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Topic: You know what I don't get???
Gumbyvs Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 2417	Wed 07/15/09 07:23 PM
And do ya guys have to say you don't want a fat woman? Geesh, maybe fat women don't want an opinionated man... Men may not like fat women but women don't like men with fat mouths either. Hey, my mouth isn't fat, its big boned!

Rdy4Wings Joined Mon 07/13/09 Posts: 4	Wed 07/15/09 07:24 PM
AhhA! your soo rite! this cracked me up!!

Gumbyvs Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 2417	Wed 07/15/09 07:25 PM
AhhA! your soo rite! this cracked me up!! Who was right?

fullmoonfairy Joined Mon 02/23/09 Posts: 1788	Wed 07/15/09 07:26 PM
Here's a good one for ya: I used to have a pretty detailed profile on one of the other sites. So a guy messaged me and introduced himself. Nice. But in his second e-mail he goes for the "So what are you looking for?"-schtick. I told him that I thought I'd laid it out pretty clearly in my profile. So he goes "Yeah, but those are just words". I mean for crying out loud...you want me to put on a mime costume and act it out for you??? Would you charge me if you did have to put the mime outfit on? Mime's are hot! See, I've just learned something about you. You're looking for a hot mime!!!

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 07/15/09 07:26 PM
Uh oh, we're not supposed to be childish on mingle? Wow, I think I missed the memo on that. im starting not to like mingle. alot of players here that are not serious about a relationship or want to wait a year or two to get to know you. seems like alot of lack of trust and game players Dude, you need to relax a bit. This site is for finding friends as well. And women are fickle, you can't just sweep em off their feet in a day, unless you pay the hourly rate. i been here every since it was justsayhi.i been here 2 years, i would say i been relaxing and still same old story. people are confused and not serious. and this world is getting no better. i dont know what to do anymore, i tried church, lets just say you have to be maried to get anywere and know them two years befor marriage. i dont drink so bars are out. im lost Well I've been on here since justsayhi and have yet to meet anyone in person, nor talk too seriously about dating. Consider this just another outlet, just like the bar, the proctologists office, and the abortion clinic.

Rdy4Wings Joined Mon 07/13/09 Posts: 4	Wed 07/15/09 07:27 PM
How many of you have run into members of the opposite sex at online dating sites that ask: "So what are you looking for?". I mean can't we just chat, meet, chat some more and figure that out when we get to it? Do we have to lay the ground rules before we even talk on the phone? Are people nowadays so afraid of relationships that they have to find out where they stand BEFORE they get out from behind the computer and talk to each other face to face? So besides the insightful information in your profile, what are you looking for? My point exactly! Why don't you talk to me and find out? I have had detailed profiles with what I like, what I don't like, what I'm looking for, what I'm NOT looking for...and guess what? I got asked the same question: "So what is it you're looking for?". So you see, it doesn't matter either way. shrug soo..i think its just a pretty stupid way for ppl to start a convo..not me! i just start out askin a bunch of fairly important questions.

Gumbyvs Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 2417	Wed 07/15/09 07:27 PM
Here's a good one for ya: I used to have a pretty detailed profile on one of the other sites. So a guy messaged me and introduced himself. Nice. But in his second e-mail he goes for the "So what are you looking for?"-schtick. I told him that I thought I'd laid it out pretty clearly in my profile. So he goes "Yeah, but those are just words". I mean for crying out loud...you want me to put on a mime costume and act it out for you??? Would you charge me if you did have to put the mime outfit on? Mime's are hot! See, I've just learned something about you. You're looking for a hot mime!!! Yea, best thing about dating a mime is she never talks! Worst part is, when she needs you to understand something, she can never get the point across and ends up beating you to death with an invisible shovel.

Rdy4Wings Joined Mon 07/13/09 Posts: 4	Wed 07/15/09 07:28 PM
And do ya guys have to say you don't want a fat woman? Geesh, maybe fat women don't want an opinionated man... Men may not like fat women but women don't like men with fat mouths either. Hey, my mouth isn't fat, its big boned! i am just now starting to do these message board things..meant to reply to someone else..but didnt do so..obviously! lol

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 07/15/09 07:30 PM
Uh oh, we're not supposed to be childish on mingle? Wow, I think I missed the memo on that. im starting not to like mingle. alot of players here that are not serious about a relationship or want to wait a year or two to get to know you. seems like alot of lack of trust and game players Dude, you need to relax a bit. This site is for finding friends as well. And women are fickle, you can't just sweep em off their feet in a day, unless you pay the hourly rate. i been here every since it was justsayhi.i been here 2 years, i would say i been relaxing and still same old story. people are confused and not serious. and this world is getting no better. i dont know what to do anymore, i tried church, lets just say you have to be maried to get anywere and know them two years befor marriage. i dont drink so bars are out. im lost Well I've been on here since justsayhi and have yet to meet anyone in person, nor talk too seriously about dating. Consider this just another outlet, just like the bar, the proctologists office, and the abortion clinic. i dont know what to do anymore, i tried church, lets just say you have to be maried to get anywere and know them two years befor marriage. i dont drink so bars are out. im lost

