Topic: Constructive criticism/advice wanted
Law_Addict's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:16 PM
Ok. It has been some time since I have been in a relationship and right now, I just don't feel I have the confidence to find the right person. Does anyone have any advice on how to build themselves back up from square one?

JustAmy's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:23 PM
Right there with ya Hun, it takes time. Hang in there!!

snarkytwain's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:24 PM
Find yourself.

I know. Cliched. But seriously... and this is coming from someone who's just about working on her PHD in this... it's the only way to gain any confidence.

Find yourself. THEN you can be proud of who you are. flowerforyou

southern_bee's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:28 PM
yeah what snarky said if you dont love yourself ho can you show love and love another person and be happy together?

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:28 PM
Go to the Gym and work out and get focused

bikerbabe63's photo
Fri 07/17/09 09:30 PM
time out for yourself

Monier's photo
Fri 07/17/09 10:02 PM

Ok. It has been some time since I have been in a relationship and right now, I just don't feel I have the confidence to find the right person. Does anyone have any advice on how to build themselves back up from square one?



Stop caring what others think (how they criticize you). Develop a passion for something important to you. Find a place to volunteer some of your time.

Roco's photo
Fri 07/17/09 11:00 PM
nothing succeeds like success...start with small success...then build on that..it could be as small as saying hi to a pretty lady..then gradually progressing to a conversation..then eventually a phone #...' the thousand mile journey begins with the first step' ..and yours is just beginning

roko

vortecpowered's photo
Sat 07/18/09 02:07 AM
well, if the movie 'road trip' is accurate, you have to let some aquaintances use you for your car, smooth race relations with a black frat, then do a really big chick. then everyone will like you and you'll suddenly feel awesome about yourself.

spacekase's photo
Sat 07/18/09 02:49 AM
simply be urself in a manner that makes u happy. and just do it, dont think ur self into a hole.

afi2black's photo
Sat 07/18/09 02:58 AM
Try going out with friends and meet new people...

seamac's photo
Sat 07/18/09 05:54 PM

Ok. It has been some time since I have been in a relationship and right now, I just don't feel I have the confidence to find the right person. Does anyone have any advice on how to build themselves back up from square one?



You can't be at square one or you haven't learned anything...take what you have learned about what you need and want, don't compromise (don't let loneliness rule you) Be your best possible self and allow time.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/18/09 05:55 PM
Know thyself:smile:

Law_Addict's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:10 PM
I will work on these things. It will take time, but I feel I can overcome these problems. Speaking of overcoming problems, does anyone know any good hangout spots in the Barrett Parkway/Kennesaw area?

Sigiere's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:47 PM
I'm clueless as to what to do but, I can advize you on this, don't use alcohol as a confidence booster.



whew, I don't remember much but I do remember a certain lady and a Dennys we can never return to.

Take it slow. When you meet the right on and the chemistry is right, you won't have to worry about building yourself up. Iy'll happen naturally.

I learned this from experience.

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Sat 07/18/09 09:53 PM


Ok. It has been some time since I have been in a relationship and right now, I just don't feel I have the confidence to find the right person. Does anyone have any advice on how to build themselves back up from square one?



Stop caring what others think (how they criticize you). Develop a passion for something important to you. Find a place to volunteer some of your time.


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