Topic: How Long Would You Stay With Them?
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 12:58 PM

In my case it was almost a year.
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MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 01:05 PM

done it for 2years before. Then found out he was cheating. mad would NEVER do it again, I would try to talk bout it an if I'm not getting any answers I would leave an not think twice about it.
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 01:12 PM

Been there, done that found out she was lookin for others, I left, thus the reason I'm seperated soon to be divorced.
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MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 01:36 PM


Been there, done that found out she was lookin for others, I left, thus the reason I'm seperated soon to be divorced.



:cry: flowerforyou


Me too, and as the saying goes...was the last to know, truly believed he would never do that.
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pokerface1200's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:10 PM

:smile:Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/lovebrokenheartNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingfrownBut they still said they love you:heart:What would happen?huhHow long could you stay with them?what
i would get rid of them and move on

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:27 PM


:smile:Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/lovebrokenheartNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingfrownBut they still said they love you:heart:What would happen?huhHow long could you stay with them?what
i would get rid of them and move on
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ColoradoSingleMom23's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:40 PM
I would wait a week or two, to see if things improved. Depending on the duration of the relationship prior to this event. If not, time to cut your losses and move on.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 03:06 PM

I would wait a week or two, to see if things improved. Depending on the duration of the relationship prior to this event. If not, time to cut your losses and move on.
flowerforyou

lspen43's photo
Thu 07/16/09 03:21 PM

:smile:Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/lovebrokenheartNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingfrownBut they still said they love you:heart:What would happen?huhHow long could you stay with them?what


what's the saying? "mend it, don't end it". It could be the other has a case of depression and can't give what they can't feel, or it could be hormonal, a drop in testosterone or estrogen would be possible. See a doctor or a counselor, try to work it out until it's exhausted. No one seems to get the "for better or worse, in sickness or in health, etc. and it's so much easier to jump to conclusions and "cop out". Jeez, they still said they love you. So, you stay until you know you have done everything you could to find the "spark" again.

darkowl1's photo
Thu 07/16/09 03:34 PM
i would discuss this deeply, and communicate with them at much deeper levels if they ment what they said about still loving me, for in most cases, yes, it might be at an end, but who are we that could be different from most cases......benefit of the doubt, then when all is lost, move on.....

lifestooshort6's photo
Thu 07/16/09 03:46 PM
frustrated 13 years of my 17 year marriage...I know, WTF? noway
Why did I stay so long? Because I had hoped he would come around but as it turned out he found his affection elsewhere...surprise?!ohwell

No way would I ever make that mistake again!
If that is the case the relationship needs to end.

flowerforyou

AngelFireDream's photo
Thu 07/16/09 03:49 PM
It would take as long as it took; in a long-term relationship, probably a matter of months, not years, though.

What would happen? After we split, he'd most likely be doing it to the next girl within the year, if not a matter of months. Some people don't change. ~shrugs shoulders~

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:04 PM


:smile:Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/lovebrokenheartNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingfrownBut they still said they love you:heart:What would happen?huhHow long could you stay with them?what


what's the saying? "mend it, don't end it". It could be the other has a case of depression and can't give what they can't feel, or it could be hormonal, a drop in testosterone or estrogen would be possible. See a doctor or a counselor, try to work it out until it's exhausted. No one seems to get the "for better or worse, in sickness or in health, etc. and it's so much easier to jump to conclusions and "cop out". Jeez, they still said they love you. So, you stay until you know you have done everything you could to find the "spark" again.
flowers

mcgilvrey21's photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:15 PM

:smile:Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/lovebrokenheartNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingfrownBut they still said they love you:heart:What would happen?huhHow long could you stay with them?what


Funny you should ask this. Im kinda playin this exact same game with my ex. He says he still loves me but doesnt show it in any way. So the answer remains to be seen...

TxsSun's photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:17 PM

:smile:Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/lovebrokenheartNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingfrownBut they still said they love you:heart:What would happen?huhHow long could you stay with them?what



scared I wouldn't scared

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Thu 07/16/09 06:23 PM



..i would have to agree, something is up..but you know cause you can sense it..now its time to play detective and see if you can find out what it is since they wont tell you



I wouldn't even waste my time. I'm sure to not like what I'm going to find. What then?

Nah, I'd just hit the road or tell her to hit the road.

bikerbabe63's photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:35 PM

Been there, done that found out she was lookin for others, I left, thus the reason I'm seperated soon to be divorced.
so sorryflowerforyou

no photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:39 PM

:smile:Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/lovebrokenheartNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingfrownBut they still said they love you:heart:What would happen?huhHow long could you stay with them?what


Probably not long at all. That's usually an indication of their pulling the plug on the relationship, before they actually come out and say they're pulling the plug on the relationship.

mark77's photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:43 PM

:smile:Let's say your partner suddenly stopped showing you affection/lovebrokenheartNo sex, cuddling, hand-holding, kissing, hugging, gifts, favors, anythingfrownBut they still said they love you:heart:What would happen?huhHow long could you stay with them?what


Oh hell, I stayed another 27 years,,,,slow learner, besides the kids were still at home.frustrated frustrated frustrated

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 06:47 PM

i would discuss this deeply, and communicate with them at much deeper levels if they ment what they said about still loving me, for in most cases, yes, it might be at an end, but who are we that could be different from most cases......benefit of the doubt, then when all is lost, move on.....
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