Gumbyvs Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 2417	Wed 07/15/09 07:30 PM Edited by Gumbyvs on Wed 07/15/09 07:32 PM
Asking important questions.... Oh the joys of dating. 1. Do you own/have more than 27 cats? 2. Is there a graveyard behind your house that contains anything but dead pets? 3. If you were a neurotic psycho with night terrors, would you tell me? 4. Does the shirt make me look frumpy?

Rockmybobbysocks Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 3961	Wed 07/15/09 07:32 PM
Asking important questions.... Oh the joys of dating. 1. Do you own/have more than 27 cats? 2. Is the a graveyard behind your house that contains anything but dead pets? 3. If you were a neurotic psycho with night terrors, would you tell me? 4. Does the shirt make me look frumpy? 1. no. 2. yes. 3. no. 4. yes. i heart you!

sxyswf Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 4	Wed 07/15/09 07:32 PM
THANK you! I totally agree. And we're the ones so eager to rush things. Actually, a lot of times when I'm asked that question, I stop the conversation right there, I am so tired of being asked that. God forbid we talk for a little bit.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Wed 07/15/09 07:32 PM
How many of you have run into members of the opposite sex at online dating sites that ask: "So what are you looking for?". I mean can't we just chat, meet, chat some more and figure that out when we get to it? Do we have to lay the ground rules before we even talk on the phone? Are people nowadays so afraid of relationships that they have to find out where they stand BEFORE they get out from behind the computer and talk to each other face to face? not me.i usually ask "so....what are you wearing?"

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 07/15/09 07:33 PM
going thru plenty of drama myself. It's been a hellish two days.

Gumbyvs Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 2417	Wed 07/15/09 07:34 PM
Asking important questions.... Oh the joys of dating. 1. Do you own/have more than 27 cats? 2. Is the a graveyard behind your house that contains anything but dead pets? 3. If you were a neurotic psycho with night terrors, would you tell me? 4. Does the shirt make me look frumpy? 1. no. 2. yes. 3. no. 4. yes. i heart you! 1. Sweet! 2. Ummm, what else is buried there? 3. Yea, but a neurotic psycho would say no too. 4. Damn you!

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Wed 07/15/09 07:35 PM
THANK you! I totally agree. And we're the ones so eager to rush things. Actually, a lot of times when I'm asked that question, I stop the conversation right there, I am so tired of being asked that. God forbid we talk for a little bit. hey i finally see you post!

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 07/15/09 07:35 PM
How many of you have run into members of the opposite sex at online dating sites that ask: "So what are you looking for?". I mean can't we just chat, meet, chat some more and figure that out when we get to it? Do we have to lay the ground rules before we even talk on the phone? Are people nowadays so afraid of relationships that they have to find out where they stand BEFORE they get out from behind the computer and talk to each other face to face? So besides the insightful information in your profile, what are you looking for? My point exactly! Why don't you talk to me and find out? I have had detailed profiles with what I like, what I don't like, what I'm looking for, what I'm NOT looking for...and guess what? I got asked the same question: "So what is it you're looking for?". So you see, it doesn't matter either way. shrug soo..i think its just a pretty stupid way for ppl to start a convo..not me! i just start out askin a bunch of fairly important questions. me to and im called blunt and rude cause i dont want to play games and want to be serious and know real things. its so iritateing

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Wed 07/15/09 07:35 PM
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littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Wed 07/15/09 07:39 PM
THANK you! I totally agree. And we're the ones so eager to rush things. Actually, a lot of times when I'm asked that question, I stop the conversation right there, I am so tired of being asked that. God forbid we talk for a little bit. well i also want to rush things. i mean ive compromised a little and slowed down but still getting no were. i guess nice guys dont finish at all

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Wed 07/15/09 07:45 PM
How many of you have run into members of the opposite sex at online dating sites that ask: "So what are you looking for?". I mean can't we just chat, meet, chat some more and figure that out when we get to it? Do we have to lay the ground rules before we even talk on the phone? Are people nowadays so afraid of relationships that they have to find out where they stand BEFORE they get out from behind the computer and talk to each other face to face? In my opinion people ask that question for mainly three reason, "So what are you looking for?" 1- Are you looking for love? 2- Are you looking for friendship? 3- Are you looking for sex? You may have sometimes other variances to the question but that's about it.