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| Topic: How Long Would You Stay With Them? | |
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 13 years of my 17 year marriage...I know, WTF?  Why did I stay so long? Because I had hoped he would come around but as it turned out he found his affection elsewhere...surprise?!  No way would I ever make that mistake again! If that is the case the relationship needs to end.  
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I would wait a week or two, to see if things improved. Depending on the duration of the relationship prior to this event. If not, time to cut your losses and move on.
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love me,or hate me,but i don't do "ignore".it would take me abt 5 minutes to pack and leave.
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love me,or hate me,but i don't do "ignore".it would take me abt 5 minutes to pack and leave.
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whoot whoot
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Hmmmm what could be going on
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Well, I think that is a Symptom of the problem. You'd have to find out what the problem was and see if it can be fixed.
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i'd call them out. figure out the problem. either fix it or resolve to leave.
that is usually the sign of one of two things. stress.. or loss of love. that simple. one if fixable. one isn't. |
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No sex? Ok, I could deal with that. Sex isn't everything anyhow.
No holding hands, I can deal with that too. No cuddling or talking? Forget it, it's over. |
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Well, I think that is a Symptom of the problem. You'd have to find out what the problem was and see if it can be fixed. fiddle fix... wait a bit... No response. fiddle fix... wait a bit... No response. What then? How long do you wait? |
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No sex? Ok, I could deal with that. Sex isn't everything anyhow. No holding hands, I can deal with that too. No cuddling or talking? Forget it, it's over. Exactly. What's left, then. Nothing. Just a sense of being used or abused. |
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Edited by
AngelFireDream
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Tue 08/25/09 09:41 AM
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Well, I think that is a Symptom of the problem. You'd have to find out what the problem was and see if it can be fixed. fiddle fix... wait a bit... No response. fiddle fix... wait a bit... No response. What then? How long do you wait? Understood.... |
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No sex? Ok, I could deal with that. Sex isn't everything anyhow. No holding hands, I can deal with that too. No cuddling or talking? Forget it, it's over. Maybe add on to that sleeping the entire weekend (night and day) away most of the time when you are together of late.... |
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Well, I think that is a Symptom of the problem. You'd have to find out what the problem was and see if it can be fixed. fiddle fix... wait a bit... No response. fiddle fix... wait a bit... No response. What then? How long do you wait? Understood....
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Too bad sometimes it is difficult to reconcile what we know, common sense, and the emotions.
 
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Too bad sometimes it is difficult to reconcile what we know, common sense, and the emotions.
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10 years.
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