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HANDS OFF THE TALL MEN, girls! Save them for us tall chicks! It's only fair!   hey toots be fair to the rest of us vertically challenged  all men are fair game 
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Fran is the PERFECT size for me.   betcha say that to all the girls hey you do say that to all the girls but you can tell me that today and everyday I thought I did it every morning and I hope you wood continue to do so |
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A person should be judges by their heart and personality. There should also be some mutual attraction. |
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Edited by
franshade
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Fri 07/10/09 02:33 PM
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**Not even going back and cleaning up this thread.  Going forward, please everyone try to remain on topic** sorry - hanging my head in shame but before I'm done Geek - I'm pretty short 5'7...oh well. Always wished I were as tall as some of my friends 6ft-6ft 4. But you always see greener grass on the other side, I was talking to one of my friends a few years ago I had always admired how open and sociable he was with strangers...as well as his height. On the flip side he told me he wished he had my IQ and my agility. care to elaborate |
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I'm sorry lilbug
 
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(((fran))) and (((yellowrose))) No worries, we all get a bit carried away at times.
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For the most part it is our taught prejudices that make us repulsed by others anyway. If we can realize this and put what we have been taught aside we can experience greater loves than if we hold to those shallow teachings and try to please others by our choices. how about we all just gouge out our eyes and then we won't be able to judge by appearance. of course, then we'd just find some other way to judge people. "i don't like the way her voice sounds" or "he smells funny" or "i don't like the texture of his skin". bottom line, we pick and choose by what we find desirable. and we dismiss those that don't meet the criteria. . . . |
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**Not even going back and cleaning up this thread. Going forward, please everyone try to remain on topic** sorry - hanging my head in shame but before I'm done Geek - I'm pretty short 5'7...oh well. Always wished I were as tall as some of my friends 6ft-6ft 4. But you always see greener grass on the other side, I was talking to one of my friends a few years ago I had always admired how open and sociable he was with strangers...as well as his height. On the flip side he told me he wished he had my IQ and my agility. care to elaborate Elaborate on what? Back to the smell thing, it's a evolutionary adaptation. There was a research study done and women and men preferred the smell of people who had different MHC haplotypes from themselves, (the more different MHC haplotypes a person inherits the more pathogens their immune system recognizes). Also smell, more than any other sense is connected to memories. So a smell you remember during a great sexual encounter will likely elicit arousal when you encounter it again. Oh yeah back to the whole point, does size matter. yes, to me it does. Not a fan of obese women nor twiggy anorexic women. Women that I get along with very well emotionally and intellectually but not physically attracted to....I call them friends. Really, what is the difference between a close friend relationship and a dating type relationship? It's sexual intimacy. It's not shallow to care about appearance, it's shallow to ONLY care about appearance. It's one of many things I care about. |
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It certainly does. Size can be a strong sign of laziness and apathy toward health. Of course, me being in the health & fitness field makes it pretty impossible for me to not care.
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It certainly does. Size can be a strong sign of laziness and apathy toward health. Of course, me being in the health & fitness field makes it pretty impossible for me to not care. OH, I workout everyday And eat healthy.. |
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It certainly does. Size can be a strong sign of laziness and apathy toward health. Of course, me being in the health & fitness field makes it pretty impossible for me to not care. OH, I workout everyday And eat healthy.. I just work. working is making me to work out. and I eat whatever is available not to be hungry. 
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It certainly does. Size can be a strong sign of laziness and apathy toward health. Of course, me being in the health & fitness field makes it pretty impossible for me to not care. OH, I workout everyday And eat healthy.. I just work. working is making me to work out. and I eat whatever is available not to be hungry. Hi Atlantis, good to see you again. I don't like that pic You scare me  |
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At 5'4, I am not tall at all, so I've never had an issue with finding a guy that's not tall enough. However, I do tend to like taller men! You are so lucky im 5'6" and always wear heels so its tuff. I always give a 100% honest try though even if the guy is shorter then me. I can say that for myself. Yeah.. even with heels I don't really have an issue  .
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Try being 5'2...
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You will find many people who will say size does not matter, but in the end.....it almost always does. That's just being real.
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I see nothing wrong with having preferences (as long as people aren't mean about it)
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I see nothing wrong with having preferences (as long as people aren't mean about it) Yep, I agree. I didn't use to, but then I had a little embarrassing moment for myself when I just could not force myself to be attracted to someone who was very very large. It wasn't JUST that, there were a few other things as well, but the physical part of it did play a big role. I realized then, that I couldn't very well place any blame on someone if they weren't attracted to me as well, considering I am many pounds overweight myself. If that alone turns them away from the thought of a date, then I totally understand. The rude people annoy me, but I've gotten used to that. I wouldn't be attracted to someone who is mean spirited even if I was thin. |
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I see nothing wrong with having preferences (as long as people aren't mean about it) Yep, I agree. I didn't use to, but then I had a little embarrassing moment for myself when I just could not force myself to be attracted to someone who was very very large. It wasn't JUST that, there were a few other things as well, but the physical part of it did play a big role. I realized then, that I couldn't very well place any blame on someone if they weren't attracted to me as well, considering I am many pounds overweight myself. If that alone turns them away from the thought of a date, then I totally understand. The rude people annoy me, but I've gotten used to that. I wouldn't be attracted to someone who is mean spirited even if I was thin. believe it or not...it's not any easier for skinny people. even the barbie and ken look a likes...they get stereotyped as well. the grass isn't always greener on the other side |
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believe it or not...it's not any easier for skinny people. even the barbie and ken look a likes...they get stereotyped as well. the grass isn't always greener on the other side Good Point!
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Awwwwww crap, I didn't mean to be a thread stopper....carry on!!
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