough.

It seriosuly is just how it is.

But in my case, it's not " settling " because I'm not trying for them in the first place.

I am looking for something specific, even if I can't totally define exactly what that is.

The thing is...if more of the " average " actually looked at the " average "...then average would no longer be merely average.

But, and be honest here, if you thought you had a chance with the skinny models, would you try? Are they not the first choice?

I'm not being facetius here... I'm honestly wondering. And I'll answer my own question, too,to be fair. From a female pov of course.

YES I need to be attracted, but the whole "Prince Charming" look has NEVER attracted me. Honestly. Never. I have this thing against them, actually. It's probably a deep-rooted physchological thing from my past, I'll admit. But the fact remains...

ETA: You're right about the average looking at the average. In my expereince, while average women have a pretty good understanding of their "status" (and many even a lower one), average men tend to have a pretty high opinion of themselves anyway. So... ya know...

Wow!
What an Excellent Read ya'll.

This is a tough one to answer without divulging a bit of personal information that I don't really want to broadcast in the forums.

To be completely honest, I would probably go up and talk to her, be friendly, in a bar type place, offer to buy a drink, but I wouldn't be looking to date her. I know that's gonna be very hard to believe, but it's the God's honest truth.

Glad you like it.

It's nice to have a thread that makes a person think occasionally.

I'll totally accept that. I'm not one to pry into personal issues, at all.

Here's a question -- ya ever notice the big ape guys have the tiny skinny women as wives in TV shows? Why IS that anyway?

And yeah, it's awesome to think sometimes.