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Why do women say they want men to be honest and then get pissed when they are? This is completely from experience!
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It's because they DON'T want honesty, unless it's in THEIR favor.
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 Very good point!
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I prefer honesty...Im a big girl I can handle the truth whether I like it or not!
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Edited by
TexasScoundrel
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Wed 07/15/09 09:15 PM
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Because sometimes the truth hurts. She wants to think she's an adult and can take the truth and use it to learn and grow. But, she's still a selfish child that only wants what she wants at any given moment.
I wrote this BEFORE I saw the above post. I do not mean to imply that I'm talking about you. |
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ok negative one and negative two.. holy heck, did you ever stop to think honesty can be delivered in a way that doesn't slam someone? Or you could be right about some women not really wanting the truth but not all and some men are exactly the same... but let's just label all women b/c it's easier that way and will ensure that you are seen as negative and undesirable to date...
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Because sometimes the truth hurts. She wants to think she's an adult and can take the truth and use it to learn and grow. But, she's still a selfish child that only wants what she wants at any given moment. I wrote this BEFORE I saw the above post. I do not mean to imply that I'm talking about you. No worries ((Txs)) |
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I prefer honesty...Im a big girl I can handle the truth whether I like it or not!
When do you think the honesty is too much for people? |
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When do you think the honesty is too much for people? When it's about them. |
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ok negative one and negative two.. holy heck, did you ever stop to think honesty can be delivered in a way that doesn't slam someone? Or you could be right about some women not really wanting the truth but not all and some men are exactly the same... but let's just label all women b/c it's easier that way and will ensure that you are seen as negative and undesirable to date... I don't think I slam people with honesty. I try be nice if it is "bad news", but like I said this is my experience talking, I have just never dated or been married to anyone that really accepted honesty without being mad about it. |
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I prefer honesty...Im a big girl I can handle the truth whether I like it or not!
When do you think the honesty is too much for people? When it's put in a way that makes them feel bad,,honesty can be deliverd in a tactful,nice way,so as people are more receptive of it...J.M.O. |
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ok negative one and negative two.. holy heck, did you ever stop to think honesty can be delivered in a way that doesn't slam someone? Or you could be right about some women not really wanting the truth but not all and some men are exactly the same... but let's just label all women b/c it's easier that way and will ensure that you are seen as negative and undesirable to date... I don't think I slam people with honesty. I try be nice if it is "bad news", but like I said this is my experience talking, I have just never dated or been married to anyone that really accepted honesty without being mad about it. I didn't mean to infer that you did personally.. I meant some deliver the news in a really harsh way that wouldn't be accepted positively by anyone... |
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ok negative one and negative two.. holy heck, did you ever stop to think honesty can be delivered in a way that doesn't slam someone? Or you could be right about some women not really wanting the truth but not all and some men are exactly the same... but let's just label all women b/c it's easier that way and will ensure that you are seen as negative and undesirable to date... I don't think I slam people with honesty. I try be nice if it is "bad news", but like I said this is my experience talking, I have just never dated or been married to anyone that really accepted honesty without being mad about it. I didn't mean to infer that you did personally.. I meant some deliver the news in a really harsh way that wouldn't be accepted positively by anyone... Ok I just am not getting what the problem is, maybe it is just my choices in people. I don't know and probably will never really understand it.
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some people don't know how to accept it.. sometimes it's the delivery, sometimes it's that they may see theirself as different... It can be a lot of things, we will never understand the mind/emotions completely, we can only try to do what works for us and be around those that work for the way we live our lives..
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Because men don’t know how to be honest with out sounding like a jack ***.
No offence. |
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I want that honesty, honestly. It makes it so much easier and faster to kick them to the curb!!!
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Because men don’t know how to be honest with out sounding like a jack ***. No offence. None taken, I asked for it. |
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Okay ladies, what is the nice way to tell a girlfriend or wife that she is getting fat?
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I want that honesty, honestly. It makes it so much easier and faster to kick them to the curb!!!
Ok well I promise I will be honest, now where is my kick. 
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Honestly? This is another "why do women always" or "why do men always" thread and the reality is that neither gender "ALWAYS" does anything...
Just my humble opinion! 
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